New to forum - Question on a libra male

A libra man I've known for the past 6 months (10/18) has been continually flirting with me (touching me in some way, saying he misses me, etc.) since we met and has in the past month stepped it up with suggestive text messaging, and kissing me when he sees me. I need to add that he just told me he has a girlfriend. He tells me how sexy and beautiful I am and that he thinks about me... What the heck is he doing and could he mean what he says??

Any insight on the libra male mind would be extremely welcome. Thank you! By the way, I am a taurus female.

"I need to add that he just told me he has a girlfriend."

Personally, uf he has a girlfriend, I wouldn't really care if he means what he says. I would just run in whatever direction is opposite of his. He may have said he has intentions of leaving her (or not), and who knows, if he means it, he might. But, the fact that he has continued a relationship while persuing another person indicates to me that there is a distinct probability he will do it again (and next time it may be you that is "the girlfriend").

Beachbaby, he has a girlfriend...don't get involved with that mess. What kind of character does that show you that he has? Not a very good one.

I'm a Taurus female dating a Libra male, so if you take anyone's advice, let it be mine! 🙂

He isn't looking for anything serious with you that is for sure... I know, I had a FWB who was back and forth with his gf. Until he is completely over her (If he ever decides to be) he is unavailable emotionally, don't waste your time.

Same as above....if he's doing this to his girlfriend now, what does this say for you if/when you become the girlfriend?? If he can do it now, he'll do it again and again. To continue such a relationship only encourages him to cheat. If he breaks things off with the girlfriend prior to you and him hooking up? that's different but to pursue a relationship whilst already in one— I think all the others on this board know how I feel about that.

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Run away and find a real man who wants YOU only!!!!!

The Libra male and those who fall in love with him will all have to live with the Libra curse of being the philanderer of the zodiac.

With that said, there are those who have the integrity and character to not act on that predisposition. He is not one of them.

Its true of both sexes of Libra 😢

Thank you all - I know I should run away quickly but I feel like I got sucked in and then "sucker punched"! I'm not certain of the girlfriend status - he just mentioned her casually the other day and I haven't really asked as yet. Any ideas on how to bring this up without sounding like a xxIIx??

Libra men can be a bit off... I know this one who thought it was perfectly fine to go to rooms with other females to "chill" and lay around together... sometimes she'd benaked or have on just underwear, but he figured it was ok since he'd be dressed and had no intentions of sleeping with her just wanted some company... and he could never let go of his ex's he always had to make sure they were still ok... he was still in love with an ex who dumped him and would approach other women in ways that would make them believe he wanted them and then when he sensed they were catching fellings he ask if he came across as being flirty b/c women think he's trying to get involved with them... weird just weird...and if you let them they'll toss you around in the most charming way... Really I say don't waste your breath... you can sucker punch him by just walking away without a word.... "closure" is overrated.

We are a bit flirty..

"We are a bit flirty" - ok, some am I but there's flirty and then there's plain old hitting on which is what he's been doing for months and (unfortunately for me I guess), he is making me believe that he has some sort of feelings for me. How do Libra males react when confronted and what would be the best way to do this?

Dear beachbaby,
Let's just forget his sun sign and see his intentions and characters . Can you put your trust and your heart for a man who is having a girlfriend but is willing to cheat on her for you? Are you sure once he has you , he wont repeat it? All those flirting , physical contacts I can see is just a demeaning way that a player used to get you or just to practise his charm!! My advice is that asking him directly whether he has a serious attitude towards you and want a relationship .Otherwise, please walk away before your heart get broken and you have guilts of destroying another girl's heart! Just my opinion, forgive me if I say anything inapproriate🙂

OKAY!... so we all agree... Lose him 🙂

It's okay hes a dog anyway... we'll make it a girls nite!

Thanks for the support everyone - you're completely correct. It just stinks because I did start to have strong feelings towards him.

Well you can play the game right back if you are a little interested. Because at this stage he is clearly playing. If you can handle it say something really blunt. But do note that you will start a game.

***Thank you all - I know I should run away quickly but I feel like I got sucked in and then "sucker punched"! I'm not certain of the girlfriend status - he just mentioned her casually the other day and I haven't really asked as yet. Any ideas on how to bring this up without sounding like a xxIIx??***


He just mentioned he had a girlfriend the other day right? I doubt that he ended the relationship since then. Simply tell him, you are worth much more than being "the other girl" and your integrity won't allow you to disrespect another woman, because you know what goes around comes around. He will get the point...

I will be having a conversation with him at some point this week and intend to find out the status of this girlfriend because I do not want to be the "other woman". Libra - what kind of blunt statment were you thinking? I hate playing games and normally am very upfront but this man throws me off balance by just looking into my eyes. I've never had this type of reaction before and it's very disconcerting.

ahhh yes the looking into your eyes thing they do!!! putty in their hands LOL

What IS that eye thing— He's got gorgeous green eyes and when he looks into mine I melt. Like I said, I've never had this reaction before.

Its magical, sometimes good, sometimes bad - usually works in their favour though LOL

Try not looking directly into his eyes (for too long anyway) when you have "that talk"....or you may end up losing your train of thought....and you do want some sort of answers right?

I do want some answers so you're right, looking into his eyes for any length of time will definitely make me lose my train of thought! 🙂 It works for him alright!

indeed....I still say run away from a guy who already has a g/f but that may be a little hasty....I'd definitely call him out on it....see what he says 🙂 Remember though, there are a lot of sexy guys out there who are SINGLE and whom you don't have to compete for!!! You will hate those seductive eyes if he's indeed a player!!

Don't talk to him about his girlfriend and the status of that relationship. It is not your concern and you can NOT appear to be interested. You have to be above it. He will lose interest if he knows you're interested at that level. Whatever you do, never show you are scared of/confused by the situation.

Talking without saying anything is maybe best at this point. Like, when he says something to you in passing, keep on walking but lift your eyebrows and immediately smile afterwards and keep on walking as if you have an appointment and you're late. All in a second. But it needs to be a confident one. Or say something that is of a higher flirt level than whatever comes out of his mouth.

But if you're a Taurus maybe saying nothing is better. Because you're sincere and low-risk at the core...

I haven't spoken to him since last Thursday (purposely) and am sitting on my hands not to text him. My thought being if he is truly interested he'll find me. Thanks guys! Have a great Memorial Day!

I text Libra man 5 mins ago, and totally wish i hadnt...damned last chances 😢