I have been dating libra for about 5/6 years now I have met him in school and we had really kicked it off when we had summer break we were good friends fast forward to now I initiated a conversation with him a few days ago and we FaceTime and messages are there a lot but he recently told me about a female friend That he has been doing a lot with I honestly don’t want to waste my time because since we haven’t talked in five years I had a baby with someone else and I honestly don’t want to start anything especially if he doesn’t he is single he told me that And in December on the 14th he is coming back home where I am here in Cleveland to spend three weeks with me we have talk sexual especially when he’s drunk I just hope that he isn’t developing feelings for his friend because they went out to eat yesterday,and he also brought up how much Stuff they have to do Today so this was all this morning when we were talking on the phone he told me this I got upset And I asked him where there any other people single at his baseand I asked him where there any other people single at his base But then I texted him and apologized and I told him how I felt about him which I never told him and I was also asking him where did he necessarily wants to go from here because he is coming to see me in December and I don’t want to be just a booty call for a few weeks he hasn’t texted me all day so I think he’s upset If he messages me I’m not gonna bring the female up I’m just want to act like I’ve been taking care of business because I don’t want to seem clingy or two obsessed when I actually am lol if he messages me I’m not gonna bring the female up I’m just want to act like I’ve been taking care of business because I don’t want to seem clingy I was always the girl who got hit on and ended up in relationships I wanted him to ask me when we was in school
Libra man in the army

you're a mess. this guy is only going to make things worse.
get yourself back on your feet and in a position of strength first. you even said you don't want a relationship but you don't want to be a booty call.
for your sake, put it down and back away slowly.
get yourself back on your feet and in a position of strength first. you even said you don't want a relationship but you don't want to be a booty call.
for your sake, put it down and back away slowly.
The chances of you just being are booty call for him is 100% . There are tons of single people on Army bases so there's your answer. He is seeing this girl and probably others as well. You just had a baby with another guy so I doubt him being in your town for 2 weeks is going to make him latch on to you and your baby, even if you do have sex. It takes a lot to make a Libra want to commit to someone and from what you wrote above I don't see this happening for you.
You seem pathetic. Are you? What is with the insecurity, jealousy and neediness? There are plenty of LOCAL men whom you can begin befriending and dating. But what you'd rather do is SET YOURSELF UP to be a booty call with someone who's distant and barely know SMDH
Get a grip on your life and your emotions so that you can THINK CLEARLY for yourself. Damn.
Get a grip on your life and your emotions so that you can THINK CLEARLY for yourself. Damn.

Please take care of yourself and your child. Get a good job. Find a decent partner. This isn't the one.
I agree about getting a good job; but since you just had a baby I would put all of my attention on that.

a lot of red flags but i mean i don't know the connection between you guys.
Also yes put your baby first; also I don't think having a baby means not making time for your romantic life if you're stable/secure in your life.
Also yes put your baby first; also I don't think having a baby means not making time for your romantic life if you're stable/secure in your life.
Posted by blvckphvse
Why do women reproduce if they ain't gonna put their kid before finding a new dick. Nothing grinds my gears so much as this -_-
How am I not putting my child before me ,you’ve crossed the line foreal . My son is fine ,and I don’t date around I’ve been in a controlling abusive relationship with the father of my child and I am setting myself free for once ,he had to much control of my happiness and I’m not asking you to be Sympathetic I’m just asking you to be understanding that my friend that I was talking to a knew for a whileAnd on top of that he wasn’t no new dick LOL we’ve always felt the same way about each other it is that time and location separated us
Posted by stillstillwater
a lot of red flags but i mean i don't know the connection between you guys.
Also yes put your baby first; also I don't think having a baby means not making time for your romantic life if you're stable/secure in your life.
Thanks for your advice .I am a full time mother to my little one ,I am the main provider ,I am not looking for anyone to feel the void of his absent father,I do not receive assistance for my child , and he’s my only child. I also do know the negative affects of bringing someone around your child that you don’t know that want to be around that’s why I chose a friend that I already knew I am very reluctant on meeting someone new is scary but I thought I could trust this person is since I know I can’t that’s why the question was asked.
Posted by sweetpea2977
You seem pathetic. Are you? What is with the insecurity, jealousy and neediness? There are plenty of LOCAL men whom you can begin befriending and dating. But what you'd rather do is SET YOURSELF UP to be a booty call with someone who's distant and barely know SMDH
Get a grip on your life and your emotions so that you can THINK CLEARLY for yourself. Damn.
Ok get a grip on yourself How am I being needy and insecure and jealous and how am I being set up to be a booty call if I’ve already knew this person you need to get a grip on your life and your emotions so you can think clearly maybe you need to read clearly too just because I asked a question I’m supposed to be needy and insecure and jealous that even make sense LOL you are definitely needy and insecure and jealous to become an online post to only say that so STFU

Posted by blvckphvse
Why do women reproduce if they ain't gonna put their kid before finding a new dick. Nothing grinds my gears so much as this -_-
Should be a punishable offence 😡
Add: What kid wants to see their mother with some other bloke?

Posted by sweetpea2977
You seem pathetic. Are you? What is with the insecurity, jealousy and neediness? There are plenty of LOCAL men whom you can begin befriending and dating. But what you'd rather do is SET YOURSELF UP to be a booty call with someone who's distant and barely know SMDH
Get a grip on your life and your emotions so that you can THINK CLEARLY for yourself. Damn.
Did you have to insult a woman who is 19 with 5 y/old baby who had been dating a man for (same?) 5 years thus she didn’t have time to grow ta fuck up and all that she typed sounds like she was going trough withdraw trying hard to not to THINK! And she succeeded!
She is probably passed out somewhere by now and won’t find her way back here ever again...and yes! Her child must had been raised by social services. I don’t see her able to do so...do you?

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by blvckphvse
Why do women reproduce if they ain't gonna put their kid before finding a new dick. Nothing grinds my gears so much as this -_-
Should be a punishable offence 😡
Add: What kid wants to see their mother with some other bloke?click to expand
Mine...🥳😂

Posted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by blvckphvse
Why do women reproduce if they ain't gonna put their kid before finding a new dick. Nothing grinds my gears so much as this -_-
Should be a punishable offence 😡
Add: What kid wants to see their mother with some other bloke?
Mine...🥳😂click to expand
Not many young kids like that....it feels weird to them and as I've heard it said "gross"

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by blvckphvse
Why do women reproduce if they ain't gonna put their kid before finding a new dick. Nothing grinds my gears so much as this -_-
Should be a punishable offence 😡
Add: What kid wants to see their mother with some other bloke?
Mine...🥳😂
Not many young kids like that....it feels weird to them and as I've heard it said "gross"click to expand
Maybe it’s because she is 25 and her father is a Capricorn? Lmao

Posted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by blvckphvse
Why do women reproduce if they ain't gonna put their kid before finding a new dick. Nothing grinds my gears so much as this -_-
Should be a punishable offence 😡
Add: What kid wants to see their mother with some other bloke?
Mine...🥳😂
Not many young kids like that....it feels weird to them and as I've heard it said "gross"
Maybe it’s because she is 25 and her father is a Capricorn? Lmaoclick to expand
Yes, makes sense, although it's still her dad

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by blvckphvse
Why do women reproduce if they ain't gonna put their kid before finding a new dick. Nothing grinds my gears so much as this -_-
Should be a punishable offence 😡
Add: What kid wants to see their mother with some other bloke?
Mine...🥳😂
Not many young kids like that....it feels weird to them and as I've heard it said "gross"
Maybe it’s because she is 25 and her father is a Capricorn? Lmao
Yes, makes sense, although it's still her dadclick to expand
She is smart enough to know that but also smart over the top to had been seen me miserable and wishing I wasn’t. She told me when she was 18 that she wants to see me happy WITH him or WITHOUT him! I was shocked.
She loves him but he had annoyed her enough for her to understand ME! Can you imagine? 🤔
Btw...ex texted me last night that he is coming to the party alone...🤦♀️
Posted by JustkaylaPosted by sweetpea2977
You seem pathetic. Are you? What is with the insecurity, jealousy and neediness? There are plenty of LOCAL men whom you can begin befriending and dating. But what you'd rather do is SET YOURSELF UP to be a booty call with someone who's distant and barely know SMDH
Get a grip on your life and your emotions so that you can THINK CLEARLY for yourself. Damn.
Ok get a grip on yourself How am I being needy and insecure and jealous and how am I being set up to be a booty call if I’ve already knew this person you need to get a grip on your life and your emotions so you can think clearly maybe you need to read clearly too just because I asked a question I’m supposed to be needy and insecure and jealous that even make sense LOL you are definitely needy and insecure and jealous to become an online post to only say that so STFUclick to expand
You stfu you dumb bird lol
You ARE needy, insecure and pathetic. Dumb f**ktard.
Posted by GemitatiPosted by sweetpea2977
You seem pathetic. Are you? What is with the insecurity, jealousy and neediness? There are plenty of LOCAL men whom you can begin befriending and dating. But what you'd rather do is SET YOURSELF UP to be a booty call with someone who's distant and barely know SMDH
Get a grip on your life and your emotions so that you can THINK CLEARLY for yourself. Damn.
Did you have to insult a woman who is 19 with 5 y/old baby who had been dating a man for (same?) 5 years thus she didn’t have time to grow ta fuck up and all that she typed sounds like she was going trough withdraw trying hard to not to THINK! And she succeeded!
She is probably passed out somewhere by now and won’t find her way back here ever again...and yes! Her child must had been raised by social services. I don’t see her able to do so...do you?click to expand
The ONLY insulting thing I see here is what the OP originally posted 🤷
And your Obviously bored and ugly behind a computer

Posted by sweetpea2977Posted by Justkayla
And your Obviously bored and ugly behind a computer
Haha. You wish!click to expand
At least it was short...🤦♀️😂

Posted by ideatitPosted by sweetpea2977Posted by JustkaylaPosted by sweetpea2977
You seem pathetic. Are you? What is with the insecurity, jealousy and neediness? There are plenty of LOCAL men whom you can begin befriending and dating. But what you'd rather do is SET YOURSELF UP to be a booty call with someone who's distant and barely know SMDH
Get a grip on your life and your emotions so that you can THINK CLEARLY for yourself. Damn.
Ok get a grip on yourself How am I being needy and insecure and jealous and how am I being set up to be a booty call if I’ve already knew this person you need to get a grip on your life and your emotions so you can think clearly maybe you need to read clearly too just because I asked a question I’m supposed to be needy and insecure and jealous that even make sense LOL you are definitely needy and insecure and jealous to become an online post to only say that so STFU
You stfu you dumb bird lol
You ARE needy, insecure and pathetic. Dumb f**ktard.
how ironic is that your tag name is sweet pea yet youre being awful calling someone a fucktard and everything else... your not giving any kind of advice youre just tearing this person downclick to expand
You mean everyone who has names like PrettyPrincess are actually pretty and have royal blood? Hmmm...🤔
Posted by GemitatiPosted by sweetpea2977Posted by Justkayla
And your Obviously bored and ugly behind a computer
Haha. You wish!
At least it was short...🤦♀️😂click to expand
😂😂😂😂
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