libra woman and taurus man

I broke up with my taurus ex a couple of months ago. Since then we didn't have any contact. We would see each other out but we didn't talk.??

A few days ago, a couple of friends called me to go for coffee so as to catch up. No more than ten minutes had passed since I arrived and suddenly he came to our table to say hi.??He was smiling at me and acted as if nothing happened. I also saw him yesterday. We didn't talk but I kept catching him staring at me.

What's up with that? Does he want to approach me again or just wants to be friends and feel comfortable in each others presence?

The break up was his decision because he had some issues and couldn't deal with a relationship at the time.

I wouldn't say that we broke it off on good terms. We became really cold but after a month or so he does this and confuses me. He gave me the 'it's not you it's me' moto and that we better talk again when he's in a better state. I told him that I don't play games and that I wouldn't sit around and wait. I have taurus ascendant if it helps :p

After a week from the break up, I texted him because I felt really uncomfortable us not talking to each other when we saw each other out. He said that if I was ok he would be ok and that we could remain as friends. I told him that I don't see him as a friend and we ended it there.

A month later, he approached me as I mentioned earlier

Is there a chance that he regretted about it and approaches me slowly so as to see my reaction?

Too much thought. Move along, nothing to see here. Man, there's a lot of cogitating over relationships that are irrevocably finished. I guess I'm a sensible, cold old fish, but from third grade onward, if the boy/girl thing became difficult and/or over, it was time to move on. Don't feel the need to be "friends" or to know the why of a breakup. Realize that it just IS, take a break for a day or so, then get back in the saddle and find a new man/woman. Besides, nothing gets an old flame in a mood to talk (if you must know the particulars) than to see you out there, back in the saddle and dating as if you carry not a care in the world for the past, which is how you're supposed to be.

I know i shouldn't go back due to some trust issues as well. It's just that he confuses me with his actions.

I am always polite and friendly when he talks to me but I do not lead him on thinking that I have feelings for him. Just casual talk

Life is at your feet. Don't let old dead relationships hold you back. You're a good kid, you don't need this stuff, the agony, the drama.

Ah well, this is the stuff of discussions I had with my daughter over the years. It saw her through pretty well. She's marrying her third boyfriend ever May 7, just in time for my birthday. How about that?

Yer gonna be ok, Jane. Ya always were, I bet!

Posted by jane85
I broke up with my taurus ex a couple of months ago. Since then we didn't have any contact. We would see each other out but we didn't talk.??

A few days ago, a couple of friends called me to go for coffee so as to catch up. No more than ten minutes had passed since I arrived and suddenly he came to our table to say hi.??He was smiling at me and acted as if nothing happened. I also saw him yesterday. We didn't talk but I kept catching him staring at me.

What's up with that? Does he want to approach me again or just wants to be friends and feel comfortable in each others presence?

The break up was his decision because he had some issues and couldn't deal with a relationship at the time.

I dated a Taurus once....yeeeaars ago, and we were like oil & vingear..liked each other a lot, but just couldn't make it stick. We had great times together, but he was like an Aquarius duded I dated... Too emotional. We're still friends even til this day, but the relationship just couldn't work.
With that being said, move on dear..I think Taurus men have issues with Libra women in the long run. As much as we love being with folks, we also love and need our space and I found that hard for the Taurus dude to deal with...at least in our relationship. He wanted to be with me ALL the time and in the beginning it was cute, but it got old real quick.
How long did you all date?

Oh gosh Taurus never let their ex??s completely go unless you did something down right dirty. Otherwise they will always have a special spot of some sort for you in their heart; I wouldn't run with it though, or read too much into it because if they broke up with you it's very hard to get them to warm up to getting back together. Almost like starting from scratch, and they move even slower than they did when you first met them. Since you have a Taurus ascendant then you know they become stubborn and rebellious when you try to hurry them, so don't even think about it. They move at their own pace.
Next time if he stares at you walk up to him laughing and ask him if you have something on your face. That will lighten the mood and the two of you can be cordial. My ex Taurus stares at me a lot too, even times when he was with a girl I could feel his eyes piercing through me. For some reason he lets me be the bold one, and I??ve been guilty of marching right up to him and ask if he wanna fight, if he don't stop staring at me.lol. We joke like that. But again, no big deal.

We dated for 4 months. He wasn't clingy, the opposite! He gave me freedom and I did too because I really hate when someone controls me and checks where I am every minute of the day.

If we happen to meet and there is a chance to talk, we do. We both act as if nothing happened. At first I didn't speak to him at all but after a while I relaxed.

I think that I still have feelings for him but I know it's wrong to even want to go back. In addition, from some point on I just didn't trust him and it all started from there.

Is there a chance he regretted but is afraid to admit it?

If we Taurus break up with you, that's a pretty big step that we are done

Cause unless the Taurus try'd everything to make it work, and the relatioship still went wrong, we are done with it

He had issues at work and he thought it would be best if we took a break from each other. He said that we better talk again when he's in a better mood, that I was a good woman and it's not me it's him. I told him that I have feelings too, that this hurts me but I can't sit around and wait. After that I can't trust him because he could do this again.