libra's advice—

i will keep this short - female aqua met separated libra 2 months ago very amazing connection and libra was open about emotions feelings etc very ealier on - introduced me to all his friends wanted spend time with me - just couldnt have asked for a more.mutual understanding relationship. however due to his circumstances i did talk about how when his divorce was known he may change for instance wants to lead a single life, need time for kids to understand etc. he was always very logical and adament how he would be. then it was all change which i put down to situation as he was having to sort finanaces etc - he became distance and severe mixed msgs. i became insecure and we chatted and he admitted in the week i didnt really heat from him he'd bought his ex friend into the office & introduced her as his 'woman' to colleagues and even spebt the day with her as he wanted some 'fun' yet i was the one he called on the.phone for emotional support when he was really down a cuple of days before! he said nothing has gone on between them but ended up having an arguement and i said hed used me. next day he txt and said he didnt no a way forward so i told him it was up to him - finally he said he doesnt want to end it but wants time to sort himself out to then come back and focus on 'us' - he kept txting asking if i was ok i wud reply but then he wouldnt reply. so eventually i txt saying i wud contact him as what he was doing was giving me mixed feelings - so now he doesnt.contact me yet will reply to my txts. jst so confused and not sure what to do - am i being strung along aswell as his ex - does he what he says about wanting to sort stuff and then come back to us - could he really gave meant it when he told me i was the 'one' hes alwayd been looking for!!

Very interesting situation. It's a known idea that we don't like to be alone, though I've not been one who jumped from relationship to relationship. I do know Libras who will not stay single, to the point that literally within a week they are seeing someone new. I'd be interested to know why his marriage did not work out because from the looks of it I would say some cheating was involved. I take it that you didn't put any official labels on your relationship, but that being said to introduce someone to coworkers are their "woman" sorta gives you an answer to your question.

I've been known to take time to myself to sort things out, but something is just not right about this situation. I suggest this a lot, but when a Libra doesn't seem to be acting right it's time to give them the silent treatment and see what happens. If we care, we'll contact you, if we don't you won't hear from us. The mixed feelings thing is an excuse as I can honestly say I've gotten passed mixed feelings fairly quickly and knew what I thought of someone (friend or partner). This has happened recently to me and I was confused about the situation, but a lunch cured me of the confusion.

So long and short of it, give him the space and get on with your life. If he decides to contact you, then you need to ask about the nature of the relationship and then decide if that's what you want. Seems to me he is probably just looking to be friends and hasn't found a way to tell you just yet.

thank you for your response - he told me marriage has be broken down for 8 years and him & his wife decided go sray together for the kids but yet they finally decided enough was enough and they were unhappy and the kids being 8 & 12 did want to in the relationship any longer. he said he had one other relationship before me which ended a year ago which is the woman i mentioned and they are still friends! i asked him striaght out now his divorce is going through if he wants to go back with her and he said no. it was all good leading up to 3wks ago when both him and his wife told the kids and he had to sort out all the legal stuff. yet why push me away yet turn to me for emotional support yet his ex gfriend for fun. he said hes not himself and the moment and needs time yet he hasnt reassured me rather been very clever in what hes saying. i asked him straight out if he wanted yo be with me or if saying he needed time was a nicw way of ending it and he said he "i havent said anything to be nice" - its just so confusing as up until then he was so sincere and heartfelt even to the point of saying hes never felt like this for anyone not even his wife.

Oh Lawd, here goes another one. Don't hold your breath sweetie. This man is newly divorced or separated which means he is NOT ready to be tied down all over again his actions say it loud and clear. Forget about what he's saying. Look at what he's showing you.. He needs to see what else is out there, and I'm sorry but possibly to see if he can do better than you. If he thought you were the one and all that jazz, then trust he would not be feeding you b.s he??d hang up the player card and be with you. So he can kick sand with that line.. Not to mention HE INTRODUCED ANOTHER WOMAN AS HIS WOMAN, Ummm hellooooo, ding ding! Girl lace up your heels and promptly step over this confused divorced libra. He wants to date and have fun. He's feeding you b.s so he won't burn a bridge with you — just in case?? he decided you are in fact the one. Libra men are clever with words, and most are very easy on the eyes and they know it. Do not feel sorry for him, and don't baby him. Make him be a man and step to you correct. I would stick him in the friend zone and make him stay there in an effort to protect my heart if I were you. And one more thing, don't believe everything he says about the marriage, because there are always two sides to a story.