I have a long-held theory that you attract what you need. That if there's a lesson to be learned, your teacher will show up. Call it Karma, call it Fate, call it whatever you like. If a certain type keeps showing up, listen for the Message, learn the Lesson. (It might be that you're destined to find love with a Pisces girl.. but you couldn't currently handle her, having so little knowledge and even less comfort around them, so you must learn beforehand! hehe)
In my teens and 20's.. I attracted Libras, but MORE Virgos (like my Mom)... Virgos like there was NO other sign of the Zodiac except a couple Leebs for comedy relief, over and over. I had SO much to learn from them. (Throw in a Cap hubby and then a Cancer one in there... whee!) Mid to late 20's.. it was a couple Leos... even though I thought I knew plenty (a hardcore influx of Leo in my family - a grandpa, 2 sisters and 1 brother, a cousin or two, a nephew and my own son!) I still had MORE to learn about Leos. THAT was a hard lesson, but it certainly prepared me for my Libra's LEO Mom now! haha In my 30's, I found my "Libra magnet" was back.. a few "casually".. and two in a row more seriously... I had much to learn from them also, so I could get where I needed to go.. which is to successfully RESIST "knee-capping" my beloved Libra in his sleep with the cast-iron skillet. Oh yeeeeeaaaaah LOL
You're a bit nervous and weirded out by Pisces people. I get it - we're certainly very different from you Airy types lol We're illogical and so hard to figure out anyway without a natural Water affinity. But maybe the Cosmos have decided it's time for you to learn something new.. maybe to see that being more in touch with your emotions isn't always a BAD thing or a "weakness"... maybe to learn more acceptance and tolerance (Pisces' forte).. maybe it's to learn some of the beautiful things a Pisces can bring to your life... whatever it is.. you certainly seem to have plenty of teachers showing up *grin*
I agree with Nefer. You need to learn the lesson of Pisces. I have had this happen to me before. A sign shows up and stays for a few months or few years, then eventually they all pack up and move on. 🙂
Oh... I'd like to add to my you-get-what-you-need theory... the Virgo Lesson? My Libra has a Virgo Moon, Cap Rising. The Leo Lesson? His Venus is in Leo. The Libra Lesson? He's SUCH a Libra with his Sun/Mercury/Mars. I have the experience of dealing with the various signs of his major aspects. Without it, there's NO WAY he and I would have navigated our first year together, NONE!
So if I didn't learn my Lessons... I'd probably be with another Virgo.. or maybe a different Libra. If HE didn't learn HIS Lessons (3 out of 4 of his last serious gfs were all born the 3rd week of February!!)...he'd probably be with yet ANOTHER one... or a crazy Sag (like the other 1 of 4)! LOL.. or his 8x10 glossy autopsy photographs would be labeled Exhibit A and I'd be code-named "Defendant" *wink*
Just watch.. you're going to fall for a Pisces with a Leo Moon ...and a Scorp mother she considers very important and is very close to LMAO.. she'll probably have an Aqua Venus too, so you'll have to really break out of your box to get her, really have to step up your game... and you'll be glad for all the Pisces, Leo, and Scorp experience! *evil grin*
What I notice now are libs, scorps and virgs, in my midst. Just enjoy the ride, and relax.. you're not obliged to keep any as momentos if you dont want..
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In my teens and 20's.. I attracted Libras, but MORE Virgos (like my Mom)... Virgos like there was NO other sign of the Zodiac except a couple Leebs for comedy relief, over and over. I had SO much to learn from them. (Throw in a Cap hubby and then a Cancer one in there... whee!) Mid to late 20's.. it was a couple Leos... even though I thought I knew plenty (a hardcore influx of Leo in my family - a grandpa, 2 sisters and 1 brother, a cousin or two, a nephew and my own son!) I still had MORE to learn about Leos. THAT was a hard lesson, but it certainly prepared me for my Libra's LEO Mom now! haha In my 30's, I found my "Libra magnet" was back.. a few "casually".. and two in a row more seriously... I had much to learn from them also, so I could get where I needed to go.. which is to successfully RESIST "knee-capping" my beloved Libra in his sleep with the cast-iron skillet. Oh yeeeeeaaaaah LOL
You're a bit nervous and weirded out by Pisces people. I get it - we're certainly very different from you Airy types lol We're illogical and so hard to figure out anyway without a natural Water affinity. But maybe the Cosmos have decided it's time for you to learn something new.. maybe to see that being more in touch with your emotions isn't always a BAD thing or a "weakness"... maybe to learn more acceptance and tolerance (Pisces' forte).. maybe it's to learn some of the beautiful things a Pisces can bring to your life... whatever it is.. you certainly seem to have plenty of teachers showing up *grin*
Poor Leeb haha