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LMAO@psychotic and shouldn't be touched with a 10 feet pole.
I agree, but the hard part is to identify such a person. Nobody ever admits to being that way especially not a potential interest. That's not gonna go down well if your love interest tells you that they don't know how to be single. Imagine such a world. Hilarious!
Well yeah. It's usually easier to see when you aren't involved/that person is chasing you.
...Though I dunno. I had a Cancer dude chase me a bit recently. The fact he wanted to move so fast was already a red flag. His Facebook had a few things that told me he wasn't a fan of being single lately. I was picking up a "I don't want to be single, so I chase anything with a vagina" vibe. Glad I listened to my gut. Turns out he's a bit of a serial dater.
And fuck savior syndrome. I'm sure we've all been there, but after the load of shit that comes with it, I find guys like that a total turn off. I dunno if I ever felt like it was "saving" if I got involved with someone like that, but I know I may have been a little more understanding from where the guy came from. ...and then all the crazy unleashed and everything explained the sob stories.
So now, if a guy opens up, ESPECIALLY that early on (day 1?? ruuun), it's definitely something to stay away from. Guys can open up and share their experiences, but like was mentioned in a thread on that subject matter- there's a time and a place. First date is not it. If it is, then there will be no second date, sorry.
Speak of the debbil, that dude just came back around.
He's made his rounds and is trying again with me (his most recent date stood him up, apparently).
El oh el.
*sigh* I'm a freak magnet.
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Speak of the debbil, that dude just came back around.He's made his rounds and is trying again with me (his most recent date stood him up, apparently).
El oh el.
*sigh* I'm a freak magnet.
Lmao, I had a feeling that libra wasn't finished yet
Posted by GandalftheGrey
why do libras hate being single so much? why do you always need two to feel happy?
It's a safe net for them
If one fails they always have backup, so they won't be alone
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Speak of the debbil, that dude just came back around.He's made his rounds and is trying again with me (his most recent date stood him up, apparently).
El oh el.
*sigh* I'm a freak magnet.
Lmao, I had a feeling that libra wasn't finished yet
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No, the Cancer dude I mentioned.
Right ! They are all J E R K S after they was A N G E L S !....
So big lairs, they lie just like breathing the air ! Then they don't know how to exit from their own lies and troubles and simple, disappear to "set up" the things , hahahaha... in fact they are unable to set up anything and to take any decision or at least, they take the wrong decision ! I know a Libra he lost his job ( goverment job), he lost his family ( divorce and the kids hate him also ), he lost his house after divorce... and surprise ! he married again with a older women than him , just do not be alone probably, hahahah... Libra brain...... booooooooooom !!!!
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Speak of the debbil, that dude just came back around.He's made his rounds and is trying again with me (his most recent date stood him up, apparently).
El oh el.
*sigh* I'm a freak magnet.
Lmao, I had a feeling that libra wasn't finished yet
No, the Cancer dude I mentioned.
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How good is when the "backup" leave them down and disappear ! Hahahaha
And I know many Libra males who are single and they have male friends and don't have much in common with girls , I mean they feel better with their friends than to date a girl .
So everyone's okay with -- and in support of -- this thread. No one can think of ONE single example to counter it! Nobody seems to ever have a Libra son, daughter, brother, sister, nephew, niece, friend that they can say: "Hey, I know a Libra who's not like that at all!!" I find that very hard to believe.
Yet everyone jumps on the "Do Pisces Men Cheat?" thread and they counter it and they argue with it and they all come to the support of Pisces basically saying "No, Pisces men don't cheat; no they do not." No one seems to be okay with and in support of that thread.
Unbelievable.
That's exactly what I did. His pushiness pissed me off, so I blocked his ass from contacting me anymore.
I'm not interested in needy can't get my shit together guys. Dating and relationships are not a solution to your internal issues. Those need to be taken care of seperately.
LMAO@psychotic and shouldn't be touched with a 10 feet pole.
I agree, but the hard part is to identify such a person. Nobody ever admits to being that way especially not a potential interest. That's not gonna go down well if your love interest tells you that they don't know how to be single. Imagine such a world. Hilarious!
Well yeah. It's usually easier to see when you aren't involved/that person is chasing you.
...Though I dunno. I had a Cancer dude chase me a bit recently. The fact he wanted to move so fast was already a red flag. His Facebook had a few things that told me he wasn't a fan of being single lately. I was picking up a "I don't want to be single, so I chase anything with a vagina" vibe. Glad I listened to my gut. Turns out he's a bit of a serial dater.
And fuck savior syndrome. I'm sure we've all been there, but after the load of shit that comes with it, I find guys like that a total turn off. I dunno if I ever felt like it was "saving" if I got involved with someone like that, but I know I may have been a little more understanding from where the guy came from. ...and then all the crazy unleashed and everything explained the sob stories.
So now, if a guy opens up, ESPECIALLY that early on (day 1?? ruuun), it's definitely something to stay away from. Guys can open up and share their experiences, but like was mentioned in a thread on that subject matter- there's a time and a place. First date is not it. If it is, then there will be no second date, sorry.
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And this is why Rocky is on my favorites list.
Ive had my experiences with water signs and the only one that isn't a crybaby ass (Cancer) or a trying to kill themselves because they are so emo on a drug binge (Pisces) is Scorpio. Probably the only level headed ones Ive met out of the water department. Sorry if that offends some of you but JFC. Anyways I get the whole sob story Rocky. I get that so much from Cancers like "Omg feel bad for me I got dumped"...LOVE ME? Im like ew...*pushes face*
About Libras.
Ok I know this might not be such a great thing I am an air sign (Gemini) with Libra moon/rising. Sometimes I cant stand my own indecisiveness it drives me crazy. So I will give that to Libra it's nothing intentional it just happens.
BUT....
With that said the most infuriating men I have ever met have been Libras. I can't figure out wtf is going on with them. They flirt with everyone including you but no one is set apart. NO ONE. Everyone is a potential partner. There is nothing that distinguishes you from another female at all. Ive had it done to my face before and that pissed me off. So much that I pretty much fucked up the rest of his night with my Taurus venus/mars charging around. And I dont even give a shit.
So far right now I have this friend that Ive known for many years maybe four or five years now. He constantly feeds people "oh were good friends" like puts every single girl in the "friend zone". Just recently he comes to me crying about how lonely he is. I dont even....What? I told him im like well what the hell? Maybe if you didnt tell every single girl shes a "buddy chum mcfriendpal" maybe you would have a damn date. I used to like him myself too. The second he found out I was dating someone he changed. Telling me how he's trying to make his life better, getting a new job, following a career path. Then goes into about how he needs someone and im standing there with deer in headlights look because this is probably the first time ive ever heard it.
This whole post about "holding out for better" is SO true. SO SO SO TRUE. He wont date anyone until he finds the best so he collects women. Charms them and then places them in the friend zone, revisits and decides which one but just in case he picks the wrong one he has backups. Its SUPER annoying. I think im in the running too because I was placed there until recently with the bearing of his soul to me since he found out I was dating.
See, dem libra males are a damn gang, lol
Posted by Xin
So far right now I have this friend that Ive known for many years maybe four or five years now. He constantly feeds people "oh were good friends" like puts every single girl in the "friend zone". Just recently he comes to me crying about how lonely he is. I dont even....What? I told him im like well what the hell? Maybe if you didnt tell every single girl shes a "buddy chum mcfriendpal" maybe you would have a damn date. I used to like him myself too. The second he found out I was dating someone he changed. Telling me how he's trying to make his life better, getting a new job, following a career path. Then goes into about how he needs someone and im standing there with deer in headlights look because this is probably the first time ive ever heard it.
That was the last one I dated. Well, the collecting of female friends and secretly crushing on many, yet staying single to collect more. It's really strange.
But this is why I made this post. I know I give these guys a hard time and think a lot of their bs is ridiculous, but they have a lot to offer and to see them constantly setting themselves up for failure is so wtf. It's like OMG WTF ARE YOU DOING TO YOURSELF?? :/ To make it worse, they have no idea why people are upset with them or don't understand that their actions are what makes life so difficult for them.
When I confronted that last dude about his behavior, he packpedaled, made up really strange reasoning, and finished off with saying he didn't see what he did was wrong. That immediately just said a lot about him and he was immediately thrown into the friend zone. Someone has some evolving to do.
People are just strange sometimes and leave you scratching your head. :/
This whole post about "holding out for better" is SO true. SO SO SO TRUE. He wont date anyone until he finds the best so he collects women. Charms them and then places them in the friend zone, revisits and decides which one but just in case he picks the wrong one he has backups. Its SUPER annoying. I think im in the running too because I was placed there until recently with the bearing of his soul to me since he found out I was dating.
I've seen men do this who aren't libras as well. Leos can be guilty of it as well. Women collectors LOL. such is life. Just gotta be wise to the details and trust your instincts as well. If something smells like fish...it might just be fish.
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Another egotistical sign collecting women? NO.
Of course men, in general, are capable of doing this anyway. You just happen to hear about it a lot in others' experiences and many of the posts here. Each forum has a trend going with specific signs.
On DXP as a whole, the conclusion can be made that there are FAR too many manchildren out there attempting to date.
I saw this today and I think it's a huge representation of dating.
This whole post about "holding out for better" is SO true. SO SO SO TRUE. He wont date anyone until he finds the best so he collects women. Charms them and then places them in the friend zone, revisits and decides which one but just in case he picks the wrong one he has backups. Its SUPER annoying. I think im in the running too because I was placed there until recently with the bearing of his soul to me since he found out I was dating.
I've seen men do this who aren't libras as well. Leos can be guilty of it as well. Women collectors LOL. such is life. Just gotta be wise to the details and trust your instincts as well. If something smells like fish...it might just be fish.
Another egotistical sign collecting women? NO.
Of course men, in general, are capable of doing this anyway. You just happen to hear about it a lot in others' experiences and many of the posts here. Each forum has a trend going with specific signs.
On DXP as a whole, the conclusion can be made that there are FAR too many manchildren out there attempting to date.
I saw this today and I think it's a huge representation of dating.
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So very true!
I agree
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2) I want what I want and I will ignore the red flags
I admit that with my ex, I saw red flags because day 1 he piled bunch of sob stories on me. In fact, the next day when I told my close guy and girlfriend about that, they both made a face and were like: "umm you're interested in Mr.Victim?" I was wrong to overlook that. I had a savior syndrome. I wanted to save him from himself. Learned from that experience and never again have I even looked at someone miserable as a romantic partner.