need advice about a Libra woman (Page 7)

I swear if It happened...i would throw a DXPNET party...and invite everybody who ever posted on here

yea i am going to call tommorrow...THATS IT! no waht ifs...im calling her tommorrow afternoon

but I love you for listening to me trust me

Me loves you too Denny ^_^. lol, you are adorable -- the good kind of adorble, I could I not keep coming back to check on you 🙂

so we shouldn't bother checking in tomorrow afternoon Denny?

Cappy dizzymuch? 😛

Cappy dizzymuch?

LOL!!!

ZeNa!!! *points finger*

OMG...

Cappy and Denny sitting on a tree, K I S S I N G .........

absolutely...and i appreciate it...wouldnt it be crazy if after all this OCD and indecisevness, and after 700+ posts....i get her in the end?

Actually Denny ... you can post up to like 1000 but .... after post 450, you can't see the posts anymore so its best to make another thread once you reach 450 posts

OMG...

Cappy and Denny sitting on a tree, K I S S I N G .........

Evil woman 😛!!! lol

Denny, Zena's just playing, don't mind her.

I mean, yes pay attention to her because she is awesome but don't mind her lol

I swear if It happened...i would throw a DXPNET party...and invite everybody who ever posted on here

OH yeaaaahhhh! 😄

yippeee always ready to

It's not evil, it's insurance - phsss... and get in line --- there's a queue for denny - sneaky little woman cutting in line

HAHAHAHAHA!!!!! Zena you are crazy 😄

You are the Yest to my Yin LOL 😉

lol ! now who's the crazy one

no defenetly check in tommorrow...tahts when im going to call her...il let you guys know if she answered, exactly what was said..etc.

after 450 I will start a new thread...i hope you all follow me

me and Cappy were in a tree kissing— Well, thats because she comes in to check up on me... 🙂

well people, I called her....left her a VM

just asking her if she would like to get lunch before she goes to work 1 day next week.

Now I wait....again

check in time

Acutally at this point I think Denny is doing it correctly. He call's and waits!!!

She probably checks the vm more than the e-mail.

He has her schedule figured out now... Family on weekends..... late shift for work. It is only time before he has sewn up all her exits...

You sure you don't have any Scorpio in your Chart Denny!!!!

The Leebra

no i dotn think I have any scorpio...haha

ok...its 6:35pm and still nothing....not freaking out...but idk

if we dont get lunch next week...then that pretty much tells me all i need to know

she has 3 days...Mon, Tues, or Wed...she cant have something to do before she goes to work every one of those days....

im trying to make it as conveninent as possible for her...seriously, what else can I do...nothing...

these next few days will basically tell me all I need to know...

isn't that too decisive?

Denny Trust me on this one....

Now you have her days off. You do the math... You have it...

Invite her to lunch.... Monday at 1:23 at a spot you both drive to.

Or somewhere in between the days off.... DO IT DENNY...

If you really need a push at this point>>>>>>>>> over the cliff and into the Bay with you...

thairis..

I did just that....i left her a vm asking her if she would like to get lunch next week before she goes to work...she knows I start school on thursday so that leaves M, T, or W.

I already did it...just waiting to hear back from her

I did just that....i left her a vm asking her if she would like to get lunch next week before she goes to work...she knows I start school on thursday so that leaves M, T, or W.

I already did it...just waiting to hear back from her

Okay, so have you heard anything yet—?? Has she called back?

If you really need a push at this point>>>>>>>>> over the cliff and into the Bay with you...

We must cuddle him more first, more cuddling so he'll be prepared to do what he needs to do 😄 No push off cliff yet 😉

isn't that too decisive?

LOL @ Zena 😄

hey we gettin this down to the wire here LOL

His bedroom has no cuddle in it Raider stufff every where... Nice...

He needs a whole space... What does she collect.... — hum hummm prob not raider stuff..

Just let them get a lunch under their belt...

Then we can re arrange them .....

And Denny I really should think you should let her know you lite a candle a Christmas Mass 4 her...

Don't back down....

lol, I got ya Thairis 😉

idk people...i think i got my answer tonight....she never called back...waht coudl this girl possibly be doing on a sunday? thats waht im saying

I want to tell her i lit a candle for her...but i dont want it to seem like i did it just so i can tell her about it...cause i didnt. so idk how to work that in

but i dont think any of it matters anymore...i think its pretty obvious at this point...no call back on a sunday? come on

Now....

Maybe she lite a candle as well.

Pick up the freakin phone right now and call her.... Then you have an answer

come on...how many times am I gonna call this girl before she calls me...i called her in the afternoon...gave her all day and night to get back to me...and NOTHING.

How many Raiders momento's do u have—

What do you want Denny— Call her...

I meant to say how many Raider's momento do you have/// Call her that many times...

idk people...i think i got my answer tonight....she never called back...waht coudl this girl possibly be doing on a sunday? thats waht im saying

Calm down Denny -- just because she didn't call you back tonight doesn't give you any answers.

come on...how many times am I gonna call this girl before she calls me...i called her in the afternoon...gave her all day and night to get back to me...and NOTHING.

You called her once today that is fine 🙂 She is probably busy, just wait until she contacts you.

I am always busy on Sundays unlike others I know -- I do so much during the week and the weekend I have my own personal stuff to do.

Denny,

Don't call her again tonight, you have called and left a voicemail, thats enough. You want to seem cool to her, you don't want to seem to eager. So just take it easy.

She may call you Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, or any other time, during the week. The door is open for her to do that.

If you want, you can call her again Monday evening but after that, do not call her. You just wait for her to contact you. Its not a good idea to call her anyone BUT one more time.

Gave her a chance to call you

I am NOT calling her again...

Its up to her to call me....if i call again, that just looks really bad and i dotn feel comfortable doing that

Im just waiting for her to call me back and thats all I can do

I just think that she would have called me back tonight thats all...BUT...it is what it is

Yes 🙂

I agree 🙂 Don't be discouraged, give her time to call you back. You just called on this Sunday, theres a whole week left.

I just think that she would have called me back tonight thats all...BUT...it is what it is

hmmmm, why?

i dont know...its a sunday...i called her at 3pm...i always put myself in the opposite position...if i got a phone call form a girl that I was intersted in, and she left me a vm & invited me to lunch next week....I would call her back that night, but thats if i was interested..

im not really jumping to conclusions...its just been a 5 month rollercoaster...

i guess its just taking its toll....when does it end you know?

dont know...its a sunday...i called her at 3pm...i always put myself in the opposite position...if i got a phone call form a girl that I was intersted in, and she left me a vm & invited me to lunch next week....I would call her back that night, but thats if i was interested..

im not really jumping to conclusions...its just been a 5 month rollercoaster...

Oh no, I use to do the same thing -- you know, put myself in the person I wanted shoes and say what I would do if I were them. Thats not a good thing dude, because no matter how many things go through you head, you must understand that they are not you. No matter how interested someone is, they will call you were they can.

i guess its just taking its toll....when does it end you know?

No freaking out Denny 🙂 Patience is a virtue, she will call when she can. I've never called a guy right away. I'm not sure why, but I never have lol

yea your right

just understand it from my point of view...ive been up and down with her since august...

you guys know the main story but not every detail you know...its just been a rollercoaster

I dont want to trick her into going out with me either...i just hope she WANTS to go out with me, not that shes going out with me cause she feels bad or she cant think of another excuse...cause id rather eat lunch alone than with somebody like that you know

i understand cappy but this has been going on for 5 months...i think ive showed a lot of patience...i never gave her ultimatums...i never pressured her...i always gave her the benefit of the doubt

I dont want to trick her into going out with me either...i just hope she WANTS to go out with me, not that shes going out with me cause she feels bad or she cant think of another excuse...cause id rather eat lunch alone than with somebody like that you know

Well, you given surface information since the beginning -- I think it will just cause alot of confusion if you give all the details right now. I will save that for another thread 🙂 Keep this general right now or else you may confuse many who have been following you, you know what I mean?

oh of course...im not going back into it...i wasnt hinting that i was going to give every detail...lolol...Basically if you read this thread, you know whats going on...i went into a lot of detail with in the past few weeks, but if you read the thread, you konw whats going on...

the point i was trying to make was that its been 5 months you know? how much more patients do i have to show...i mean, i will be patient of course, im not going to pressure her, and im NOT calling her again until she calls me....but im just saying, when i sit and think about it, its been a long 5 months...i hope its worth it in the end, but I honestly dont know

i understand cappy but this has been going on for 5 months...i think ive showed a lot of patience...i never gave her ultimatums...i never pressured her...i always gave her the benefit of the doubt

I think you need sleep, thats it, you are jumping to conclusions -- I understand the rollaecoaster ride, I've been through one myself with a virgo guy so I got it. But, my situation was different, he was scared of deep committment and ran off lol!!!

Anyway, you shouldn't focus on the past dude, it can destroy you. Focus on the present. Go on with your life until she calls you. Thats all you can do, if she doesn't then you know things weren't real from the start.

BUT, don't jump to conclusions 🙂 Its only been a day so don't feel like things are over, it hasn't been 72 hours yet lol

the point i was trying to make was that its been 5 months you know? how much more patients do i have to show...i mean, i will be patient of course, im not going to pressure her, and im NOT calling her again until she calls me....but im just saying, when i sit and think about it, its been a long 5 months...i hope its worth it in the end, but I honestly dont know

Yes, but you just started really doing something about your feelings for her now, you see 🙂 Yeah, you've felt this way for 5 monthes but you haven't been this forward with her until recently, right?

true...you are right....

like i said, i just put myself in her shoes and i would have called back if i was interested....actually, if i were interested, I would have met up the first few times i was asked....but your right, i shouldnt put myself in her shoes cause im not her and shes not me....

and i do go about my life, i dont sit home and wait for her to call...no way...BUT, I do think about it and her