Libras and cheating

My bff and her bf are breaking it up, he is a first decan libra also just like my ex and my friend's gf. He used to tell her he loved her every single day and it took him 1 year to lock her down. I don't get it now that she's getting comfortable with him and they moved in together, she finds this. She found that he had been messaging a girl saying he wants her since a couple months.
This is so weird because my friend's gf is also a first decan libra and the reason they ended their engagement is because he found her emails to a guy saying she loves him.
Same story happened with my other friend and her libra.

Why do libras do this? I know with my bff she had been having arguments with him and I told her that maybe he got bored with her now that its getting too comfortable. Is this a way for libras to take out their anger when they are hurt or do they just cheat when they are bored? My friend is a leo and her bf is a libra.

The common thing about these libras were they were all first decan born in september.

Just my observation, but Libras never put all their eggs in one basket.

Posted by scorply
Just my observation, but Libras never put all their eggs in one basket.

Yeah I agree, sure I've met and dated some loyal ones but most of the ones I met arent faithful

I am a September Libra. I know this is the Internet and anyone could pretty much say what they want, but I would never cheat. I honestly could never even imagine it. I will say it does take me a while to commit to someone, but they would straight up know that I wasn't ready for a commitment. I am a very honest person when it comes to that. So if that hurts them when I'm not in a relationship and have said it, then that's another story. But once I am committed and I am with someone, I give them my heart and hope they don't take it for granted. That is when I can be nonconfrontational and end up compromising a lot in the relationship. However, only when I felt completely disrespected, would I begin to express that and have said that if we can't work it out then I'd leave. My ex cheated on me and I still had no desire to do it back. I simply walked away when he thought I wouldn't. I will leave, but I will not cheat. I know that that's simply not who I am.

Posted by jane84
I am a September Libra. I know this is the Internet and anyone could pretty much say what they want, but I would never cheat. I honestly could never even imagine it. I will say it does take me a while to commit to someone, but they would straight up know that I wasn't ready for a commitment. I am a very honest person when it comes to that. So if that hurts them when I'm not in a relationship and have said it, then that's another story. But once I am committed and I am with someone, I give them my heart and hope they don't take it for granted. That is when I can be nonconfrontational and end up compromising a lot in the relationship. However, only when I felt completely disrespected, would I begin to express that and have said that if we can't work it out then I'd leave. My ex cheated on me and I still had no desire to do it back. I simply walked away when he thought I wouldn't. I will leave, but I will not cheat. I know that that's simply not who I am.

Thanks for your post. whats your moon and venus in?

Welcome. 🙂

Libra Moon, Scorpio Venus

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Posted by Sassygurl
My bff and her bf are breaking it up, he is a first decan libra also just like my ex and my friend's gf. He used to tell her he loved her every single day and it took him 1 year to lock her down. I don't get it now that she's getting comfortable with him and they moved in together, she finds this. She found that he had been messaging a girl saying he wants her since a couple months.
This is so weird because my friend's gf is also a first decan libra and the reason they ended their engagement is because he found her emails to a guy saying she loves him.
Same story happened with my other friend and her libra.

Why do libras do this? I know with my bff she had been having arguments with him and I told her that maybe he got bored with her now that its getting too comfortable. Is this a way for libras to take out their anger when they are hurt or do they just cheat when they are bored? My friend is a leo and her bf is a libra.

It takes a long time for 1st Decan Libra to grow up, they usually are not full matured until 40. Seriously..,

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Yeah they are very immature

Posted by jane84
Welcome. 🙂

Libra Moon, Scorpio Venus

jane do you have a bf? whats his moon and venus

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Posted by jane84
Welcome. 🙂

Libra Moon, Scorpio Venus

jane do you have a bf? whats his moon and venus

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Yes. Cancer moon, Capricorn Venus

Because some just are never happy with what they have. They're so in love with the idea of love- all that exciting shit that comes with new relationships, that they constantly are on the look out, even if they're taken.

It's like dealing with an addict with some. It doesn't matter if they landed a relationship, some are addicted to the honeymoon phase and will always be on the lookout.

"You'll do for now until I find something better" should be the motto of some, really.

I will never understand stupid azz assessments. That is what you call immature when someone assumes that everyone of a particular sign exhibits the same behavior. Like Jane84 says, it may take a while for SOME of us to commit, but ALL Libra's don't cheat, and how many 1st Decan Libran's have you met where you've made the assessment they all cheat? There are at least 2 million plus (exaggeration) Libra's on this earth, so unless you have experienced a relationship with all of them, why would you ask the question: Why do Libra's do this—?

If you're not fulfilling your duty Libras (as will any sign) will seek what you lack elsewhere.

Everyone wonders why their bf/gf/spouse cheats on them but let's not forget that someone doesn't just cheat while being 100% happy and satisfied in a relationship. No, something is missing or not right, something is boring, not stimulating, dull lacking. Yes. I'm not saying the Cheatee is the cause but they play a role in it not something people care to admit but it's true.
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But I will add some Libras would rather stay and cheat (sexually/Emotionally) then have the courage to dump you.

All cheaters are cowards actually
You want multiple mates ? Stay single or become a polygamist. Someone getting on your nerves and or your feelings have changed? At least have the balls to cut them loose and do your thing. Yeah it might hurt them but it'd hurt less than being cheated on.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Because some just are never happy with what they have. They're so in love with the idea of love- all that exciting shit that comes with new relationships, that they constantly are on the look out, even if they're taken.

It's like dealing with an addict with some. It doesn't matter if they landed a relationship, some are addicted to the honeymoon phase and will always be on the lookout.

"You'll do for now until I find something better" should be the motto of some, really.

That applies to many signs including Aries the opposite supposedly.

Any weak individual. Sun sign alone hardly means shit

I'm disappointed that Etigre25 responded with such hostility.

If you're not a cheater why react to someone that is expressing an observation?

Posted by WateryGem
I'm disappointed that Etigre25 responded with such hostility.

If you're not a cheater why react to someone that is expressing an observation?

He's sick of winey ass people(mostly women) coming into the Libra forum to talk about stupid generalizations and stereotypes based on their ex boyfriends and other libras from their personal life with who they disagree with.

Posted by HarleyTwinFlame

Posted by WateryGem
I'm disappointed that Etigre25 responded with such hostility.

If you're not a cheater why react to someone that is expressing an observation?

He's sick of winey ass people(mostly women) coming into the Libra forum to talk about stupid generalizations and stereotypes based on their ex boyfriends and other libra from their personal life with who they disagree with.

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but why take it personal? I didn't feel she was bashing or even whining.

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Because some just are never happy with what they have. They're so in love with the idea of love- all that exciting shit that comes with new relationships, that they constantly are on the look out, even if they're taken.

It's like dealing with an addict with some. It doesn't matter if they landed a relationship, some are addicted to the honeymoon phase and will always be on the lookout.

"You'll do for now until I find something better" should be the motto of some, really.

That applies to many signs including Aries the opposite supposedly.

Any weak individual. Sun sign alone hardly means shit

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You're correct "any weak individual"...

Posted by GreyWiz
they are a good looking. people flatter their ego a lot and this entices them to cheat. very simple.

however i feel a pain in my forehead when people generalize based on sun signs alone........


how many times do we have to go through this? A libra with venus in scorpio and moon in taurus is not same as libra with sag moon and libra venus.

That guy who complains about this site is so right at times...................

I don't think it was generalization, she was stating what she has seen.

She didn't say ALL Libras, she stated the ones she's noticed have been 1st decan.

so they should discard all the Sun sign categories and put each Sun with each Moon, and Venus and Mars, so we can address each one individually? Come on...

she shared what shes seen.

Just like people say on other boards.

Posted by GreyWiz
well no....

it makes sense to ask something like " do people with x sign in 7th house have a higher probability in cheating?" or something along lines like that. It is irritating to make generalizations. The reason many of us emphasize this is that skeptics of astrology exploit these to debunk astrology easily. If a taurus doesn't act how a taurus sun should act some guy will say astrology is farce etc.

plus it's juts gets on people's nerves.


most gem women are two faced...........

most gems are sluts....

do you like this?

I'll come back in the morning.. I've got to go to bed! LOL My kids are going to wake up early. Gn

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Posted by WateryGem
I'm disappointed that Etigre25 responded with such hostility.

If you're not a cheater why react to someone that is expressing an observation?

He's sick of winey ass people(mostly women) coming into the Libra forum to talk about stupid generalizations and stereotypes based on their ex boyfriends and other libras from their personal life with who they disagree with.

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No, he's just a little bitch that takes everything personally, as if it's a direct insult to his character.

If he wasn't guilty of any of this shit, he wouldn't have any fucks to give about it, really.

He's also 12, which explains all his crazy fuck reactions. He needs to go outside.

Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
All cheaters are cowards actually
You want multiple mates ? Stay single or become a polygamist. Someone getting on your nerves and or your feelings have changed? At least have the balls to cut them loose and do your thing. Yeah it might hurt them but it'd hurt less than being cheated on.

Agreed.

But remember, Libras are typically known for dreading being single. Some have been known to be in a relationship just to have that presence there to keep them from being the dreaded "s" word, while they continue looking.

Some are also notorious for having a plan B at all times when it comes to relationships. Some will stick it out in a bad situation until they have an exit dick/vagina to hop on to next.

Libras tend to be insecure as fuck, thus creating many, who are indeed, cowards.

Yes, any sun sign can be a cheater, but it's how they go about it that's the trend you see within a sign.

Aries might do it due to selfish impulses.
Caps might do it because they use people.
Libras might do it because they're insecure as fuck and can't make up their minds who they want to keep for life or not.
Sags might do it because they have a propensity of being sluts.
Gems might do it because they're fickle as fuck.
Leos might do it because of their huge egos and they're total drama whores.
Etc, etc.

This thread, dear naysayers with sticks up asses, is a thread discussing what it is about Libras that makes them prone to cheating and why they do it.

If the mentally stunted here cannot grasp the concept of what this thread is about, I suggest they exit stage left and leave the conversation for those who actually can comprehend what the OP was asking and the point of the thread was. There are cookies and children's books in the room down the hall for you to enjoy.

Posted by GreyWiz
well no....

it makes sense to ask something like " do people with x sign in 7th house have a higher probability in cheating?" or something along lines like that. It is irritating to make generalizations. The reason many of us emphasize this is that skeptics of astrology exploit these to debunk astrology easily. If a taurus doesn't act how a taurus sun should act some guy will say astrology is farce etc.

plus it's juts gets on people's nerves.


most gem women are two faced...........

most gems are sluts....

do you like this?

Well, you have to remember, butt hurt azz people who are obsessed with their own bad experiences just don't know how to let shyt go and move on so the two or three bad experiences they've have now makes them an experts on how and why people behave the way they do. I've had several experiences with Taurus's, and even though a FEW of their sentimental, obsessive azzes couldn't let go and move on, some of them had no problem moving on. Those were the one's like the selfish, egotistical Aries, that needed their ego's stroked on a regular basis. Same with Gemini's. I have a best friend Taurus married to a Gemini who cheats and beats on her, but for whatever reason, she still stays because they were childhood sweethearts and have been together forever in "her words". Guess that's the sentimental side of the bull. Aries uncle been married 4 times, but like one OP said, he just got bored and no longer wanted to be in relationship or marriage, so he did what he thought was the right thing by leaving, but then questions why OTHER people just won't do him right as if his azz had nothing to do with how they acted, AND what does he do? Jump right back into another fruitless relationship...Just can't be happy being alone and worse than SOME Libra's....JSMH.
Bad experiences are supposed to make you wiser, not dumber.

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Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
All cheaters are cowards actually
You want multiple mates ? Stay single or become a polygamist. Someone getting on your nerves and or your feelings have changed? At least have the balls to cut them loose and do your thing. Yeah it might hurt them but it'd hurt less than being cheated on.

they will never do that. the sick truth is that they get off on cheating on a "loyal" partner. you see sex is ver boring after a while no matter how much you try to spice it up and dress it up. People have to seek more and more highs to get off and get off and enjoy it.

the moment sex enters the mind then all is over.

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like sexual assault, i think sex plays only a small part in cheating. from what i have seen it is about connection, attention, ego.

Posted by WateryGem
I'm disappointed that Etigre25 responded with such hostility.

If you're not a cheater why react to someone that is expressing an observation?

Exactly!

And def all libras are not cheaters so everyone needs to calm down lol except for the ones I've met

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Posted by GreyWiz
they are a good looking. people flatter their ego a lot and this entices them to cheat. very simple.

however i feel a pain in my forehead when people generalize based on sun signs alone........


how many times do we have to go through this? A libra with venus in scorpio and moon in taurus is not same as libra with sag moon and libra venus.

That guy who complains about this site is so right at times...................

I don't think it was generalization, she was stating what she has seen.

She didn't say ALL Libras, she stated the ones she's noticed have been 1st decan.

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That's right. Im glad you understood.

So anyways, back to why I posted this. Bff and her bf have decided to get back together. She is saying she wants to forgive him and move on with him. But he still goes out with the other girl. She has been crying alot and asked him if he wants her still and he said yes, but wouldnt let go of the other girl.

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Posted by GreyWiz

Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
All cheaters are cowards actually
You want multiple mates ? Stay single or become a polygamist. Someone getting on your nerves and or your feelings have changed? At least have the balls to cut them loose and do your thing. Yeah it might hurt them but it'd hurt less than being cheated on.

they will never do that. the sick truth is that they get off on cheating on a "loyal" partner. you see sex is ver boring after a while no matter how much you try to spice it up and dress it up. People have to seek more and more highs to get off and get off and enjoy it.

the moment sex enters the mind then all is over.

like sexual assault, i think sex plays only a small part in cheating. from what i have seen it is about connection, attention, ego.

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I totally agree with this based on the situation with my bff and bf

What is your BFF's sun, moon, Venus, Mars?

Posted by ElTigre25

Posted by WateryGem
I'm disappointed that Etigre25 responded with such hostility.

If you're not a cheater why react to someone that is expressing an observation?

You are disappointed in me? No one asked you to place me on some pedestal. Look I'm not on here to make friends and I will express disdain for whatever I please just as I will express what I find interesting. Whoever has an issue with that, well they can get in line to kiss my ass.

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I didn't place you on some pedestal. I just think people shouldn't get offended by topics on a message forum pertaining to a certain Sun sign. It is an astrology board..

Why would I call names to people who go and make a thread about Gemini Suns? People of all signs can be everything people post about. Geminis can be two-faced sluts, Libra can be cheaters, and so on.

Why not give feedback to the poster or just keep moving?

The OP didn't come on this board guns blazing, I felt she was curious as to what would cause the sign of "partnership" to cheat? How a sign that is to be fair and balanced would deceive their loved one? How about some insight?

And so what, if right now her perception is that 1st decan males cheat? You're not changing her perspective by any means.

Distraught? Lol what? I'm not even slightly upset.

Posted by jane84
What is your BFF's sun, moon, Venus, Mars?

Virgo sun, scorpio moon, venus and mars in virgo

Posted by GreyWiz
they are a good looking. people flatter their ego a lot and this entices them to cheat. very simple.

however i feel a pain in my forehead when people generalize based on sun signs alone........


how many times do we have to go through this? A libra with venus in scorpio and moon in taurus is not same as libra with sag moon and libra venus.

That guy who complains about this site is so right at times...................

Thank you for the "how many times do we have to go through this?" Lol Although many are not saying we are all the same. But I would hate to have someone (who I cared about dating) say, "Oh you're a September libra? I heard most of you cheat and are immature." That would be a great conversation wouldn't it?
-I'm just kidding, I wouldn't "hate it," it would be funny... Then I'd never call that person again... ‰

I'm assuming I'll continue to read about this on here. I guess I was just born on the wrong day!!

*I've been cheated on before. Honestly, he hated that people thought I was beautiful and intelligent. It was to a point where it tried to isolate me from everyone. He also was abusive. (Same placements as Chris Brown³)
He was a Taurus. My cousin is a Taurus, he is not like that with his wife. My close friend is a Taurus, she is not like that. They all have different placements. I don't know what to say. If someone is acting a certain way then it's because they need something else that they are not getting in the relationship and you need to move on. It's not their sun sign. My ex needed someone he could control, who was dependent upon him, and would do everything his way. I got tired of it, he found someone he could do that with. She was a Pisces... Should I think all Pisces women are backstabbing (I let this woman in my home!) home wreckers who lie and cry to get their way? Nah. I have Pisces friends that are sweet and would never do that.

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Posted by jane84
What is your BFF's sun, moon, Venus, Mars?

Virgo sun, scorpio moon, venus and mars in virgo

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Aww my niece has some of those placements. I would hate for her to be in a bad relationship. I hope your friend finds strength within herself to leave him. No one deserves to be treated that way. No one can change who someone is though, so she needs to see this for herself, if she loves him more than herself, she'll stay sadly. Hopefully she does and finds better guy. (Regardless of their sign.)

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Posted by GreyWiz
they are a good looking. people flatter their ego a lot and this entices them to cheat. very simple.

however i feel a pain in my forehead when people generalize based on sun signs alone........


how many times do we have to go through this? A libra with venus in scorpio and moon in taurus is not same as libra with sag moon and libra venus.

That guy who complains about this site is so right at times...................

Thank you for the "how many times do we have to go through this?" Lol Although many are not saying we are all the same. But I would hate to have someone (who I cared about dating) say, "Oh you're a September libra? I heard most of you cheat and are immature." That would be a great conversation wouldn't it?
-I'm just kidding, I wouldn't "hate it," it would be funny... Then I'd never call that person again... ‰

I'm assuming I'll continue to read about this on here. I guess I was just born on the wrong day!!

*I've been cheated on before. Honestly, he hated that people thought I was beautiful and intelligent. It was to a point where it tried to isolate me from everyone. He also was abusive. (Same placements as Chris Brown³)
He was a Taurus. My cousin is a Taurus, he is not like that with his wife. My close friend is a Taurus, she is not like that. They all have different placements. I don't know what to say. If someone is acting a certain way then it's because they need something else that they are not getting in the relationship and you need to move on. It's not their sun sign. My ex needed someone he could control, who was dependent upon him, and would do everything his way. I got tired of it, he found someone he could do that with. She was a Pisces... Should I think all Pisces women are backstabbing (I let this woman in my home!) home wreckers who lie and cry to get their way? Nah. I have Pisces friends that are sweet and would never do that.

+1. This is what i was trying to explain to watery gem and op.

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I understood it but people are going to share their experiences. It's going to be the Sun sign they will post about. Since we've been here for years now we can't grow callus to others seeking to understand, whether its repetitive. I feel this is why people delete their accts.

We could have asked the chart info for the people she was referring to, something of use to analyze the situation.

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Posted by GreyWiz
they are a good looking. people flatter their ego a lot and this entices them to cheat. very simple.

however i feel a pain in my forehead when people generalize based on sun signs alone........


how many times do we have to go through this? A libra with venus in scorpio and moon in taurus is not same as libra with sag moon and libra venus.

That guy who complains about this site is so right at times...................

Thank you for the "how many times do we have to go through this?" Lol Although many are not saying we are all the same. But I would hate to have someone (who I cared about dating) say, "Oh you're a September libra? I heard most of you cheat and are immature." That would be a great conversation wouldn't it?
-I'm just kidding, I wouldn't "hate it," it would be funny... Then I'd never call that person again... ‰

I'm assuming I'll continue to read about this on here. I guess I was just born on the wrong day!!

*I've been cheated on before. Honestly, he hated that people thought I was beautiful and intelligent. It was to a point where it tried to isolate me from everyone. He also was abusive. (Same placements as Chris Brown³)
He was a Taurus. My cousin is a Taurus, he is not like that with his wife. My close friend is a Taurus, she is not like that. They all have different placements. I don't know what to say. If someone is acting a certain way then it's because they need something else that they are not getting in the relationship and you need to move on. It's not their sun sign. My ex needed someone he could control, who was dependent upon him, and would do everything his way. I got tired of it, he found someone he could do that with. She was a Pisces... Should I think all Pisces women are backstabbing (I let this woman in my home!) home wreckers who lie and cry to get their way? Nah. I have Pisces friends that are sweet and would never do that.

+1. This is what i was trying to explain to watery gem and op.

I understood it but people are going to share their experiences. It's going to be the Sun sign they will post about. Since we've been here for years now we can't grow callus to others seeking to understand, whether its repetitive. I feel this is why people delete their accts.

We could have asked the chart info for the people she was referring to, something of use to analyze the situation.

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I did ask for more info. ‰ I

I did ask for more info. ‰ I get it though. Now if someone is doing the same thing as my ex who cheated then I'd tell someone who DOESN'T like it to move on. If they want that in their lives then I can't make anyone do anything and more power to them. So yes sharing personal experiences that connect to what the person is saying I understand. But to generalize all of them in one category is far fetched and not necessary. I can see why people delete their accts. Some people have some serious issues with a certain sign on here!!
There are some interesting topics though..

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Posted by ElTigre25
I didn't place you on some pedestal. I just think people shouldn't get offended by topics on a message forum pertaining to a certain Sun sign. It is an astrology board.. Why would I call names to people who go and make a thread about Gemini Suns? People of all signs can be everything people post about. Geminis can be two-faced sluts, Libra can be cheaters, and so on. Why not give feedback to the poster or just keep moving?

Actually, I did give feedback to the poster, but the USUAL NEGATIVE AZZ NAY SAYERS that are ALWAYS in these threads felt the need to jump in as if the OP needed their defense. BUT, I agree with you. However, the SAME Astrological Counselors ( yeah..right) that come to these threads to explain how a specific sign behaves are the SAME one's that will stick their fist down your throat when you make the SAME analysis about their behaviors, so all SHYT smells the same, and everybody SHYT STINKS. If your experiences with a group of people is that bad, and you totally believe in every detail of the astrological bullshyt, then that makes you the dummy if you keep getting involved with the same folks. Why give anyone that much power in your existence and be that negative, and if you have no involvement with the person or people anymore, then why the hell are you still whining? Why keep beating a dead horse? You have to be a special kinda retarded to even think about considering the comments or so-called expert advise from miserable azz people that don't know whether to tie their azz or scratch their shoes. I would like to think even the worst of the worst have some redeeming qualities. I'm sure a few other SIGNS feel the same way about THESE SO-CALLED ASTROLOGICAL EXPERTS and in this EXACT order!

Posted by Sassygurl
My bff and her bf are breaking it up, he is a first decan libra also just like my ex and my friend's gf. He used to tell her he loved her every single day and it took him 1 year to lock her down. I don't get it now that she's getting comfortable with him and they moved in together, she finds this. She found that he had been messaging a girl saying he wants her since a couple months.
This is so weird because my friend's gf is also a first decan libra and the reason they ended their engagement is because he found her emails to a guy saying she loves him.
Same story happened with my other friend and her libra.

Why do libras do this? I know with my bff she had been having arguments with him and I told her that maybe he got bored with her now that its getting too comfortable. Is this a way for libras to take out their anger when they are hurt or do they just cheat when they are bored? My friend is a leo and her bf is a libra.

Wow. That's a sticky situation, I'm sorry to hear about your friend o___o

Hopefully as you being an aries you can be her rock atm. But I say once a wandering eye always a wandering eye. Maybe look to psychology books for this one? Idk, seems like it may be more than astrology here

Posted by jane84
I am a September Libra. I know this is the Internet and anyone could pretty much say what they want, but I would never cheat. I honestly could never even imagine it. I will say it does take me a while to commit to someone, but they would straight up know that I wasn't ready for a commitment. I am a very honest person when it comes to that. So if that hurts them when I'm not in a relationship and have said it, then that's another story. But once I am committed and I am with someone, I give them my heart and hope they don't take it for granted. That is when I can be nonconfrontational and end up compromising a lot in the relationship. However, only when I felt completely disrespected, would I begin to express that and have said that if we can't work it out then I'd leave. My ex cheated on me and I still had no desire to do it back. I simply walked away when he thought I wouldn't. I will leave, but I will not cheat. I know that that's simply not who I am.

September what?

Posted by scorply
Just my observation, but Libras never put all their eggs in one basket.

This! There's series of lovers they have lined up because loneliness and singlehood is oh-so-bad and intolerable for them. They are the sign of partnership, hello?!!

My sister is a libra moon and has never been single. She always had someone lined up that she went with after a break-up. That back-up person waiting in the wings was usually either an ex or someone she used to bide her time with until someone of real interest came along.

My libra moon cousin is the same way. Never really went single. Even when he was tired of relationships and wanted to be "single" he had women who he was leading on without the fear title.

My libra moon friend surrounds himself with women, but he's "single". He doesn't need a gf because he always has different women to go around town with.

This sign doesn't know how to be alone or truly single and be self-focused.

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Posted by scorply
Just my observation, but Libras never put all their eggs in one basket.

This! There's series of lovers they have lined up because loneliness and singlehood is oh-so-bad and intolerable for them. They are the sign of partnership, hello?!!

My sister is a libra moon and has never been single. She always had someone lined up that she went with after a break-up. That back-up person waiting in the wings was usually either an ex or someone she used to bide her time with until someone of real interest came along.

My libra moon cousin is the same way. Never really went single. Even when he was tired of relationships and wanted to be "single" he had women who he was leading on without the fear title.

My libra moon friend surrounds himself with women, but he's "single". He doesn't need a gf because he always has different women to go around town with.

This sign doesn't know how to be alone or truly single and be self-focused.

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Oh geez. We are social creatures haha get over it. We have friends that are both women and men. Anyway, it's a libra thing to want to be around people? I guess so... But why live our ONE life around no one? Self focused? I love my independent self. In college I had a Capricorn, Gemini, and Pisces for roommates. (All at the same time.) Guess who they always hassled about going with them to places because I went ON MY OWN everywhere. Lol Yup, the libra. But I do love having fun with friends.

My Aquarius sister cheated on her husband because she was tired of his crap. She was never single. NEVER. I don't like that she cheated. Again I never would. But that's her life. Should I say all Aquarius women are cheaters? Nope

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Posted by jane84
I am a September Libra. I know this is the Internet and anyone could pretty much say what they want, but I would never cheat. I honestly could never even imagine it. I will say it does take me a while to commit to someone, but they would straight up know that I wasn't ready for a commitment. I am a very honest person when it comes to that. So if that hurts them when I'm not in a relationship and have said it, then that's another story. But once I am committed and I am with someone, I give them my heart and hope they don't take it for granted. That is when I can be nonconfrontational and end up compromising a lot in the relationship. However, only when I felt completely disrespected, would I begin to express that and have said that if we can't work it out then I'd leave. My ex cheated on me and I still had no desire to do it back. I simply walked away when he thought I wouldn't. I will leave, but I will not cheat. I know that that's simply not who I am.

September what?

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Why is your best friend a September libra or the guy you were interested in but are no longer? ‰
It's the 26th.

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Posted by scorply
Just my observation, but Libras never put all their eggs in one basket.

This! There's series of lovers they have lined up because loneliness and singlehood is oh-so-bad and intolerable for them. They are the sign of partnership, hello?!!

My sister is a libra moon and has never been single. She always had someone lined up that she went with after a break-up. That back-up person waiting in the wings was usually either an ex or someone she used to bide her time with until someone of real interest came along.

My libra moon cousin is the same way. Never really went single. Even when he was tired of relationships and wanted to be "single" he had women who he was leading on without the fear title.

My libra moon friend surrounds himself with women, but he's "single". He doesn't need a gf because he always has different women to go around town with.

This sign doesn't know how to be alone or truly single and be self-focused.

Oh geez. We are social creatures haha get over it. We have friends that are both women and men. Anyway, it's a libra thing to want to be around people? I guess so... But why live our ONE life around no one? Self focused? I love my independent self. In college I had a Capricorn, Gemini, and Pisces for roommates. (All at the same time.) Guess who they always hassled about going with them to places because I went ON MY OWN everywhere. Lol Yup, the libra. But I do love having fun with friends.

My Aquarius sister cheated on her husband because she was tired of his crap. She was never single. NEVER. I don't like that she cheated. Again I never would. But that's her life. Should I say all Aquarius women are cheaters? Nope

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Nothing was said about being social and having friends because all air signs are like that, including myself. As for your Aqua sister, does she have libra placements? LOL. My cousin that I mentioned is an Aqua sun and libra moon. LOL. I'm not discriminating on libra SUNs. I'm just saying libra placements in a person's chart makes them insecure and gives them an abnormal propensity to be liked and not be alone. People who are dependent on others for their happiness cheat.

No, my Taurus ex nor my Aqua sister have any libra placements.

My sister has a Taurus moon like my ex though.

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Libras, with their "delicate" egos and their "perfect image" has to be protected at all times!!

Dude, this came to mind when I was talking to my Libra friend the other day. She is always SO caught up in what others could think. She's paranoid as fuck and always worried about overall appearance. She even plays little games "oh I'll wait to respond a bit so I don't look desperate." Or she won't intentionally contact someone because she's worried about what it'll make her look like. She's FRETTING over this trivial shit.

I'm always having to talk her out of her neurotic worrying with a lot of stuff because it's like oh fucking a, woman, WHO CARES? Why are you so caught up on what others think of you? If you want to do it, do it (whatever she's fretting about), as long as it's not harming anyone, wtf ever, you know?

...she's such a Libra. I even tell her that haha.

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No, my Taurus ex nor my Aqua sister have any libra placements.

My sister has a Taurus moon like my ex though.

Well, there's a pattern. Another Venusian. I know two Taurus moon women that are total cheats. So, time to ponder about this placement.

It's impossible for libras answering this thread to do so with an unbiased opinion for obvious reasons. You guys have some negative traits, embrace it. What I will say though is that it can come handy ALOT to have that many connections. My husband has bailed us out of so much because he could go down the list and get someone to do whatever he needed.It amazes me how he can always weasel his way out of EVERYTHING.When I tell you we have never suffered in any way even when we should have, believe me, we didn't. I can appreciate that in Libras.When I think to act harshly, he swoops in and handles things in a way that leaves all walking away made whole so that we don't burn bridges, just in case. That's great because I have an awful tendency to burn bridges and just build other ones. My husband be like "nope, we need all ports open". So it's not all bad.