does anyone else in here think some libras have this spiteful/revenge seeking trait about them? i'm like that and i'm libra, revenge seeking as in like getting revenge when someone who hurts you least expects it. Also, not performing a full blown extreme revenge, we just keep doing this little mean/ spiteful stuff until we are satisfied with the revenge and think they got what they derserve. anyone else like this? maybe it depends on your chart i guess? 🙂
Libra Spitefulness
Posted by ltmet
does anyone else in here think some libras have this spiteful/revenge seeking trait about them? i'm like that and i'm libra, revenge seeking as in like getting revenge when someone who hurts you least expects it. Also, not performing a full blown extreme revenge, we just keep doing this little mean/ spiteful stuff until we are satisfied with the revenge and think they got what they derserve. anyone else like this? maybe it depends on your chart i guess? 🙂
also, i dont know who and who doesnt believe in cusps, but im libra-scorpio :]
Posted by everevolvingepithet
It's only in the spirit of truth, justice and light that we feel a real need to, anything else is just logic.
Spite?
How old are you?
What conditions are factored in when you think spite is the correct course of action?
-.- ...put it in a different context, most people on this earth have a conscience, like me so NOT in the intention to dilebratly hurt someone. kind of like to take whatever that person did to you, and use it against them, you know what im saying now? lol, not to intentionally hurt someone, i guess its like the fairness of libra, like it wouldnt be fair if someone were to hurt you in anyway, so you would just try to make it fair i guess is what goes on, i was just wondering if anyway else was kind of revengeful, thats all.
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by ltmetPosted by everevolvingepithet
It's only in the spirit of truth, justice and light that we feel a real need to, anything else is just logic.
Spite?
How old are you?
What conditions are factored in when you think spite is the correct course of action?
-.- ...put it in a different context, most people on this earth have a conscience, like me so NOT in the intention to dilebratly hurt someone. kind of like to take whatever that person did to you, and use it against them, you know what im saying now? lol, not to intentionally hurt someone, i guess its like the fairness of libra, like it wouldnt be fair if someone were to hurt you in anyway, so you would just try to make it fair i guess is what goes on, i was just wondering if anyway else was kind of revengeful, thats all.
No, looking at the bigger picture or the knock-on effects would probably temper any spiteful, child-like leanings.
If everyone went around doing that, just think of the destruction cause and effect!click to expand
okay, well im sorry you think that, i cant change the way i am, but okay, your not like that, as someone else said its probly the scorpio in my chart.
Posted by TasteOfChaosss
" but im libra-scorpio"
It's the Scorpio part... They are vengeful.
I can't be bothered with taking revenge. I have the thoughts, and I will think of how I'd like to get back at them... but then I get over it
i figured, i couldnt tell if it was libra playing it fair, or the scorpio stinging.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Ermahgerd, things would just get silly though!
it does sometimes, but when it get to that point i usually just drop it.
Posted by Theultra79
Yes i am like that sometimes. For instance, If someone has disrespected me, I feel it's ok to disrespect them back. If someone has been disloyal or they betray me in some way, I will no longer have their back in situations.
They will be able to tell that something has been lost from the relationship. I kind of relish in it a lil bit.
I don't actively seek revenge. But, when the opportunity presents itself, I that person in the same f-d up way they treated me. And I feel like that's what they deserve.
yeah, what you said, its exactly what im trying to say, i had alot of trouble wording it for some reason.
Posted by Theultra79
@itmet
It would be interesting to see ur chart
Body Locat. Ret. Lati. Rul. House Rul. Veloc. Placidus Houses.
Sun : 28Lib45 + 0:00' (d) [ 5th house] [R] +0.995 - House cusp 1: 17Gem11
Moon: 26Aqu49 + 3:28' (-) [ 9th house] [-] +14.29 - House cusp 2: 14Can49
Merc: 21Lib15 + 1:28' (-) [ 5th house] [d] +1.722 - House cusp 3: 13Leo37
Venu: 20Vir51 + 1:14' (d) [ 4th house] [-] +1.194 - House cusp 4: 14Vir53
Mars: 25Leo15 + 1:29' (-) [ 3rd house] [-] +0.570 - House cusp 5: 17Lib27
Jupi: 11Cap19 - 0:15' (d) [ 7th house] [-] +0.137 - House cusp 6: 18Sco32
Satu: 2Ari07 R - 2:36' (d) [10th house] [R] -0.065 - House cusp 7: 17Sag11
Uran: 0Aqu42 - 0:35' (R) [ 8th house] [e] +0.010 - House cusp 8: 14Cap49
Nept: 25Cap03 + 0:27' (-) [ 8th house] [-] +0.009 - House cusp 9: 13Aqu37
Plut: 1Sag43 +12:28' (-) [ 6th house] [e] +0.035 - House cusp 10: 14Pis53
Node: 6Lib49 R + 0:00' (-) [ 4th house] [-] +0.053 - House cusp 11: 17Ari27
- House cusp 12: 18Tau32
Car Fix Mut TOT +: 9
Fir 1 1 1 3 -: 4
Ear 2 0 1 3 M: 5
Air 3 2 1 6 N: 6
Wat 0 0 1 1 A: 2
TOT 6 3 4 13 😱 9
Posted by miha
it's your scorpio. libras are not smart enough to get revenge. they may want it[it's natural...nobody likes being wronged], but to get revenge is about being smart, clever,etc. libras are not like that. even if they try...they lose because the others see the flaws of their plan and get what the libra is trying to do.
maybe they try...but don't succeed. i know many libras, so ....
Any other Libra's see the irony of not being "smart" enough to take revenge?
Karma is a bitch; Libra knows this and will let it run its course. Not that we won't take
in some pleasure when it happens 😉 Libra is unique in seeing both the beginning
and the end: simultaneously.

Not anymore than anyone else imo.
They never go through with it anyway
They never go through with it anyway

Posted by mihaPosted by Liberal777LibraPosted by miha
it's your scorpio. libras are not smart enough to get revenge. they may want it[it's natural...nobody likes being wronged], but to get revenge is about being smart, clever,etc. libras are not like that. even if they try...they lose because the others see the flaws of their plan and get what the libra is trying to do.
maybe they try...but don't succeed. i know many libras, so ....
Any other Libra's see the irony of not being "smart" enough to take revenge?
Karma is a bitch; Libra knows this and will let it run its course. Not that we won't take
in some pleasure when it happens 😉 Libra is unique in seeing both the beginning
and the end: simultaneously.
libra is unique in NOT ADMITTING their limitations and limits and pretending sth is beautiful when it actually it's terrible, just because they CAN'T change things....funny how obvious you make it in this thread.... 😄click to expand
that was the dumbest thing I've ever read.
So Libras are dumb for realizing there are things they cannot change...and it's better to move on rather than wasting another minute on it?
Logically that makes no sense...it would make more sense that the person who tries repeatedly to change something they cannot change would be the unintelligent/slightly insane one. OBVIOUSLY

My Libra lives by the philosophy "they will get theirs in time."
He doesn't waste his time/energy in seeking revenge against those who have wronged him.
The universe seems to right things much faster this way.
Rather you believe in Karma or not...it's a natural law...for every action there is a reaction...if someone fucks you over...there will be a consequence for that.
If you let it go and move on...you only get fucked once....
If you seek revenge and harm them in return...you get fucked twice, once when the person wronged you, and a second time when your action in revenge returns to you.
He doesn't waste his time/energy in seeking revenge against those who have wronged him.
The universe seems to right things much faster this way.
Rather you believe in Karma or not...it's a natural law...for every action there is a reaction...if someone fucks you over...there will be a consequence for that.
If you let it go and move on...you only get fucked once....
If you seek revenge and harm them in return...you get fucked twice, once when the person wronged you, and a second time when your action in revenge returns to you.
@u79..that last sentence about unsolicited advice...to funny !!!!

Posted by brianafayPosted by mihaPosted by Liberal777LibraPosted by miha
it's your scorpio. libras are not smart enough to get revenge. they may want it[it's natural...nobody likes being wronged], but to get revenge is about being smart, clever,etc. libras are not like that. even if they try...they lose because the others see the flaws of their plan and get what the libra is trying to do.
maybe they try...but don't succeed. i know many libras, so ....
Any other Libra's see the irony of not being "smart" enough to take revenge?
Karma is a bitch; Libra knows this and will let it run its course. Not that we won't take
in some pleasure when it happens 😉 Libra is unique in seeing both the beginning
and the end: simultaneously.
libra is unique in NOT ADMITTING their limitations and limits and pretending sth is beautiful when it actually it's terrible, just because they CAN'T change things....funny how obvious you make it in this thread.... 😄
that was the dumbest thing I've ever read.
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LOLOL....your response was the funniest thing I've read. Made my moon happy...hehehe.
My aunt is a Libra. She was married to my Cappy uncle for a long time. She cheated on him with their son's friend. Cappy took her back. A couple months ago she served him with divorce papers out of nowhere and moved out. Now she has begun to say he treated her badly while they were married. I'm not saying I do or don't believe her. But from the few conversations we've had she feels totally justified. Not knocking her, as I haven't heard both sides. But she did do that. If that counts. As spite.

Hid my posts because my question was already answered.
To answer the original posters question...No, it is pointless and a waste of time to live that way.
To answer the original posters question...No, it is pointless and a waste of time to live that way.

Posted by brianafay
My Libra lives by the philosophy "they will get theirs in time."
He doesn't waste his time/energy in seeking revenge against those who have wronged him.
The universe seems to right things much faster this way.
Rather you believe in Karma or not...it's a natural law...for every action there is a reaction...if someone fucks you over...there will be a consequence for that.
If you let it go and move on...you only get fucked once....
If you seek revenge and harm them in return...you get fucked twice, once when the person wronged you, and a second time when your action in revenge returns to you.
Yeah, that's pretty much how I view things too. Why keep going over past hurts when you can move on and enjoy life with better people.

Posted by Virggy
My aunt is a Libra. She was married to my Cappy uncle for a long time. She cheated on him with their son's friend. Cappy took her back. A couple months ago she served him with divorce papers out of nowhere and moved out. Now she has begun to say he treated her badly while they were married. I'm not saying I do or don't believe her. But from the few conversations we've had she feels totally justified. Not knocking her, as I haven't heard both sides. But she did do that. If that counts. As spite.
Of course I am not defending her...or condoning cheating...but it is possible that she was always unhappy in the marriage and that she felt at least that he treated her poorly, as cheating is obviously a signal that someone is unhappy (they are looking elsewhere for what they are missing in their current situation.) So I'm not sure I would consider that spite
Posted by brianafayPosted by Virggy
My aunt is a Libra. She was married to my Cappy uncle for a long time. She cheated on him with their son's friend. Cappy took her back. A couple months ago she served him with divorce papers out of nowhere and moved out. Now she has begun to say he treated her badly while they were married. I'm not saying I do or don't believe her. But from the few conversations we've had she feels totally justified. Not knocking her, as I haven't heard both sides. But she did do that. If that counts. As spite.
Of course I am not defending her...or condoning cheating...but it is possible that she was always unhappy in the marriage and that she felt at least that he treated her poorly, as cheating is obviously a signal that someone is unhappy (they are looking elsewhere for what they are missing in their current situation.) So I'm not sure I would consider that spite
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Oh no no, of course. I do believe that she was happy enough to marry him but that she became unhappy. I don't think that my uncle is completely and totally innocent of everything since she chose such a harsh way of doing things. Like slap in the face harsh. I understand what you mean. Not spite after all.

Posted by VirggyPosted by brianafayPosted by Virggy
My aunt is a Libra. She was married to my Cappy uncle for a long time. She cheated on him with their son's friend. Cappy took her back. A couple months ago she served him with divorce papers out of nowhere and moved out. Now she has begun to say he treated her badly while they were married. I'm not saying I do or don't believe her. But from the few conversations we've had she feels totally justified. Not knocking her, as I haven't heard both sides. But she did do that. If that counts. As spite.
Of course I am not defending her...or condoning cheating...but it is possible that she was always unhappy in the marriage and that she felt at least that he treated her poorly, as cheating is obviously a signal that someone is unhappy (they are looking elsewhere for what they are missing in their current situation.) So I'm not sure I would consider that spite
Oh no no, of course. I do believe that she was happy enough to marry him but that she became unhappy. I don't think that my uncle is completely and totally innocent of everything since she chose such a harsh way of doing things. Like slap in the face harsh. I understand what you mean. Not spite after all.click to expand
It's possible it had nothing to really do with him, some people are never happy, no matter what you do. 🙂

Really all this boils down to ego and not really justice or moral fortitude. Even getting satisfaction from karma causing someone's demise. Folks, those are lives and hearts we're talking about. Honestly, most people don't even consider their actions in the equation. That maybe they caused that perons negative reaction. I no more take pleasure in seeing something happen to someone who has "wronged" me than anyone else. Remember, justice is blind and dispassionate. Spitefulness/revenge/vindication are about satisfying ego in the disguise of being "fair." But there is a difference between what's fair and what's right and they both at times don't coincide. Look at the overall big picture. If a woman hits me, honestly, I would be perfectly in my rights to hit her back in order to defend myself. But would I be justfied? What caused her to hit me. People rarely think of such things. They just react. Cause and effect.

Posted by Freetobe007
I've seen a Libra female be spiteful. She tried to get under my skin my attempting to turn everyone against me and make it look like I was obssesed with her. But that was just plain laughable and no one believed it because they've seen her lame azz pull the exact same sh*t with others. So it's like in her head, she thought she was doing something big, but in reality she was playing in the little leagues. She doesn't know sh*t about being spiteful if she thinks that's actually accomplishing something lol Spiteful = f*cking up someone's future not that weak sh*t she tried
+1
Gosh I know who this is you're referring to.

Posted by ellessque
NO SCORPIO IN HER CHART.
sure..................the first three pages it was "IT IS YOUR SCORPIO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
then *silence* *screech* *change the subject LIBRA style *
again....NO SCORPIO
*off to plan the demise of all participants in this thread* 😛
Not me Ellesque...I'm innocent lol
Posted by ellessque
NO SCORPIO IN HER CHART.
sure..................the first three pages it was "IT IS YOUR SCORPIO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
then *silence* *screech* *change the subject LIBRA style *
again....NO SCORPIO
*off to plan the demise of all participants in this thread* 😛
i havent been on here in a while. lol but i'm on a cusp, with libra/scorpio.. and my mars sign probly has something to do with it too.

Posted by TasteOfChaosss
Do you have Scorpio placements?
Libra does have a sense of justice, but is generally too lazy to do anything about it.
i agree with that.
also i find it difficult to care as well.
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