When a Libran really likes you...

This topic was created in the Libra forum by browneyedgirl on Tuesday, October 10, 2006 and has 8 replies.

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@little_sparrow
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Subtle? No.

I am affectionate. It is written all over my face and body. There is no way you don't know. I am all over you like a dirty shirt, I do nice things for you, yadda, yadda, even when I think I am being subtle ... I'm not. BUT just because I do those things DOESN'T mean you are the one for me. I might still be on the fence.

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@little_sparrow
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*** so...you are saying that a Libra...male or female...can be charming and polite and still keep their emotions at bay?

Yes. Of course. This is what we do.

Libras will stay on the fence forever. I think the only time I wasn't on the fence was when I agreed to marry my ex. And No. I never share all facets of myself. I think it is impossible for anyone to do so, but it is more than that. Somethings are private and sharing those things offsets me. I cannot deal with a lot of emotional intimacy. If I try, I get very off-balance and needy. It is best for me to hold back.

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@little_sparrow
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BTW a Libra can live with you and share your home and STILL be on the fence as to whether you are the one for them. I am not saying it is right ... just that seems to be the way it is.

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Im with little-sparrow completely here!

My ex and i were together for years, and lived together for the last of those years. A lot of times I would look at him, and know that i loved him, but i wondered if he ever really knew me. He was never the one..more of a best friend with benefits. Turned out to be a total knob, but hey, we had some some good times too!!

I make it obvious when i like someone, but in a cute way, so that you wont get scared. Ive said before. i'll get close to you..but not vice-versa.

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@little_sparrow
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know that i loved him, but i wondered if he ever really knew me.

I hear you sola. This is the cross of the Libra. It is very hard to be known. I think because our very nature changes and becomes a reflection of those around us.

browneyed - because love is serious business.