
Aquarius09
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Posted by aquarius09
LMAO@psychotic and shouldn't be touched with a 10 feet pole.
I agree, but the hard part is to identify such a person. Nobody ever admits to being that way especially not a potential interest. That's not gonna go down well if your love interest tells you that they don't know how to be single. Imagine such a world. Hilarious!


Posted by rockyroadicecream
Speak of the debbil, that dude just came back around.
He's made his rounds and is trying again with me (his most recent date stood him up, apparently).
El oh el.
*sigh* I'm a freak magnet.

Posted by GandalftheGrey
why do libras hate being single so much? why do you always need two to feel happy?

Posted by TaurusNikkiPosted by rockyroadicecream
Speak of the debbil, that dude just came back around.
He's made his rounds and is trying again with me (his most recent date stood him up, apparently).
El oh el.
*sigh* I'm a freak magnet.
Lmao, I had a feeling that libra wasn't finished yetclick to expand
Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by TaurusNikkiPosted by rockyroadicecream
Speak of the debbil, that dude just came back around.
He's made his rounds and is trying again with me (his most recent date stood him up, apparently).
El oh el.
*sigh* I'm a freak magnet.
Lmao, I had a feeling that libra wasn't finished yet
No, the Cancer dude I mentioned.click to expand


Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by aquarius09
LMAO@psychotic and shouldn't be touched with a 10 feet pole.
I agree, but the hard part is to identify such a person. Nobody ever admits to being that way especially not a potential interest. That's not gonna go down well if your love interest tells you that they don't know how to be single. Imagine such a world. Hilarious!
Well yeah. It's usually easier to see when you aren't involved/that person is chasing you.
...Though I dunno. I had a Cancer dude chase me a bit recently. The fact he wanted to move so fast was already a red flag. His Facebook had a few things that told me he wasn't a fan of being single lately. I was picking up a "I don't want to be single, so I chase anything with a vagina" vibe. Glad I listened to my gut. Turns out he's a bit of a serial dater.
And fuck savior syndrome. I'm sure we've all been there, but after the load of shit that comes with it, I find guys like that a total turn off. I dunno if I ever felt like it was "saving" if I got involved with someone like that, but I know I may have been a little more understanding from where the guy came from. ...and then all the crazy unleashed and everything explained the sob stories.
So now, if a guy opens up, ESPECIALLY that early on (day 1?? ruuun), it's definitely something to stay away from. Guys can open up and share their experiences, but like was mentioned in a thread on that subject matter- there's a time and a place. First date is not it. If it is, then there will be no second date, sorry.click to expand




Posted by Xin
So far right now I have this friend that Ive known for many years maybe four or five years now. He constantly feeds people "oh were good friends" like puts every single girl in the "friend zone". Just recently he comes to me crying about how lonely he is. I dont even....What? I told him im like well what the hell? Maybe if you didnt tell every single girl shes a "buddy chum mcfriendpal" maybe you would have a damn date. I used to like him myself too. The second he found out I was dating someone he changed. Telling me how he's trying to make his life better, getting a new job, following a career path. Then goes into about how he needs someone and im standing there with deer in headlights look because this is probably the first time ive ever heard it.

Posted by feby16aquaPosted by Xin
This whole post about "holding out for better" is SO true. SO SO SO TRUE. He wont date anyone until he finds the best so he collects women. Charms them and then places them in the friend zone, revisits and decides which one but just in case he picks the wrong one he has backups. Its SUPER annoying. I think im in the running too because I was placed there until recently with the bearing of his soul to me since he found out I was dating.
I've seen men do this who aren't libras as well. Leos can be guilty of it as well. Women collectors LOL. such is life. Just gotta be wise to the details and trust your instincts as well. If something smells like fish...it might just be fish.click to expand

Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by feby16aquaPosted by Xin
This whole post about "holding out for better" is SO true. SO SO SO TRUE. He wont date anyone until he finds the best so he collects women. Charms them and then places them in the friend zone, revisits and decides which one but just in case he picks the wrong one he has backups. Its SUPER annoying. I think im in the running too because I was placed there until recently with the bearing of his soul to me since he found out I was dating.
I've seen men do this who aren't libras as well. Leos can be guilty of it as well. Women collectors LOL. such is life. Just gotta be wise to the details and trust your instincts as well. If something smells like fish...it might just be fish.
Another egotistical sign collecting women? NO.
Of course men, in general, are capable of doing this anyway. You just happen to hear about it a lot in others' experiences and many of the posts here. Each forum has a trend going with specific signs.
On DXP as a whole, the conclusion can be made that there are FAR too many manchildren out there attempting to date.
I saw this today and I think it's a huge representation of dating.
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I admit that with my ex, I saw red flags because day 1 he piled bunch of sob stories on me. In fact, the next day when I told my close guy and girlfriend about that, they both made a face and were like: "umm you're interested in Mr.Victim?" I was wrong to overlook that. I had a savior syndrome. I wanted to save him from himself. Learned from that experience and never again have I even looked at someone miserable as a romantic partner.