Libra man is "unsure" of what he wants

Him: 24M. Sun = Libra. Venus Rx = Virgo.
Me: 22F. Sun = Pisces. Venus = Aries.

Quick background: Boyfriend and I met on Tinder about 10 weeks ago. We have went on an average of 1 official dates a week (him going out of his way to make a nice evening, buying my dinner, etc.). Everything seems to have been going great. I wasn't 100% convinced I was into him at first but over time I started liking him more and more. He even introduced me to his family and all his friends early on.

Two weekends ago after a great date night he stopped contacting me. I could tell something was up so I asked what was wrong after five days of barely hearing from him. He said that he was really unsure about how he felt. I convinced him to meet up with me for drinks and fully expects him to break up with me.

When we met up I opened up and told him that I really enjoyed spending time with him. He wasn't able to pinpoint what he had been worrying about. Other than "maybe we don't have enough in common-- but, no, I really enjoy spending time with you. I don't know what I am feeling..."

We had drinks, laughed, talked about life, and opened up about deeper issues than we had before. It was all-in-all enjoyable. At the end of the night I asked, "are you sure about your decision [to break up]?" and he said, "no, not at all. I don't know what I want now". We talked awhile longer in his pickup and decided to both think about if we should continue things. He wants to get some advice from his dad (d'aww). We agreed to meet up and talk about it in a week or so.

Question: What is going on? I know that our honeymoon stage is fading (probably exacerbated by how stressed and tired he has been from work), but things are going well. Is he maybe just over thinking things?

One, YOU MET ON TINDER.

Two, this is typical Libra behavior. Happens all the time.

They rush in, introduce you to the family prematurely, and then omg this is getting real. Omg is this what I really want? Is she really the one I want to be in a relationship with??

Then they rush out as fast as they rushed in.

I don't think where you met matters so long as you both are looking for the same thing. No need to be judgmental.

the honeymoon stage doesn't fade after 10 weeks, stressed with work or not.

i read this yesterday. it might help?

http://thoughtcatalog.com/sabrina-alexis/2016/01/this-is-why-men-start-to-pull-away-when-you-want-them-the-most/

Posted by rockyroadicecream
One, YOU MET ON TINDER.

Two, this is typical Libra behavior. Happens all the time.

They rush in, introduce you to the family prematurely, and then omg this is getting real. Omg is this what I really want? Is she really the one I want to be in a relationship with??

Then they rush out as fast as they rushed in.

My sentiments exactly. Looking for love on tinder I like trying to find empathy for immigrants in a trump campaign lol I knew I would see you on this board rocky. Love your comments

By the way not all libras are like this. I think its more of a maturity thing. You may have thought you had a good thing going but some guys are skeezy enough to pull bullshit like meet my family, now she thinks I'm serious she will let me get it in. There is a good question where you having sex? Tinder is a hook up site lets be honest, you were definitely not the only girl he was talking to and he was probably hooking up with other girls before he was going on dates with you. If he flipped after you gave it up, safe bet he got what he wanted. If you didn't give it up he probably didn't want to wait any longer and was already getting it somewhere else. Move on be more careful with who you let in; romantically, emotionally and physically.

Posted by nauticaldream
I don't think where you met matters so long as you both are looking for the same thing. No need to be judgmental.

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