Libra(woman) and Virgo(Man) Relationship.

Is there any Libra(woman) and Virgo(Man) in a relationship or marriage it? How was it? I am more interested in the relationship that works well. My hubby(Virgo) and I(Libra) are really awesome together. We never had a big fight. We did argue in a conversational way but never fight. So I would love yo know other who has positive experience like us. Tell me your stories!!

Haha! good to know. He has moon in Virgo and I have moon in Scorpio.. He has Venus in Leo and I with Libra.. he has Mars in Leo and I have mars in Virgo.

I am really not good in checking compatibility of each moon, venus and mars.. So.. what do you think of that?

I fell in love with another virgo before, and yes his constructive criticism can really hurt me but my husband i can really handle. He is criticized more to himself and to his work relation than to me. He also appreciate me a lot!

Pardon me with my grammar! 🙂 English is my second language.

Hhhmm.. maybe in a long run our differences will be challenging. But for a year and a half we are doing fine. We are giving each other space and privacy. He always complements me and expresses his emotions very open. Even tells me he loves me everyday and act like we are kids together sometimes. We also love cuddle time! I don't spend much money because i am a bit thrifty but he is way more worst though, lol. I am not clingy so he appreciates that for sure. I know he sees my flaws being a Libra but he is not bothered by it so far. 🙂 I am the one who is bothered of him being pessimist and worries too much but i tried to understand that this is what he is specially that he is a scientist.

Over analyzing things makes me wonder if we will be together in love until we grow old and die! There is a part of me which is a bit afraid and a part of me being hopeful. I really want our marriage to work out and he believes in it despite of our differences and we also have a lot in common!

I like this topic 🙂

Always nice to see people working at stuff together.

Posted by Damnata
I like this topic 🙂

Always nice to see people working at stuff together.

Cool! 😉

I love libras... but it seems I always disappoint them.

and @ MrBalance: the annoying part doesn't restrict to young virgo boys.. I think it extends to all boys when they're young. I won't deny the boring.

I tend to stay inside my head most of the time, partly because people find it hard to accept what I have to say. Not because it's critical, but it's usually something else people don't want to hear.

Posted by virgowithasoul
I love libras... but it seems I always disappoint them.

and @ MrBalance: the annoying part doesn't restrict to young virgo boys.. I think it extends to all boys when they're young. I won't deny the boring.

I tend to stay inside my head most of the time, partly because people find it hard to accept what I have to say. Not because it's critical, but it's usually something else people don't want to hear.

Awe~~ Thanks for the love! 🙂

Yes Libra are very sensitive with criticism but once you meet a mature Libra and sees it is a constructive criticism then that will not be an issue. I met a Virgo man before that really loves to point out my flaws because he said there is always a room for improvement. Even him wants me to tell him what he needs to improve. It does not bother me since i already know how Virgo are. Though i can't deny there are times i get hurt, nothing huge though. Maybe if it is excessive then it can be an issue.

What i love about Virgo is that they are not boring to converse with. Topic may be boring with the first Virgo man i dated (Politics) but it was still interesting. Also I love how they can be serious (most of the time) yet know how to enjoy and be silly sometimes. Once you get their trust it is like opening a box full of surprises!

Also i love the intelligence (Virgo men and women). (Smart is sexy!)

Sorry will be long but I really want to tell you all about our relationship dynamic.. 🙂

I have never in my life been happier than i am w my Virgo husband! Incredible husband and father. Response to your concern about longterm happiness.. I've done several compatibility charts and one thing that's been repeated is that if my husb and I could get past our initial differences then our relationship would prove to be rock solid. It's been true for us. The beginning was challenging but we grow closer and our bond deeper and stronger everyday. We've just needed to learn to understand eachother and luckily we are liking what we find deep inside.

Him- Sun: Virgo
Asc: Libra
Moon: Taurus
Mercury: Leo
Mars: Aquarius
Venus: Virgo

Me- Sun: Libra/Virgo cusp (Lib side)
Asc: Libra
Moon: Gemini
Mercury: Libra
Mars: Capricorn
Venus: Scorpio

My Virgo is generally quite reserved with his criticisms. I kind of have to drag his opinons out of him sometimes, it's like pulling teeth! I have an odd appreciation for constructive criticism.. i always want be improving and bettering so criticism is useful and helpful. He is only slightly more critical than i myself am. I tend to be more accepting of people's flaws and he tends to more naturally embrace other's oddities.

We have lots of fun together and laugh a lot. Being serious comes easy as well and we both need quiet relaxation. Conversation is interesting, easy and satisfying.

I love that he is more intelligent than me. Previous relationships that the guy was either my intellectual equal or less I found highly unsatisfying.

We are almost equally pessimistic and optimistic with me being just slightly more optimistic.. which is great because I've rarely known anyone who worries more than me! He does so much worrying that I counteract it w extra positivity, but only when it's reasonable. I don't care for ignorant optimism.

He is very helpful w our child, lots of playtime, reads bedtime story, helps w feeding, and when baby has been sick. His domestic skills are not as detailed and perfect as I prefer but he is far more diligent than I am. In fact, I am the perfectionist, to a fault. He focuses on getting butter done and I focus on the details, our approaches balance eachother perfectly. In fact, this aspect is another that pushes me to be better. I have a definite Libra lazy streak. I'd rather daydream and think all day then do housework if it wont be perfect.. but I want to be careful not to le

careful not to let my awesome Virgo feel taken advantage of.. and I've learned from him that it's important to just get the job done, even if it's not perfect. He cooks more than me but cooking more is my new year resolution.

I truly believe we make eachother better people. I used to have a lot of anger issues (was such a cookiemonster) and as soon as we started dating my anger just cooled.. he makes me want to be sweet. My guess is because my Gem Moon is so satisfied.

Since I'm Lib I have to also say what isn't great.. When I start talking on a tangent and he finds boring or superfluous it irritates him. When he talks about something boring I simply tune out. We're both intellectually snobbish so the understanding is mutual, we don't get offended, we just simply move on.

The sex is fantastic every time.. but the getting to actual sex was a challenge at one point. I think my Venus Scorpio tends to reserve my desires.. he finds me very sexy but I think his Virgo Sun doesn't believe that I really want him. It's been an intellectual battle of sorts. He's had to learn to have more confidence and I've had to learn to be more outward w my desires. Like i said before, we make eachother better and grow. I love that.

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We are almost equally pessimistic and optimistic with me being just slightly more optimistic.. which is great because I've rarely known anyone who worries more than me! He does so much worrying that I counteract it w extra positivity, but only when it's reasonable. I don't care for ignorant optimism.

I can relate to this too! I myself is a worrier but he is definitely the winner specially him being a scientist. I can't say i am that positive but when he is really getting negative i tried my best to let him see the bright side. He is a realist and i can be too but i have more hopes i guess.

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I have a definite Libra lazy streak. I'd rather daydream and think all day then do housework if it wont be perfect.. but I want to be careful not to let my awesome Virgo feel taken advantage of.. and I've learned from him that it's important to just get the job done, even if it's not perfect. He cooks more than me but cooking more is my new year resolution.

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Definitely, good thing i am sensitive enough to see if my laziness is getting overboard. He hates it when his day is not progressive at all so we make sure to do something rather than watch movie or surfing the internet. We sometimes walk around the Park (feeding birds) or simply play board games, jenga, etc.. (Today we played a lot, I mostly win!LOL) Next month will be interesting since we will be going to a language course together, surely we will be so busy learning! Progressive month, check!

My Virgo man loves to eat good food, he looks like a child when he eats happily you know? Hmm.. 😄 Fun to watch! When we met the first time he has no idea how to cook at all! Now he is getting really well, but he has a lot to learn!

Good luck cooking, it is fun doing it to the people you love! I wish all the best for you, your husband and child. 😉

My Virgo also very much prefers productive days. I have to remind him that he needs rest and relaxation to avoid burn-out. And he inspires me to get busy. It is a wonderful balance really.

Posted by duchesslibro
My Virgo also very much prefers productive days. I have to remind him that he needs rest and relaxation to avoid burn-out. And he inspires me to get busy. It is a wonderful balance really.

I know right? Makes me laugh when he gets so serious. He wakes up 6am in the morning and sleeps at 10pm during weekdays. Wakes up 7AM or 8AM and sleeps 10PM on weekends. He still hunts job so he no longer need to be so early but he is very disciplined. Ohh Now that he goes to the gym he wakes up 5:30AM on MWF so he can be at the gym at 6:30AM. I adore his dedication!

Before i met him i am already fine just resting and watching movies after a hard work, but now i have him.. I become more progressive. Before he met me, his looks so thin and wrinkles all over his face..Now I am in his life he looks so fresh, healthier and relaxed. Definitely a perfect balance. 😉