@ladylibra21
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Understanding Fluctuations in Sexual Desire
Experiencing extreme highs and lows in sexual desire is common and can be influenced by hormonal changes, stress, and relationship factors. These fluctuations are normal, and communication with your partner can help navigate these changes. If concerns persist, consulting a healthcare provider may provide personalized guidance and support.
Sometimes I get an overwhelming urge to just tackle someone I like.and yell dem draws! LOL
even though this is on the Libra forum I saw it on the main page.
I do. it basically goes like this: when I want it, the guy I'm with doesn't want it and I mentally cry and wait for it to subside. When they want it, I never want it so I'm just like "so be it" and then I have to try. exhausting. The pattern is fairly consistent though lmao. my periods where I don't want it can be very long and I'm completely indifferent to it. On the other side of the spectrum, I normally want it for like a week straight (sometimes more) and then once it's dead it's dead. Then out of the blue they'll be like "ok let's do it" and I'm like -.-
Posted by degenerate_ingenue
even though this is on the Libra forum I saw it on the main page.I do. it basically goes like this: when I want it, the guy I'm with doesn't want it and I mentally cry and wait for it to subside. When they want it, I never want it so I'm just like "so be it" and then I have to try. exhausting. The pattern is fairly consistent though lmao. my periods where I don't want it can be very long and I'm completely indifferent to it. On the other side of the spectrum, I normally want it for like a week straight (sometimes more) and then once it's dead it's dead. Then out of the blue they'll be like "ok let's do it" and I'm like -.-
OMG YES! What is your Mars and Venus?
Posted by degenerate_ingenue
even though this is on the Libra forum I saw it on the main page.I do. it basically goes like this: when I want it, the guy I'm with doesn't want it and I mentally cry and wait for it to subside. When they want it, I never want it so I'm just like "so be it" and then I have to try. exhausting. The pattern is fairly consistent though lmao. my periods where I don't want it can be very long and I'm completely indifferent to it. On the other side of the spectrum, I normally want it for like a week straight (sometimes more) and then once it's dead it's dead. Then out of the blue they'll be like "ok let's do it" and I'm like -.-
OMG YES! What is your Mars and Venus?
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0'27 Venus in Scorp
0'10 Mars in Sag
😄
no idea which one has that impact! they're both little 0's. Sometimes I relate more to the Sag aspect of wanting it to be fun and spontaneous and when I want it I want it. So maybe it's the Sag influence. then the week long (or longer) desire might be my Scorp? Not even sure. 😭
Posted by degenerate_ingenue
even though this is on the Libra forum I saw it on the main page.I do. it basically goes like this: when I want it, the guy I'm with doesn't want it and I mentally cry and wait for it to subside. When they want it, I never want it so I'm just like "so be it" and then I have to try. exhausting. The pattern is fairly consistent though lmao. my periods where I don't want it can be very long and I'm completely indifferent to it. On the other side of the spectrum, I normally want it for like a week straight (sometimes more) and then once it's dead it's dead. Then out of the blue they'll be like "ok let's do it" and I'm like -.-
.That is so me.
I think I know what I want until its served and I'm like, "......."
I think it's a sign that it's not the right person, or right time.
Sucks but I'd rather abstain until i AM full throttle.
I'd rather have it all then just have some.
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agreed! I will never forget the time my old Taurus guy bailed on me like 3 times in a row because he had more work to do and I was so ready....then...buzz kill. we did have a poorly timed relationship. Just wasn't meant to be.
And same here. I want it to be with someone important and to be at that full throttle, and the only way to do that is to have someone who is in it for the long run to wait for my ups and downs in sexual activity desires lmao
Posted by degenerate_ingenue
even though this is on the Libra forum I saw it on the main page.I do. it basically goes like this: when I want it, the guy I'm with doesn't want it and I mentally cry and wait for it to subside. When they want it, I never want it so I'm just like "so be it" and then I have to try. exhausting. The pattern is fairly consistent though lmao. my periods where I don't want it can be very long and I'm completely indifferent to it. On the other side of the spectrum, I normally want it for like a week straight (sometimes more) and then once it's dead it's dead. Then out of the blue they'll be like "ok let's do it" and I'm like -.-
.That is so me.
I think I know what I want until its served and I'm like, "......."
I think it's a sign that it's not the right person, or right time.
Sucks but I'd rather abstain until i AM full throttle.
I'd rather have it all then just have some.
agreed! I will never forget the time my old Taurus guy bailed on me like 3 times in a row because he had more work to do and I was so ready....then...buzz kill. we did have a poorly timed relationship. Just wasn't meant to be.
And same here. I want it to be with someone important and to be at that full throttle, and the only way to do that is to have someone who is in it for the long run to wait for my ups and downs in sexual activity desires lmao
Exactly. Had the same thing happen with a Taurus. It was never the right time.
I think life is all about the timing.
Some people are just, " right on time" ya know?
Lol @ ups and downs in sexual wants, I never know what I want until I want it. And I think I want what I want until I get it.
Life is so funny 🙂
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yes timing is incredibly important and I'm slowly coming to that realization myself.
and yes same! that is definitely my line these days hahaha. once you get what you thought you wanted it never is as sweet as you thought it would be. well not never, but sometimes. so true
Girl dont you start with me with this post.lol.
It's just another thing that reminds me of how indecisive i can be even when it comes to desires, thats so damn frustrating lol.
Currently i'm in my feelings over someone so the meer thought of anyone outside of him touching my flesh makes me skin crawl. I hate that i'm like that, but at least it keeps the body count down. haha
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Normally I can go long periods without having sex sometimes even annoyed by the thought of putting in effort to have sex with someone. THEN, I hit periods of time where I want to have soo much sex! I am not bold enough to just have random sex though and the guy I am "seeing" right now doesn't look like he is even gonna kiss me for a while I dream about it now! WTH! Does anyone else experience this where you just have extremes in your sexual needs? I guess it is time for new batteries until he is ready! LOL