Libras! I need your help! Help outa a newbie!!:-)

I am a virgo. i met this libra a couple of weeks ago. i had no idea what a libra was all about at the time, but i have been reading the posts and i see you are all player players lol.

well, here's the story.

we met a couple of weeks ago at an album release party. instant connection. very calm, but it was there nonetheless.i gave him my number - but you know, i don't really expect them to call 95% of the time. well, he called that night to hang - i was busy. he called to hang the next night, and i had to leave to go back home. when we talked, he said that he was really excited "i'm excited...i think i found someone really special this weekend" were his excact words.

he said he's call the next week, and didn't call until a week later, which i may chalk up to just boys, not just libras. anyway, i get all excited about his phone call, but when i listened to his message, all he did was insist on me sending him the album i was working on he was really really insistent and excited about my work - but he didn't ask to chat or anything with ME - like he's more into my work than me?? i don't get it.

i haven't heard from him since.

he doesn't live near me, but I WANT HIM!

What should I do libras?
How do I approach this 'problem'?

I don't understand what your problem is. Did you call him back?

If he is interested in your work, he is interested in you. Unless he is trying to rip your work off.

If you didn't call him back, he thinks you aren't interested.

Oh. yeah i did call him back. he was busy doing something with his mom, and he said he'd call me back later..

THAT WAS A WEEK AGO😢

that should change things - now what do i do?

like i said I WANT HIM...

and i'm a virgo, and i have a problem holding back when i really want something. yes there are other guys, but he has all the right stuff, ya know?

w/b

I'm confused as to how you know for sure he has all the right stuff based on a couple hours at a party. He is showing interest in you by showing interest in your work.

I say call him back, since it's been a week. Ask him if he's still interested in your work. That will lay the ground work for further conversation.

We're indirect. You'll have to read between the lines. "i'm excited...i think i found someone really special this weekend" is a good example of this. His journey into getting you has only just begun and a lot of it takes place in his head.

Sounds like he does not know what to do, at the moment. Can him again, if you have the guts...then you'll know. But be aloof, don't want him too much. The fact that you're calling says enough. If he wants you, he'll bite.

So virgos dont completly hate us? What a relief! but thats another story for another time 🙂

"but i have been reading the posts and i see you are all player players"
Oh cmon, we're not ALL players. We just like to be around people cut us some slack :p

Seriously though, I agree with Libra we are indirect, at least I am. Do keep in touch with him if you do plan to get with this man. My advice? Well I was going to say don't be too agressive he'll come around but Libra beat me to it. Good luck with him.

When we are in love we do not play with that person. Au contraire!

I don't think there is any sign that takes love as seriously as we do. Venus??

oh THANKS THANKS THANKS for all of your help.

great advice!!

now, the deal now is that he lives far away. he lives on the west coast, i live in the south.

if he's interested and being just his libra self - that's fine.

but i'm afraid that i cannot hook him if he's so far. it's like the distance and his libraness are a double whammy.

what should i do now?

he's a musician too.

i sent him my CD plus a cutesy note...no word yet.

plus that unreturned phone call.

i think the ball is definitely in his court, wouldn't you say?

Libra men (and women too) - any ideas?

I think you should also seek out advice from those dating Libras. You asking Libras themselves what ideas they have may be biased. It's like asking a mother if her child is smarter than someone else's child.

I've heard that Libras are aloof, but I honestly haven't experienced that yet with the Libra in my life. He's very laid back and charming. I've also heard that infidelity runs in Libras, but I don't sense that with him.

Don't rely so much on his sign, luv77. You haven't spoken to him or seen him since that party. Don't put so much weight on either of your shoulders. If it's meant to be, it's meant to be and things work themselves out.

I am an Aries man, married to a Libra woman.

She beautiful, maddening, soft, angry, shallow, deep, sweet, distance, high spirited, quiet, a wild cat, a shy mouse, smart, self centered and thoughtful.

Get the picture! As my friends and family say she will give you brain damage... but damn... she is sexy and smart!

Good luck if you are with a Libra woman. It won't be dull!!!!!!

I have survived 5 years. wish me luck!

TAKE THE LEAD!!!

Libras are not players. They just can't make up there minds.

Do not follow their lead or you will both get lost!!

Gently guide your Libra man or (woman). You take the lead, while listening to their suggestions and input carefully.

Libras can be very subborn so lead sofly, BUT LEAD! Again if YOU don't lead YOU WILL BOTH GET LOST!

Libras are what they are, attractive and confused!

Girls and boys just be yourself and enjoy their company. HOWEVER, DON"T!! ADAPT TO their BEHAVIOR!! Then things will go bad quickly.

Good luck and have fun.

Aries Man out.

TAKE THE LEAD!!!

I completely disagree. Not at this stage.

He is processing. It takes a Libra a hell of a lot longer to figure out how they feel. He is "thinking it through". Come on tooo strong, he will bolt. We don't like being pushed. Libra's choose you, you don't choose a Libra. We just do it so gently, you never see it happen.

If you don't hear back from him this week, he has rethought the whole thing and isn't interested. I would assume it is because of the distance.

Sparrow, that's Gallagher's advice for almost all the Libra posts. And he's an Aries man (straight he says) 😛

Oneluv77.... Call him... Libras are interested in all things involved in a person they find interesting. It doesn't mean he isn't into you and just your work, but he is a generally peoples person. Get to his mind, then you will have his heart. Be his friend first. If he wants to talk about the music, talk about it and I guarantee you if he is as interested as he sounds the conversation will definitely turned. Was married to a Libra for 6 years, situations ended that, not so much our involvement.. I have dated several more than other signs and I am an emotional Scorp...

If u care to dig for a reason for his behaviour, it will trace its way back to some of your expressions or gestures which came during the second phonecall I feel. He found something in there which made him think over and over again. It would have been perfectly normal in your virgo ways of communication but not a positive one for a libran. Try to find that out or better ask him straight. He wont tell you straight... but you will get hints. 😉

Take the lead, but do it gently. Listen: GENTLY.