@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius
people making me feeling obligated
I like the libras! But about what you said sometimes ya
I SWEAR I FEELS THAT WAY ALL THE TIME....AND ITS VERY IRRITATING.... SOMETIMES I JUST DONT FEEL LIKE BEING BOTHER OR I MIGHT JUST BE DOING SOMETHING ELSE...WHEN I WANT 2 TALK OR SEE YOU I WILL CONTACT YOU UNTIL THEN DONT QUESTION MY ACTIONS....THAT ONLY MAKES ME MAD AND REALLY DISTANT MYSELF FROM PPL...AND THEN DONT MAKE SARCASTIC REMARKS AS YOU STATED ABOVE...LIKE WHERE U GOING U SAID HOME THEN HE SAYS YEAH RIGHT I SWEAR I HATE THAT....WE R SAG BEST 2 BELIEVE WE NOT GOING 2 LIE ONLY IF WE REALLY DONT WANT 2 HURT YOUR FEELINGS....HEHE
Posted by DMV
i thought this was funny.i am sexually involved with 3 libra men. within a week, all 3 have tried to pull rank on me. asking me who i talk to, who im hanging out with, why i dont call, how come we dont spend more time together. i even hugged a libra with a scorp moon and he asked me where i was going. i told him i was going home. he goes, "yeah right, whose house r u going to." with his little snicker. then the next day he texts me and asks me who did i go home with. wth. the nerve
ugh! i feel like men dont let me come to them. or people in general, even my girlfriends. i feel like people make me feel obligated to call them or contact them.
anyone else have this problem?
DMV be careful. You know the DMV is a small place. Everyone knows everbody....or atleast through one/two friends.
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be careful with what? they all know good and well that im flaky, im a moving target, and they all see the condoms in the garbadge can. all im saying is, if you want to chill, say so, but dont go pullin rank on me like you got dibs.
Posted by SexySadge
I SWEAR I FEELS THAT WAY ALL THE TIME....AND ITS VERY IRRITATING.... SOMETIMES I JUST DONT FEEL LIKE BEING BOTHER OR I MIGHT JUST BE DOING SOMETHING ELSE...WHEN I WANT 2 TALK OR SEE YOU I WILL CONTACT YOU UNTIL THEN DONT QUESTION MY ACTIONS....THAT ONLY MAKES ME MAD AND REALLY DISTANT MYSELF FROM PPL...AND THEN DONT MAKE SARCASTIC REMARKS AS YOU STATED ABOVE...LIKE WHERE U GOING U SAID HOME THEN HE SAYS YEAH RIGHT I SWEAR I HATE THAT....WE R SAG BEST 2 BELIEVE WE NOT GOING 2 LIE ONLY IF WE REALLY DONT WANT 2 HURT YOUR FEELINGS....HEHE
yeah it totally pushes them to the back of the line.
be careful with what? they all know good and well that im flaky, im a moving target, and they all see the condoms in the garbadge can.
Do you expect this to bring out the best ("normal") behaviour in others (like the men you expect to just "chill")?
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i dont quite understand you question?
Posted by DMV
i thought this was funny.i am sexually involved with 3 libra men. within a week, all 3 have tried to pull rank on me. asking me who i talk to, who im hanging out with, why i dont call, how come we dont spend more time together. i even hugged a libra with a scorp moon and he asked me where i was going. i told him i was going home. he goes, "yeah right, whose house r u going to." with his little snicker. then the next day he texts me and asks me who did i go home with. wth. the nerve
ugh! i feel like men dont let me come to them. or people in general, even my girlfriends. i feel like people make me feel obligated to call them or contact them.
anyone else have this problem?
Maybe this:
i feel like people make me feel obligated to call them or contact them.
Has something to do with with those 3 guys getting the impression you're doing this:
i am sexually involved with 3 libra men.
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i dont follow
Posted by DMV
i thought this was funny.i am sexually involved with 3 libra men. within a week, all 3 have tried to pull rank on me. asking me who i talk to, who im hanging out with, why i dont call, how come we dont spend more time together. i even hugged a libra with a scorp moon and he asked me where i was going. i told him i was going home. he goes, "yeah right, whose house r u going to." with his little snicker. then the next day he texts me and asks me who did i go home with. wth. the nerve
ugh! i feel like men dont let me come to them. or people in general, even my girlfriends. i feel like people make me feel obligated to call them or contact them.
anyone else have this problem?
Hahaha, how can he be wrong and at fault if you have 3 on the go though ?
Come on, that's smart if nothing else. 🙂
At least you're straight up about it Dmv, but he's called you on your game ('game' for lack of a better term) 😛click to expand
pish tosh. he's called me out on nothing.
Posted by oldskoolflavor
stop beating around the bush and say it outloud:I'M JUST A SEX GODDESS ..
once they have a taste, they wish they never did
lol. i was just wondering if any other saggis felt like people put them on schedules of when to call. i just perfer to be more spontaneous u know. doesnt it mean more when i call because i want to, not when other people want me 2.
Posted by oldskoolflavor
stop beating around the bush and say it outloud:I'M JUST A SEX GODDESS ..
once they have a taste, they wish they never didShe's probably good like that.
But her question was about why her boys are suddenly acting all funny, to the point that it made her all un-comfy. 😉
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lol. it makes me uncomfortable when anyone makes demands of me. hence my problem with law enforcement.
Posted by DMV
i thought this was funny.i am sexually involved with 3 libra men. within a week, all 3 have tried to pull rank on me. asking me who i talk to, who im hanging out with, why i dont call, how come we dont spend more time together. i even hugged a libra with a scorp moon and he asked me where i was going. i told him i was going home. he goes, "yeah right, whose house r u going to." with his little snicker. then the next day he texts me and asks me who did i go home with. wth. the nerve
ugh! i feel like men dont let me come to them. or people in general, even my girlfriends. i feel like people make me feel obligated to call them or contact them.
anyone else have this problem?
ummm this is a sexual relationship. its none of his business. but thats the thing with relationships like that. you cant have the same mixture for too long, because they start developing...dare i say it...feelings for you. you just have to put your foot down and let them know you are a free spirit and you dont want to be tied down. if they dont like it oh well. they are not going to stop having sex with you thats for sure.
Posted by oldskoolflavor
stop beating around the bush and say it outloud:I'M JUST A SEX GODDESS ..
once they have a taste, they wish they never did
LOL..so true...my cancer( yes the crab) he say I'm like a drug that's uncontrollable...lol
I'm like sexually co dependent.
Are any of the others getting clingy, or is it just the Libras? Probably some weird astrological alignment in play here.
And no, I don't feel like I'm relegated to a any specific time to contact someone. I usually feel welcome, but not overly so.
Posted by DMV
i thought this was funny.i am sexually involved with 3 libra men. within a week, all 3 have tried to pull rank on me. asking me who i talk to, who im hanging out with, why i dont call, how come we dont spend more time together. i even hugged a libra with a scorp moon and he asked me where i was going. i told him i was going home. he goes, "yeah right, whose house r u going to." with his little snicker. then the next day he texts me and asks me who did i go home with. wth. the nerve
ugh! i feel like men dont let me come to them. or people in general, even my girlfriends. i feel like people make me feel obligated to call them or contact them.
anyone else have this problem?
Hahaha, how can he be wrong and at fault if you have 3 on the go though ?
Come on, that's smart if nothing else. 🙂
At least you're straight up about it Dmv, but he's called you on your game ('game' for lack of a better term) 😛pish tosh. he's called me out on nothing.
he so is and you mention it in your first post🙂
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naw...he despises me cause he saw me leave a party with another guy, when he used to be the one i would leave with.
Posted by Wynter
Are any of the others getting clingy, or is it just the Libras? Probably some weird astrological alignment in play here.
just the libras really. the cap is being cool about things. the scorp, he talks shit but i just ignore him. really just the libras. kinda shocked me about them. i thought they were social butterflies.
Posted by DMV
i thought this was funny.i am sexually involved with 3 libra men. within a week, all 3 have tried to pull rank on me. asking me who i talk to, who im hanging out with, why i dont call, how come we dont spend more time together. i even hugged a libra with a scorp moon and he asked me where i was going. i told him i was going home. he goes, "yeah right, whose house r u going to." with his little snicker. then the next day he texts me and asks me who did i go home with. wth. the nerve
ugh! i feel like men dont let me come to them. or people in general, even my girlfriends. i feel like people make me feel obligated to call them or contact them.
anyone else have this problem?
Hahaha, how can he be wrong and at fault if you have 3 on the go though ?
Come on, that's smart if nothing else. 🙂
At least you're straight up about it Dmv, but he's called you on your game ('game' for lack of a better term) 😛what game, triple e ?
do you mean hot sex + subtle manipulation + give em shreds of hope ?are we to blame hip hop for that one ?
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lol @ "shreds of hope"
This just seems like all kinds of messed up.
From a non-sexual standpoint no I do not like to feel obligated, but I think that goes for everyone unless you're just really clingy. Even getting 4 texts in a row or 2 makes me feel obligated and trapped.
I could understand why this libra was hounding on you tho. If it bothered me I just wouldn't sleep with him anymore. If you're gonna complain just cut him off. You have a lot of other males to get it from, right?
Posted by happykitsune
This just seems like all kinds of messed up.From a non-sexual standpoint no I do not like to feel obligated, but I think that goes for everyone unless you're just really clingy. Even getting 4 texts in a row or 2 makes me feel obligated and trapped.
I could understand why this libra was hounding on you tho. If it bothered me I just wouldn't sleep with him anymore. If you're gonna complain just cut him off. You have a lot of other males to get it from, right?
thats EXACTLY how i felt. "obligated and trapped"
Happy, the shit never works. i tell them to fuck off and they just think im playin. they wear me down and wait em out.
*wait me out
its the cancer rising...makes me look like a softy
must be. that's tough. you must attract some strong ones
Posted by DMV
its the cancer rising...makes me look like a softy
I hear you
Posted by DMV
i thought this was funny.i am sexually involved with 3 libra men. within a week, all 3 have tried to pull rank on me. asking me who i talk to, who im hanging out with, why i dont call, how come we dont spend more time together. i even hugged a libra with a scorp moon and he asked me where i was going. i told him i was going home. he goes, "yeah right, whose house r u going to." with his little snicker. then the next day he texts me and asks me who did i go home with. wth. the nerve
ugh! i feel like men dont let me come to them. or people in general, even my girlfriends. i feel like people make me feel obligated to call them or contact them.
anyone else have this problem?
Maybe this:
i feel like people make me feel obligated to call them or contact them.
Has something to do with with those 3 guys getting the impression you're doing this:
i am sexually involved with 3 libra men.
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I understand what you're saying.
Posted by DMV
i even hugged a libra with a scorp moon
ooh he's gonna get you in the end
& to answer the question...no not really.
I don't think it's people that make you feel obligated...it's you
If a friend wants me to go somewhere with her and I don't want to go I could just say no.
She's not making me feel obligated...if I get that feeling it's in my own head...
Not saying I haven't felt that way before...but I'm pretty sure it was my own doing that I felt that way, almost like the same feeling as a guilty conscious or something.
i am sexually involved with 3 libra men.
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lol
Posted by DMV
i even hugged a libra with a scorp moonooh he's gonna get you in the end
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he shouldnt even care who i go home with at night.
LMAO@ Brianafay
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i thought this was funny.
i am sexually involved with 3 libra men. within a week, all 3 have tried to pull rank on me. asking me who i talk to, who im hanging out with, why i dont call, how come we dont spend more time together. i even hugged a libra with a scorp moon and he asked me where i was going. i told him i was going home. he goes, "yeah right, whose house r u going to." with his little snicker. then the next day he texts me and asks me who did i go home with. wth. the nerve
ugh! i feel like men dont let me come to them. or people in general, even my girlfriends. i feel like people make me feel obligated to call them or contact them.
anyone else have this problem?