libras were never known for their creativity after all so its not surprising you couldnt come up with anything better...
and how am i "projecting my insecurity" when i admit that i have had goos sexual experiences with libra as well?
now if a guy tells me that he gets it up for EVERY girl, then he must be nondiscriminating or solely interested in sex for the sake of sex...
sex to me is more than just bumping uglies, or bumping "pretties" in my case:-)
but i digress...
if you feel like i am wasting your time you can
a. ignore me
b. stop following me around whenever i post
c. log off!
its all under your control!
@ irishlibra:
i don't need viagra...all i need to is to feel sexually attracted to someone and trust me, i have no problems..
and any of you women who tell me you have never been with a man who didnt get it up for you is either LYING or hasnt had enough sexual experiences or partners to make a judgement...
whenever i didnt get it up, the GIRL felt worse than me, and i didnt feel that bad because i always knew it WASNT ME!
i felt more bad for them that they knew it was THEM and not me!
i am just really empathetic like that..
@ virgolibra:
unlike virgos who are self critical and self conscious neurotics to a fault, i dont have any hangups about my sexuality or much anything else in my personality...
i am completely comfortable with myself...
and i don't care what you wanna do..do what thou will and it won't change how i go about my business...
speaking of "diggin in your heels", why don't you go to the library and dig your heels in a book!
i never knew virgos to be the sharpest tools in the box and you all can be some tools!
first, you could'nt manage to wrap your simple brain around the concept of a reflection, and then you try to tell everyone that water and air do not produce steam!
instead of flaming me on dxp why don't you go read a book and enlighten yourself a little?
you are really starting to make me think you are a little worse than pitiful...
* and any of you women who tell me you have never been with a man who didnt get it up for you is either LYING or hasnt had enough sexual experiences or partners to make a judgement...
* whenever i didnt get it up, the GIRL felt worse than me, and i didnt feel that bad because i always knew it WASNT ME!
* i felt more bad for them that they knew it was THEM and not me!
* i am just really empathetic like that..
Basically, you have problems with impotence and feel your manhood is threatened. Instead of adressing the situation within yourself and why you are unable to preform at certain times, you put it on the women. (Who perhaps you are intimidate by since you keep saying they are hot. I am not sure what your exact problem is.)
Not only that, you lower the woman's self-esteem by allowing her to take the blame for your own psychological problem, then they case you around seeking your approval. You think it is because you are all that and a bag of brownies ... meanwhile it is because you have lowered their worth so much that they need to be validated by you.
The only man who I know couldn't preform everytime knew he had problems with psychological impotence steming from cheating on the love of his life and being dumped by her for another man.
This isn't normal. You know that. Shame on you for projecting your sexual disfunction on other instead of dealing with it head on.
And no woman is going to be excited by a limp dick and of course they are going to lie there because they are afraid to move because you might fall out. And of course, they are going to tell you how great you are despite it all because obviously you are having a lack of sexual confidence and some sort of sexual dysfunction thing going on. Unlike you, they arne't going to add to your damage.
I am still shocked that you think this is normal and blame the women.
There is no shame in having a sexual dysfunction. It is, however, shameful to put it on others and not accept responsibility for it.
The thing about your posts is you are dripping in hidden hostility, yet in the end, you are the type of guy that screams "Nice Guys Finish Last" when there is nothing, NOTHING nice about you.
You have confirmed what I have already been told about Pisces men.
"but you libras do like your hedonistic addictions so a pisces addiction is good for you!
pisces brings out the best in you all and you will get all the love you want and more!"
I was with my picses for 4 years. The first 4 months of sex was amazing, but after that, it was very off and on...not great at all by the end. Very selfish lover. Not interested in giving me pleasure but getting for himself whatever he wanted.
I've had a man that couldn't get it up. Honestly: I NEVER FELT BAD ABOUT IT. but very disappointed in him as a lover.
"just something about them was just sooooo not sexual....its like they were just laying there and i don't like to be the one doing all the work...
i know how lazy you libras are! you always want people to do everything for you, and they usually do just because you all are almost always so pretty and charming!"
They weren't kissing you, rubbing you, holding you? I don't understand that. I'm not like that at all...I am very sensual with touch when I'm in the mood.
StillWaters: you really need to understand that although signs can determine some aspects of a person, not every Libra is exactly the same nor every Virgo, Piscean, ect. The reason you are being confronted on this board so much is that you are saying very offensive things applying to everyone under a certain sign...."Libras are bad lovers," "Virgos aren't the sharpest tool in the shed," "Pisces are the best lovers." I know people under each of those sign descriptions that simply don't fit the mold. You should keep in mind that moon signs and planets determine a lot as well.
As far as the Libra being bad lovers thing, there was a post on dxp a while back about who the best lovers were and many people said Libra. Maybe your chemistry with those girls was off. I've had one great Libra lover and being a Libra myself, I am anything but a dead fish in the sack. Maybe it's my Scorpio moon though 😉.
Point is, stop generalizing and learn to back down a bit in your opinions instead of being so abrasive and irrationally characterizing people you've never met. And that cocky attitude of yours is extremely unattractive. You could use some Libra charm yourself Mr. StillWaters.
When a libra woman is turned off, there's no faking it so there's no performance. Libras I think are the worst sign in hiding what we feel. We do reflect what others give us, so Sillywaters you probably can't get yourself off.
I am angry because what he is doing is wrong and hurting innocent women. (REGARDLESS of their sign.)
He is sexually dysfunctional and blaming innocent women for his sexual dysfunction. This is a TERRIBLE thing to do to someone else. Ripping down someone else's self-esteem instead of taking responsibility and getting help for himself and THAT is completely unacceptable.
In his case it is completely psychological. He gets erections so it is not a physical problem.
Most men do not address their sexual dysfunctions because that means "they aren't men". (I don't personally believe that but there is an underlying fear that many men have because as a society virility is seen as a halmark of masculinity. Again not something I believe but am aware of.) So they blame the women. Because you know ... it doesn't always happen so it has to be her fault.
I really don't care if he think Libras are bad in bed. I don't care if he thinks I am bad in bed as HE will never know. 😉
I was just chatting till this happened and posed some possible explanations for the lack of excitement. I was also addressing his concern that water signs were the end all be all of lovermakers. They certainly are not in this Libra lasses experience.
* t the same time woman have to understand it takes 2 people to make intimacy in a relationship work.
Sort of like men do? He is not taking any responsibility what so ever.
* If you lay there like a dead fish every night... hes gonna lose interest quick some quicker than others maybe I dunno
If you can't maintain an erection night after night, chances are the girl is going to lie there like a dead fish every night because she is afraid to do anything/and/or can't feel anything.
It goes both ways.
My best sex is definetly not with water signs. Who cares? Not me. I doubt they do. That isn't the issue anymore.
When you take a lover, for however long, you take a certain responsibility to protect and promote their emotional, spiritual, and physical health. Damaging someone else and heaping your emotional baggage on the other because of your afraid of your own failures is pretty horrific. I would care WHO the people involved are. Emotionally scaring your lover to protect your ego is wrong. Dead wrong.
And lets say I have it all wrong here (although, it seems like this happens to this guy quite frequently and not just with libra chicks. that was the vibe I got.) Obviously, the Libras in question weren't inspired sexually by this guy yet here he is saying over and over again about how Pisces men are the best lovers and bring out the best in Libras when his whole experience indicates that they don't.
"I have a question what happens when the Libran is a man does he still expect to be led in bed?"
For me it is all about seduction like LS said...this is important to both sexes. Libra guys actively seduce and Libra women actively allow themselves to be seduced. This is the root of what we consider our sexual power over ourselves and our lovers.
This works really well for me and my Libra lady. Every encounter even after being together over a year resembles a courtship when it comes to sex. The push and pull, the controlled behavior to build tension. Once she puts her hands on me I become aggressive. During the actual act I become what would be considered dominant but still predominantly through action and suggestion.
When it comes down to it I am a tease that delivers absolutely. I like to control how it flows, the intensity and timing of orgasms to create the experience like a painter and his brush or a pianist and his piano. Every body part a tool, every sensation divisive.
I hope that answers your question.
To answer the other part of your question we lead whenever the path strays from the idealistic objective. And we lead through being really hard to lead sometimes. We demonstrate our power through making it apparent that if we follow, it is by choice and if we lead it is by choice that no one has the power to make us do anything and we are really stubborn when it comes to this.
For me it is all about seduction like LS said...this is important to both sexes. Libra guys actively seduce and Libra women actively allow themselves to be seduced. This is the root of what we consider our sexual power over ourselves and our lovers.
Also, like Depressed I have a strong aversion to displays of dominance towards me. In the bed room it creates a power struggle which we make a point to win. Outside the bedroom it will make us abandon the situation or turn the tables by force depending on the circumstances. Either way we have no appreciation for someone trying to dominate us. Most of the time I take the passive approach choosing to show that the other persons attempts are innefective. If I have to I will resort force. It is really rare and no one pushes a libra to that point twice.
first of all, take the "libra" out of your name because every libra i knew had WAAAYYY too much class to carry on in the manner that you have demonstrated in the last 50 posts you have made, ALL dedicated to me, mind you!
and no libra i ever knew (except for maybe my aunt, who was the spoiled brat last child of 8 children) was so vulgar as you are! now VIRGOS on the other hand...i think you have made it abundantly clear how potty mouthed virgos can be!
"the point of this thread"?
i suppose the reason for this thread is not so different from the reason any one else comes to dxp and VENTS about their lives and whatever else THEY MAY SO CHOOSE...
and similirly to the question i asked the libran, i shall ask you, how can water be "stupid"?
UNLESS that water is seeping through your glass house and flooding you out!
*clears throat*
and don't feel bad for me...i know you may feel as though you are doing some service (i know how virgos like to be of service and all!) as you have literally dedicated the past 3 odd days to ME!
check your profile and you will see what i mean...
but i am flattered, though!
thank you for all of the stimulation you have provided me!
and while i did not directly call you a "tool" i did say that virgos have the tendency to carry on as such...
let's take you for example, although i did not directly say you were one before, as my aqua lady friends are fond of saying, i dare say that "I AM USING YOU" for my own mental stimulation and gratification....
but i only do this with your cooperation:-)
virgos always were known to be helpful ASSISTANTS...
now what are YOU getting out of it?
and as far as my "limp dick" i must say that i am VIRGO RISING remember?
it just APPEARS to be the case that i am sexually inadequate (a notoriously virgo trait) but i am really not...my pisces sun and my venus in aries will see to that every time..
either that, or being the stillwaters that i am, i am simply reflecting YOUR virgo sexual inadequacies that YOU KNOW YOU HAVE back on YOU....
if either were not the case, you wouldnt be NAGGING ME so much about my "limp dick"!
what, you guy can't get it up for you either?
i empathsize with you, sweetie..i really do!
@ littlesparrow:
i appreciate your attempts to analyze me, mislead as they may be, but i must say that you obviously speak from experience since you have encountered men just like me...
and what you say about men thinking you ladies are "fragile" resonates with me...
the libras i couldn't get it up for were so beautiful and so gorgeous that i just wanted to look at them and i didn't feel like it was a sexual vibe...
i was just mesmerized by their beauty.....
its like the expensive, fancy artwork, and the new, shiny luxury car i was talking about, you would rather just sit and look at it and enjoy it and take in all the beauty...there is usually a lot to take in with libra women...
and as far as me "blaming the women" you are absolutely correct and i must rephrase for posterity's sake...
i should say that NOTHING IS PERSONAL at the end of the day and it is NEVER about the other person, and i dare say never....
everything people do is because of their own inner drives and this may sound selfish, but this is the reality of the human being...this is the reality of nature...
so it was me....my limp dick was MY FAULT and not the libra ladies' fault in question because I was not feeling it...it had nothing to do with them...
@ amusealibra:
i understand your disappontment and there is nothing that pains me more that a gorgeous libra lady with a sad and disappointed look on her face...
i really empathize with you ladies on a deeper level than most...
remember neptune is the higher...
if the zodiac was the voice of an operatic soprano, neptune would be the high F's...
and as far as them "kissing and holding" me, i am glad you brought that u[p because some of the MOST SENSUAL lovers i have had are libras believe it or not!
i actually prefer kissing and cuddling with them more than having sex!
and libras love to cuddle! (probably more than sex too because after all, its all about the CLOSENESS and INTIMACY with you ladies...)
@ lolibrave:
its all for the stimulation, my dear...
after all, I AM a longtime card-carrying member or the libra women's fan club when you take out the sex from the equation!
@ irishlibra:
right-O!
point taken, Love...
@ joX3
i can get myself off alright...don't you worry about that now!
but thanks for your concern!
@ ash:
i like you!:-)
@ greatbull:
as long as i crave beauty first and foremost, i will ALWAYS be fucking with libra women...
they just look so damn good most of the time!
and a guilty conscience can be a bitch, i know...
better to come on dxp, vent, and PUT IT ALL OUT THERE!
i am quite aware that an operatic soprano is USUALLY a female singer...
ever heard of farinelli?
there was a movie made about him, you should check it out...
back in the days, the catholic church and others used to castrate boys before they hit puberty so their vocal chords would not develop and they could become artificial operatic sopranos known as "castrati" or the castrated ones, obviously...
needless to say, this horrific practice has since been abandoned...
i digress, but there are men who sing in the soprano range today in opera by singing in falsetto, which is also known as the head voice...these men are called counter-tenors, and ALSO, there are men who sing in the soprano voice range naturally (with their balls intact), not many, but they exist and are active in opera today...
and the REASON they sing in the soprano range is usually do to some growth abnormality as male sopranos are usually very small in stature...
so while i appreciate your attempt at poking fun at me, the basis you use to poke your fun at me is very shaky at best...
and NEPTUNE is the high F of the zodiac because all of the beauty contained therein is glorified, exhalted and finds a perfect home in neptune... the high F is the highest note produced in the female range...
neptune is traditionally a "femenin" orientation after all since he was god of the seas, and water as far as i have known has always had a femenine connotation...
let me make my analogy a little simpler for you..
neptune IS the HIGH F of the zodiac as VENUS is the LOW F of the zodiac...
and i am not an operatic singer as you suggest, merely an increasingly avid lister and patron.....
and your little comment about "selection" and "evolution" did not miss my attention...
if you would like me to explain to you exactly why the THEORY of evolution is BULLSHIT i would be more than happy to...
really, honestly now..
how can water be "sick"?
is that the best you can pass off as an insult?
libras were never known for their creativity after all so its not surprising you couldnt come up with anything better...
and how am i "projecting my insecurity" when i admit that i have had goos sexual experiences with libra as well?
now if a guy tells me that he gets it up for EVERY girl, then he must be nondiscriminating or solely interested in sex for the sake of sex...
sex to me is more than just bumping uglies, or bumping "pretties" in my case:-)
but i digress...
if you feel like i am wasting your time you can
a. ignore me
b. stop following me around whenever i post
c. log off!
its all under your control!
@ irishlibra:
i don't need viagra...all i need to is to feel sexually attracted to someone and trust me, i have no problems..
and any of you women who tell me you have never been with a man who didnt get it up for you is either LYING or hasnt had enough sexual experiences or partners to make a judgement...
whenever i didnt get it up, the GIRL felt worse than me, and i didnt feel that bad because i always knew it WASNT ME!
i felt more bad for them that they knew it was THEM and not me!
i am just really empathetic like that..
@ virgolibra:
unlike virgos who are self critical and self conscious neurotics to a fault, i dont have any hangups about my sexuality or much anything else in my personality...
i am completely comfortable with myself...
and i don't care what you wanna do..do what thou will and it won't change how i go about my business...
couldn't you tell?