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You meet a Libra on Monday, and almost instantly it is like you have known each other forever, on both sides. 4 days later, he tells you that he wants to spend as much time as possible with you. And is always so very sweet, complimenting all the time, texts all day and night. Just extrememly connected on both sides. We have talked for umteen hours. I know this is not usual for a Libra though so I am a little confused by it. Kind of one hell of a spark between us on both sides, a spark that could burn.

Because this is not anything I have ever dealt with, with a Libra I am not sure what to think. I know he is very sincere when he says the things he does I can see it in his eyes. He is VERY open with how he feels and what he thinks regarding us. He is not shy with his feelings either....

Maybe I better get him to check his birth certificate, he seems so unlibra like...

What should I be thinking/

Half the threads on the libra board talk about how fast we rush into things... the other half are about how we simply vanish when we have a change of heart.

I have a few questions about him...
How old is he?
Is he fresh out of a long relationship?
Is he a loner? Does he have many real friends?

I'm not sure if you know that stuff only having known him a few days but those are my concerns.


It is also possible it is just love at first sight (I don't believe in this btw) and you all found your happily ever after... but Rome wasn't built in a day... or four.

He is 43, not recently out of a relationship, been about a year since he was in one. He has a ton of friends....I have already met a few of them

Good advice....been in a relationship with a Libra myself and right now in the honeymoon phase. IT IS WONDERFUL but I also know I need to keep my head out of the clouds because it won't always be like this. Enjoying it while it is here though :-)

This has been my experience with Libras most of the time.

I got back in touch with someone I'd had clinicals with and we ended up texting off and on over a 24 hour period. Convo/friendliness just comes easy to them.

I understand what everyone is saying about a slow build up being longer lasting and agree. I do think it is important not to make sudden drastic changes though. Slow down if you feel the need but not overnight. I don't really see anything bad in what was in the OP. I wouldn't tell someone that in four days but that's only cause I am a chicken with women, I very well could think it. He isn't saying marry me or anything, just being open about how he feels, "Hey, I really like you and want to spend as much time as we can together". Isn't that want women are always asking for, not to have to guess what we are thinking?

Don't go any faster than you are comfortable with but don't overthink it either (easier said than done I know).

Yes, sparks can burn out but they are also needed to start a forest fire.