OMG ITS HILARIOUS!!!

Hey guys and gals,

After having been given the "exclusive" talk and being on cloud 9 for some time now, and yes, things have been ok but still not getting any more than I was prior to the "agreement of exclusivity" he still kept on his singles sites which at the end of the day didnt bother me anymore coz I know he's not doing anything wrong but having chats with people in different countries, and he was home at nights, etc....but I guess its a little strange if you really think about it as now more than ever he should want to hang out *shrugs* Yeah yeah I know about the "they hold you in their minds thing" but come on!!!

Last Saturday I told him that I didnt really like him chatting on there all the time, yada yada (I really felt as if I had some right to say something after all this time). I also told him that I want more than just to be "exclusive", and that I want the full relationship thing and that if I couldn't have that with him that "I hoped he found what/who he was looking for and that she bloody well deserved him, yada yada"...awwwwww LOL. Since that time, he has only very seldomly gone onto the sites and he's been seeing his male friends more (bonding you know??). He didn't give me an answer either way but Im thinking at least its a good thing he's not sitting online every night? My job is done!!!

I don't know what the future holds now (me and my big mouth) but am glad he's no longer chatting to all those women every freaking night. I dunno if what he's now doing is his great thinking thing re: us (I mean how long does it take? sheesh!!!), but one would have assumed by now that I'd know whether we are in a proper relationship or not.....I guess him not really talking to me this week cements the fact he still really doesnt want this. His silence over the past few days has been even more deafening than before...sheesh!!!

Its ok though...just thought I would keep you all posted...its never ending. Sometimes I just wish he would cut me dead but as per usual everytime I get strong enough to walk, here we go again!! Im waiting for the here we go again part this time...its only been a few days. After 7 months though, Im dealing with it better than some time back hehehehe.......I guess he realises though, that its now an ultimatum (no doubt he wouldn't take that too well but I deserve to know where my life is headed)...it can't always just be about him..I've been patient enough 🙂

We will see.

i got your back, chatz!

Hi Chatz , I ve followed your story up till now and honestly , I admire your patience and your devotion for this man! You ve given him so much and still there he is , so indecisive ! However, if you feel he worths it then keep being patient ! Vital quality to survive in relationship with Libras ! 🙂

I'm exhausted. . .

Leebra....yes that is my interpretation too!!

That's why I have had to give the ultimatum...its time

Atom, i am too!!

Love him to bits and yes Exam I think he's worth it but he doesnt seem to think the same about me, either that or he's just so caught up in his own world/depression, that he forgets that others have feelings too.

Its all ok though - Im keeping busy and focussing on other things - he can come to me 🙂

chatz your so dayum cute...jus wanted you to know that.

you have so much hope and patience, I love that about you *grinning*

thank you Tiki.....guess life is too short to be down for too long 🙂

xx

Chatz, you are amazing. You are like the bubbles in champagne.

*hic*

I am so sorry, Chatz! After all of your dedication and patience, you would think that he would have had the time and opportunity to see what an amazing catch he has.

Whether it is with your Libra or someone, I truly hope that you achieve the relationship and the man that you really deserve and, most especially, want.

** hugs **

Thanks Al...its ok...but ok really isn't good enough - I seem to have put in so much and him? he's just taken...time for him to realise this, if in fact he does LOL. I am discreetly going to keep my options open while his Lordship makes up HIS mind. Time is a ticking but life is too short to be bummed out about it 🙂 Who knows? maybe one of the options ends up being even better

Mwah....have a great weekend xx

Yes. Keep your options open. An Aries might just come your way!

😉

indeed he may!!

Chatz, I am proud of you. It is defintely time to take a stand. Damned it has been way too long.

yeah 😢

give him a taste of your claws ! lol! just kidding 🙂

LOL....he rang last night and has been sick!! What is wrong with this guy?? He could have told me he had gastro...then I wouldn't have worried and DEFINITELY have stayed away LMAO.

Strange man!!