kubo10
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Posted by kubo10
Hi.. just wanna share some experience from my side.. maybe someone can give me some advice (pisces woman maybe?)
So I am a Libra (male).. just recently broke up with my pisces gf after 1.5 years (we had 3 break up within that time).. and suddenly this gemini man appears in our relationship (my ex office mate introduce him to her lol).. doing all the sweet, caring, and romantic things in which i believe it is to exaggerating if I can say..
Well, I have to admit that I make the mistake by letting her go.. I am so selfish and too cold for her at that time during our relationship.. but then I realize I love her so much (yes.. i know.. it was STUPID and SILLY things since I just realized it when I lost her).. therefore, I'm doing what I can to redeem myself..
but considering all the things that this Gemini guy done to her.. she felt being loved.. and sometime she compared all the things from our previous relationship.. well.. I cant blame her though after what happened between us.. but I believe she still has feelings for me since sometimes she send me some memorable picture/photo when we were still together
The problem is.. we both know already the background of this gemini guy.. he is a player, cheater but still she fell in love with him and believe it was in the past, and he might changed (maybe this is one of the weakness from pisces woman? easily falling in love and always see good in bad people š¢ )
still, I have this guts feeling that this guy is not right for her.. (i dont know if it is because jealousy or not) considering I have seen his action for the past 5 months.. but I can't change anything because my ex gf now become his girlfriend..
I just dont want to see her get hurt anymore.. I really want to redeem all of my mistakes and make her the happiest woman on earth.. I am so worry about her especially during our relationship we never had sex because we want to keep it that way until we get married.. but now.. I don't know.. considering the background of this gemini guy (slept with some women already in his previous relationship)
Sorry, just want to sharing about my view.. since I just recently read articles regarding zodiac (especially Libra, Gemini, and Pisces) I kinda believe some of the traits or characters are true though lol.. and I am just afraid this gemini guy just faking his love to her (i never believe any perfection in every relationship.. but I see him is just to 'perfect' lol) but somehow her hearts are running towards him š¢
So in the end, we finally able to speak heart to heart.. and I confess all of my feelings and regrets to her.. but she said she can't accept me anymore since she can't betray this gemini guy who has done so much for her..
I told her I am trying to let her go.. but deep in mu heart I know that I'm still going to wait for her.. I believe she is the special woman considering I never been into a relationship for 33 years.. this was my first time and no joke.. I thought she was the one.. haha.. maybe that was one of my mistakes.. I never had this kind of experience before how to handle a woman.. especially a pisces one š


Posted by Gemalit
Ouchhhh, that Libra always has back up girls stung me, I wonāt get into why. But hey, Gemini here. All Iām going to say is I get along incredibly well with pisces, but I usually realise real soon that itās not a good match, pisces however donāt get that memo, I feel like if he decides to stick it out they could have something great, as pisces will soak up all of that sweetness the Gemini is showing her, heāll be wooing the heck out of her right now. Heāll be her rock, and pisces need that grounding when theyāre so emotional.
My suggestion? Get with a girl who truly fulfills you. Someone who nurtured youāre feminine energy but who can outsmart your lil mind games that you play. Cus you do that dont lie. Youāre trying to do one right now. Let your fishy go and be happy. Pisces are so pure until they get fucked over them they self destruct...donāt do that to her. Let her be happy.
Also donāt listen about rebounds, so many people I know have ended up in long term relationships with their āreboundā. And if he is her rebound? So what, move on!
Posted by kubo10
@ladymaralade wow genuinely speaking.. I guess you were right.. when I was in a relationship with her.. I used to have these back up girls to chat when I have some on off relationships with my ex.. I even install tinder, wechat, michat, etc when I was with her.. and strange thing is.. when I broke up with her.. I haven't done these kind of things again for like 8 months I guess.. Yes, it is stupid because I did this after I broke up with her not when I was with her..
And when I read my post again.. I realize that I actually kinda have some hatred towards this gemini guy so I just wrote from my point of view .. funny thing you guys in this forum actually kinda look on both perspectives.. I appreciate all the critics and thank you for the advice given to me in this forum.. I do mess up.. and I know its not fair to expecting her to come back to me if she is really happy with him.. š
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So I am a Libra (male).. just recently broke up with my pisces gf after 1.5 years (we had 3 break up within that time).. and suddenly this gemini man appears in our relationship (my ex office mate introduce him to her lol).. doing all the sweet, caring, and romantic things in which i believe it is to exaggerating if I can say..
Well, I have to admit that I make the mistake by letting her go.. I am so selfish and too cold for her at that time during our relationship.. but then I realize I love her so much (yes.. i know.. it was STUPID and SILLY things since I just realized it when I lost her).. therefore, I'm doing what I can to redeem myself..
but considering all the things that this Gemini guy done to her.. she felt being loved.. and sometime she compared all the things from our previous relationship.. well.. I cant blame her though after what happened between us.. but I believe she still has feelings for me since sometimes she send me some memorable picture/photo when we were still together
The problem is.. we both know already the background of this gemini guy.. he is a player, cheater but still she fell in love with him and believe it was in the past, and he might changed (maybe this is one of the weakness from pisces woman? easily falling in love and always see good in bad people š¢ )
still, I have this guts feeling that this guy is not right for her.. (i dont know if it is because jealousy or not) considering I have seen his action for the past 5 months.. but I can't change anything because my ex gf now become his girlfriend..
I just dont want to see her get hurt anymore.. I really want to redeem all of my mistakes and make her the happiest woman on earth.. I am so worry about her especially during our relationship we never had sex because we want to keep it that way until we get married.. but now.. I don't know.. considering the background of this gemini guy (slept with some women already in his previous relationship)
Sorry, just want to sharing about my view.. since I just recently read articles regarding zodiac (especially Libra, Gemini, and Pisces) I kinda believe some of the traits or characters are true though lol.. and I am just afraid this gemini guy just faking his love to her (i never believe any perfection in every relationship.. but I see him is just to 'perfect' lol) but somehow her hearts are running towards him š¢
So in the end, we finally able to speak heart to heart.. and I confess all of my feelings and regrets to her.. but she said she can't accept me anymore since she can't betray this gemini guy who has done so much for her..
I told her I am trying to let her go.. but deep in mu heart I know that I'm still going to wait for her.. I believe she is the special woman considering I never been into a relationship for 33 years.. this was my first time and no joke.. I thought she was the one.. haha.. maybe that was one of my mistakes.. I never had this kind of experience before how to handle a woman.. especially a pisces one š