Libra Venus, how to win you over?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Som on Friday, September 2, 2022 and has 25 replies.

Profile picture of paranoidandroid
@paranoidandroid
3 Years

Posted by Som
@paranoidandroid

i already replied:

love me some beauty with brains and social skills

everyone saying that looking pretty is the enough SO WRONG AND SHALLOW

obviously we need to feel attracted to the individual, but only beauty is NOT enough

being a kind and good conversationalist is the right route

Profile picture of Som
@Som
6 Years1,000+ Posts

Oh I am sorry. Probably I could not see your reply for some reason.

Posted by paranoidandroid

i already replied:

love me some beauty with brains and social skills

everyone saying that looking pretty is the enough SO WRONG AND SHALLOW

obviously we need to feel attracted to the individual, but only beauty is NOT enough

being a kind and good conversationalist is the right route

Profile picture of LuckyLibra7
@LuckyLibra7
3 Years500+ Posts

Posted by Som
@LuckyLibra7

ahh, I'd have to say the banter needs to be top tier. Charm is important and flexibility. Planning a date is fine, but I like spontaneous adventures in the midst of the date. Like "oh, this place looks cool. Lets go check it out" then converse with who's there.

But at the same time, I do appreciate stability and someone who is consistent.

Manners are important and good social etiquette.

I don't nitpick what my date wears, but i remember about 2 months ago I had a bowling date with this woman I met online. Everything seemed fine but when she showed up, she was wearing all black and was covered in cat hair.

I've never been more disgusted.

Profile picture of Bluemoon86
@Bluemoon86
1 Year500+ PostsAries

Posted by PuzzlePieces
I don’t know why people ask such questions. Winning a person over like a prize?

That’s not really what relationships are all about.

Yes, like courting the one you want to marry. Ever hear of it? Not everyone wants an easy splash in the pan. Some of us want a challenge, a real one. Not where a woman or man plays games. The challenge makes the win even more celebratory. I’m a very hard nut to crack for most people. It is why I have a string of broken hearts behind me. Just do not play games with someone you supposedly care about or your ass will be left in the dust.

Profile picture of Polyannanana
@Polyannanana
2 Years

You can't win us over lol

But similar music and film taste, being able to enjoy life through good food, nature walks, and artsy stuff definitely help. Loud or rude people are a turn off.

And I hate arguments that turn ugly. If you can keep the peace and respect during arguments that is a big plus.

Profile picture of Polyannanana
@Polyannanana
2 Years

You can't win us over lol

But similar music and film taste, being able to enjoy life through good food, nature walks, and artsy stuff definitely help. Loud or rude people are a turn off.

And I hate arguments that turn ugly. If you can keep the peace and respect during arguments that is a big plus.

Profile picture of Polyannanana
@Polyannanana
2 Years

You can't win us over lol

But similar music and film taste, being able to enjoy life through good food, nature walks, and artsy stuff definitely help. Loud or rude people are a turn off.

And I hate arguments that turn ugly. If you can keep the peace and respect during arguments that is a big plus.

Profile picture of Polyannanana
@Polyannanana
2 Years

You can't win us over lol

But similar music and film taste, being able to enjoy life through good food, nature walks, and artsy stuff definitely help. Loud or rude people are a turn off.

And I hate arguments that turn ugly. If you can keep the peace and respect during arguments that is a big plus.

Profile picture of Polyannanana
@Polyannanana
2 Years

You can't win us over lol

But similar music and film taste, being able to enjoy life through good food, nature walks, and artsy stuff definitely help. Loud or rude people are a turn off.

And I hate arguments that turn ugly. If you can keep the peace and respect during arguments that is a big plus.