my libra friend

i have a libra friend.bow. 😉 we used to always talk oh ever so politely. bow. hahahah joke. then suddenly we started teasing each other and telling things I know sounds childish like "i bet you like me blah blah blah...and he started that..I told him i never said i liked him and he said i thought u liked me, and pretended to cry..and we started teasing each other but sometimes i go too far and tease him so and he gets a little annoyed?? , he's on a serious type...so im not sure he's used to being teased, then he'll get all defensive. Ok imconfusing, I dont get libra men too well, I've been with leos long enough to know any other sign, what could this possibly mean, does he like me? and trying to know if i like him back? we'll its kind of impossible for usbec we live far from each other. and we know that..and he said so...but what do i do? how do i know how he feels? is this just a game? to him too? I wanna keep him interested in the meantime? how do i do that—

some advice sil vous plait. thanks!

sounds similar. even me too hv done same same games. I do it normally when I like someone and too proud/shy/anxious to talk it out formally. So i turn a bit playful just to ease up tension. Its never a game and i can bet on it. But the moment you say u do like him, he might possibly tell you he was just kidding with you. Dont get upset. You can play this game till both of u get tired over games.

Well if you have any tips for dealing with Leos let me know.

It sounds like he likes you and is trying to find out if you like him. He means it at the time. If you say you like him, he might pull back and re-think everything.

OH! And if he does pull away, let him. He will be back. We just need to rebalance ourselves and the only way to do that is to pull back. When we are okay, we will find you again.

Thanks u guys...yeah that's prolly the case. I'll play this game with him for a while, coz i don't want him to pull back just yet hahaha, but i am not sure i wanna be with him though...I don't know, I like him and i want him to like me too but don't want to go to far you know........

Ls, as always with leos. Attention, attention, attention, love him with all your heart, treat him like a king, stroke his back and ego (moan when u kiss) hahaha, with my leo, honesty is very important and be real, i guess its true to just anyone. Show him love in just whatever little thing you do, u know those little romantic things--little poems, i miss u already upon saying goodbye thing, and little puzzle thing that when he solves tells him how much u love him..

i guess that's the opposite with librans? the less attention you give the more they love you...it makes me go nuts, coz i find it hard to hide when i like someone hahhha..

oh by the way...do they tend to make you jealous too— with their girlfriends? sometimes? using some girls to see how you feel about it?

I think the Leo I lust for would freak if I showered him with emotion. He is a bit dettached. I do know he likes it when I offer to get him a drink or do something for him. He is always kind of shocked by that which I don't get because it is natural for me.

But as I said in the other thread, he does not like direct. It freaks him out. We can only talk about feelings in subtext. He has a lot of air in his chart. I assume this is why. Not that I mind. I don't like emotions either.

Sweetest,

That is a tough, tough question. To be honest, I am not sure.

For myself, I tend to have a lot of men around me. It isn't as if I go looking for attention. It just kind of happens.

I don't like talking about my admires to men I like because I want them to feel special. It sometimes comes up and I feel uncomfortable.

That being said, when I left the Leo's place last time I saw him, his neighbour was outside raking leaves. There was a VERY definite moment of sexual tension between me and his neighbour. His neighbour gave me a who are you look? And I was equally shocked and gave a who are you look back. There is no way the leo I lust for missed it as he was standing right behind me. I know the moment I left, he went over to the neighbour and marked his territory.

I am actually really happy it happened as I think the Leo needs a bit of a kick in the rear. But was it purposeful? No. It just happened. AND I think it is kind of funny.

*** I don't like talking about my admires to men I like because I want them to feel special. It sometimes comes up and I feel uncomfortable.

I am rethinking this ... if it is a man who is a friend who I am interested in ... I might.

I think it depends.

sorry a misunderstanding...about the jealousy im refering to libra...😉 —

My Libra boy has a bit of a jealous side. I remember when we first knew each other and were seeing other people, this really drunk guy came up and hit on me at a concert. I'm a nice person, so I talked to the guy and humored him a little bit. I definately wasn't interested - he was cute but soooooo drunk. Anyways, my Libra pulled me aside and said "You shouldn't talk to that guy - I don't like it." Then the guy came back, pointed at my Libra and asked, "is that your boyfriend?" I answered honestly, "no", and my Libra got wayyyy pissed. We had a three hour conversation resulting from that little incident which was when we began to talk about being exclusive. (Sometimes I wonder if he wanted to have his cake and eat it too, that he could see others - or sleep with others - but he didn't want me too...)

Anyways, once he found out that I was not interested in drunk guy and was only trying to be honest/polite, he was ok.

Hmmmm....

*** Sometimes I wonder if he wanted to have his cake and eat it too, that he could see others - or sleep with others - but he didn't want me too...)

I think many men want this.

yeah..thanks that's something, but i'm thinking about this pulling for a while attitude is not cool for a gemini, coz when libra comes back and is ready, the gemini will be gone...gemini's just don't linger too long to wait, we'll be gone in a blink.. i'm just thinking...gem and libra— no no, I'll just go back to my leo, i guess we both want to jump at the boat right away. So much for thinking, im not staying. 😉

Hmmmm....

My libra is doing the same lately. He keeps randomly saying "I thought you liked me..." I usually just ignore him, but when I actually said "what makes you say that" trying to act a little flirty and confused...he promptly says "just kidding" and moves on to another random subject. So I left it at that, but im starting to believe he's having some real feelings.

He too needed a little kick in the ass...
It had been a month since we talked and I finally got him to talk to me...so I decided to ask him for some male perspective about a situation I was having with a platonic friend who wanted more, but I just didnt like him like that. Mr. Libra kindly obliged to the question and answered it, but I let it be known that I wanted to see another one of my guy friends who now has a thing for me too...he lindly responded to that. BUT since then he's been very available to me and more flirtatious. We both know were interested in each other, but there are distance issues and age etc...so now we just keep it "airy" and friendly as always but he seems to be getting more attached eac time we speak.

I definitely wouldn't mind that though...we shall see...

how funny lady-m, reading your sory I felt like I was reading mine, we have some distance and age issues too...and really I started noticing him and I think the feeling was mutual sort of, when i asked for some male perspective about some guy too, hahaha

yes, we'll see...

***i'm just thinking...gem and libra— no no, I'll just go back to my leo, i guess we both want to jump at the boat right away. So much for thinking, im not staying.***

I think the "courting" process for Libs and Gems can be difficult for this reason. Lib pulls away and needs space, and Gem finds something else to fill space with. What worked out w/ my Lib and I is that we were seeing other people intially, so when he pulled away, I had another interest to pursue. Now that we're exclusive, the relationship works very well - he needs his space at times, and I need my social life separate from him.

***We both know were interested in each other, but there are distance issues and age etc...so now we just keep it "airy" and friendly as always but he seems to be getting more attached eac time we speak.***

Definately keep it fun. Put him in your pocket so to speak - you never know...

He also said he's glad we have the distance because he would try and meet me and have a "casual encounter" (referring to craiglist)..and he then said "how distateful I can be sometimes"...I just laughed at him...but I know he was serious...

DO libras enjoy baby oil sex...?

baby oil sex— as long its sex, we are in. doesnt matter if its baby oil or petroleum oil. 😉

my libra guy always talks about sex with baby oil and sensual sex and sentual punishment/teasing...

So im just asking.

DO libras enjoy baby oil sex...?

yep. I actually would prefer a warm oil but this works too.

Yes, he likes to warm it. He said preferable on a blow up bed as to not mess up the sheets.

Libras can be the most creative of lovers. We generally need a lot of variety and like to mix it up. We tend to add a bit of flare and drama if we can. I always think of us as little geishas. lol!

Its more about the sensual than just sex...nothing dirty though...a little prudish and fantasy like.

I like all of the above. My favorite is sensual with a flare for the dramatic.

i'll use burning cooking oil on my libra hahaha...i don't like him anymore..I realized we have nothing in common, he's oct. 10 too. But I understand libras more now. I prefer an honest, straghtforward partners..I'll find someone I can understand, I'm not a psychic...lol. It's sad though, because he kind of liked me ( I dont know if he still like me) and I kind of liked him too, we messed our good friedship, now i'm wishing to have it back but its kind of impossible. I tried to be like before, friendly to him, just plain friends. But I think his mind had been oiled...

Im afraid the same might happen to me sweetest_gemini. They say aquas and libras are good together, but what do they know. 😛

oh! I hope not Lady_M. It's my bad too, I lost interest, now I just wana be friends, (but d idea of us liking each other is not mine) he started it, i just played his game, now i don't wanna play anymore and just wanna be friends, its totally cool with me but not with him. Had I really liked him, I would have pursued him. Well we're still friends but not like before. Somethings changed. Just keep him there...lol..Good Luck on your man!

thanx

I agree. Libras generally have a hardtime keeping sex out of things once sex has been introduced, unless we don't find the other person physically attractive anymore.

my friends, I HAVE ANOTHER QUESTION. its about another Libra, or LIbras. It's weird cause when this season entered, a lot of libras entered my life, the guys i met that I kind of took interest (no sexual relationships or anything) are all libras and all my libra friends seem to start noticing me and vice versa. Like that one libra friend which I told you about. There's another libra guy, who's been courting me for years now, (i'm not into him) but lately I kind of took notice, and he's been calling a lot more than before. He just bought a house and said he's ready to get married ( but I think he is more physically attracted to me, I'm not sure if he knows the meaning of love) I have never allowed him to touch me all those years. He's always just a friend to me, he's always around coz he's a family friend. Another libra I like a lot, this one is not a friend, more an aquantance, I don't know him much and don't know how to approach or what to do so we can start talking, tell u about it later. Anyway, I dont understand..is it like a libra season for me or is it just a coincidence.

I hope I dont confuse you. Here's another Libra. I met once, we were introduced but didn't really get a chance to talk but I know the basic things about him. We have online group community, kinda like myspace and friendster. I see him there a lot, as he is in my friends list. He msg me once and it was a short question and I gave him a short answer too. He lives like 4 hours away, actually a town away from where my ex lives. I know he kind of like me too. We share the same everything, beliefs and stuff and he knows that, he even said that before too in his short letter. Its been like a month after that. He's kinda shy too and you know the distance and we don't really know each other. But I wanna talk to him again, and get to know him more. As much as possible I dont wanna msg him, but is that the only way. What do I do with this conservative libran. He's in the navy. How do I get his interest—??

by the way, I like the idea of a long distance relationship bec, I don't like someone to be always around 😉

I don't know...maybe I should stop. I have a lot of options...but I picked him 😉. As I said we seem to have a lot of things in common. But I get bored with a guy if he's always around, so its better if he's far....

btw, why are u depressed? 😉

DepressedAngel, I was wondering why u were depressed also. Good question sweetest_gemini. I think a lot of guys get to this point, but by that time it is hard to find someone who will take u seriously. U will find someone. U seem to have your heart in the right place, it just takes time. Dating today is so hard, my Libra friend says you meet the persons "representative" at first, or who that person wishes they were and then u get to know the real person after about 6 months and often it's too late. You've been bamboozled. Take risks, keep dating and be patient. The right person will come along.