my decision

Libra man and I had great sex, we both agreed it was the best we ever had, ... I have decided that when I want sex, I'll call him, but I won't expect anything else.... if I need someone to hold me when I cry, I'll get another man.... or go to my women friends... or suffer in silence, I will never again hope that my libra man will be there for me emotionally. He let me down, he disappeared into his need for balance, well, just as long as he can accept that another man will be there for me when he Libra goes off to get his harmonic balance.

You let each other down. Neither of you stuck to the origninal agreement and got emotionally involved. If this gets bad for either of you in the end you both chose this situation. You can't blame it on each other.

"you should have one man playing the role for you not several.'

AMEN!

* Maybe you should just let it go completely cause sex would contiue to make you more weak to him and you should have one man playing the role for you not several.

Says who? Monogamy isn't for everyone. One shoe doesn't always fit.