Male Libra friend..is he a true Libra or not?

I reconnected with my Libra male friend after years of no contact. Found out we have the same interests and most of our get 2 gethers have been split between very social to almost silence. I am a virgo (obvious by my screen name) and very outgoing and can talk about anything with somewhat decent intellect. I have found myself starting most of the conversations and it is split between him giving me a one word answer to maybe sometimes he can talk in a couple sentences before another topic has to be brought up. He is single after being in a 6 yr relationship that ended a little over a year ago. I, on the other hand, am in the middle of a separation. If this offended him or he wanted no part of me it would have happened by now (we reconnected 4 months ago). We both like motorcycles and have ridden together on multiple occasions, just got back from a day trip to a Wolf Sanctuary and also a trip to NYC. We enjoy each others company (I am hoping unless he is doing all of this just to be nice) and just for the record, these are NOT DATES!

Here is the confusion: Libra males are known to be social and also enjoy being impartial and hate conflict. As far as a friend, a libra male will go out of his way to make his friends feel important. It is also hard for them to make a decision or it will take them a while and patience is needed. They are also well-mannered and energetic and known to lend a helping hand to people around them.

#1 My libra male friend is an introvert.

#2 He has not gone out of his way to do anything (well not yet anyways)

#3 If he has good manners I have yet to see them

#4 Lending a helping hand, while in my presence, has never taken place nor have I seen it

In the 4 months I have known him he has only called me once (and thats when I asked him to) and texted me first ONLY when he needed confirmation of a meet-up time for one of the trips we went on. On social media he will sometimes give me hints of an event he is interested in by posting it and then, of course, I contact him and we go from there (I truly believe this is due to his decision making issues which is a libra trait). Most, if not ALL of our conversations are about our similar interests or something in the news. I have also noticed that it seems that the words "Thank you" are not part of this particular libra's vocabulary (especially in person but he has no problem saying "thanks" in a text).

I personally believe that libra is one of the more confusing signs of the zodiac. The other day on our way home from NY he actually confided in me telling me his future plans with a new home, making a decision and what it entails, how his sister is now moving and his mom and step-dad want to downsize..he has NEVER mentioned anything personal like that about himself (let alone his family) to me.

So, true libra or not?

Your story sounded familiar so for the benefits of the others, here is your thread about (I'm assuming) the same libra 2 mounth ago.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/libra/confused-about-libra-male-friend-need-advice-9266173/

Posted by jeane
Your story sounded familiar so for the benefits of the others, here is your thread about (I'm assuming) the same libra 2 mounth ago.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/libra/confused-about-libra-male-friend-need-advice-9266173/

Yes but I am asking in this thread, not a past one, if a true libra or not?

Posted by VirgoRising1

Posted by jeane
Your story sounded familiar so for the benefits of the others, here is your thread about (I'm assuming) the same libra 2 mounth ago.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/libra/confused-about-libra-male-friend-need-advice-9266173/

Yes but I am asking in this thread, not a past one, if a true libra or not?

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I added some background so people could provide a more accurate answer.

Anyway, sounds like a libra to me.

Posted by topes
What does it mean to you whether he is or not? What is it you want from him?

Would like more understanding. I could understand if he was born on a cusp but he was not. The traits I mentioned in the original post he is total opposite. (they enjoy social settings but yet he is an introvert, willing to help out but I have yet to see this, good manners but yet he seems to hate the word "Thank You" (at least in person).

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I read ''Male Libra friend..is he a true man or not''

I lol’ed!

Me too. Libra always cracks me up.

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With you guys having more experience (I am taking a wild guess) with libra men, I am sure your joking around has some merit but it does not help me with my question.

Without any answers, I am guessing no one here knows libra either? Are they that fickle? Do they make other people's lives that much difficult? Are they game players? Selfish? How can there even be a standard explanation of a libra when most do not fit the bill?

I guess I will go elsewhere to find answers..thank you!

Posted by aquarius_man
I read ''Male Libra friend..is he a true man or not''

Hah. 😆

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Posted by VirgoRising1

Posted by aquarius_man

Posted by ariesno

Posted by aquarius_man
I read ''Male Libra friend..is he a true man or not''

I lol’ed!

Me too. Libra always cracks me up.

With you guys having more experience (I am taking a wild guess) with libra men, I am sure your joking around has some merit but it does not help me with my question.

Without any answers, I am guessing no one here knows libra either? Are they that fickle? Do they make other people's lives that much difficult? Are they game players? Selfish? How can there even be a standard explanation of a libra when most do not fit the bill?

I guess I will go elsewhere to find answers..thank you!

The sad part about it is that I will sit here and tell you Yes to all of your questions and you're still gonna chase that dick anyways, so what's the point? Your gut feeling isn't enough? I am very familiar with this sort of Libra behaviour.. Yes they can be very fickle, Yes they can make your life a living hell (I experienced it first hand), Yes they love to play games and Yes they can be extremely selfish.. But so can anyone.. Not all Libras will be like this, but some are.. looks like you found one of them. So now that I have confirmed this are you gonna stop chasing him? If you are experiencing that behaviour from any man you should know when it's time to put your foot down and walk away, not ask the same questions here a thousand times until you get the answer that you want.. That's how I know you are not going to stop chasing him anyways, so no idea why you are getting bent out of shape at the lack of response..

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I answered her. Several days ago actually.

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Posted by aquarius_man

Posted by ariesno

Posted by aquarius_man
I read ''Male Libra friend..is he a true man or not''

I lol’ed!

Me too. Libra always cracks me up.

With you guys having more experience (I am taking a wild guess) with libra men, I am sure your joking around has some merit but it does not help me with my question.

Without any answers, I am guessing no one here knows libra either? Are they that fickle? Do they make other people's lives that much difficult? Are they game players? Selfish? How can there even be a standard explanation of a libra when most do not fit the bill?

I guess I will go elsewhere to find answers..thank you!

The sad part about it is that I will sit here and tell you Yes to all of your questions and you're still gonna chase that dick anyways, so what's the point? Your gut feeling isn't enough? I am very familiar with this sort of Libra behaviour.. Yes they can be very fickle, Yes they can make your life a living hell (I experienced it first hand), Yes they love to play games and Yes they can be extremely selfish.. But so can anyone.. Not all Libras will be like this, but some are.. looks like you found one of them. So now that I have confirmed this are you gonna stop chasing him? If you are experiencing that behaviour from any man you should know when it's time to put your foot down and walk away, not ask the same questions here a thousand times until you get the answer that you want.. That's how I know you are not going to stop chasing him anyways, so no idea why you are getting bent out of shape at the lack of response..

I answered her. Several days ago actually.

I know.. so did others. Just wasn't the answer she wanted. We know how it goes.. LOL

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No, I do get it this time. I guess I had to hear it more than once. I will not text or be the first to make contact anymore. I am friends with him on fb so other than him liking or commenting on anything that I post, that will be it. I will be patient and see what happens. If nothing at all, his loss!

We are a part of the American Legion together and we will see each other at least once a month for the meetings. This is something that cannot be ignored so I am intrigued to see what happens.

Posted by 2Moon
NOT ALL LIBRAS ARE LIKE THIS.

YOU SAID IT THAT HE WAS AN INTROVERT.

He seems like a very shy guy and quiet type.

It must be hard for him to communicate with people.

He only called you once....

Can't talk for 2 words.....

He seems to be awkward / retarded socially.



Libra and Virgo is a good pairing.

Try an outgoing Libra. lol

Thank you for your input and putting it simply.

It just baffles me as to how he kept a 5 yr relationship going up until last October..or how it even started if he is like this.

It also baffles me how his posts on fb to other male/female friends are so intricate and informative but with me they are short and to the point. Maybe he is nervous around me for some reason (who knows).

As a virgo, analyzing things till Im blue in the face is a trait I am truly not happy with. I am trying the "sit back and see" approach and what will be, will be.