Kinda goes w/ Menage a Trois

Someone posted about a 3-some a few threads ago, and I was just reading into it.
Well....okay, here's my short story long:

I'm seeing this guy, and we have a romantic relationship, but its more based on friendship. I care about him, but as a friend. I think he (even though he's an aquarius guy and I'm a scorpio girl) is more attatched to me than I am to him.
I feel like our signs should be switched.
Anywho: His best friend, or a really good pal is moving down here in about a week.
This is the proposition: They want to have a 3-some with me. 2 guys, and 1 girl. Right now, I think I'm good with it. I'm just worried about afterwards if I'll regret it.
BUT....I know if I don't do it, I'll also regret it, because a 2Man threesome doesn't come along very often, if ever! I'm very experimental, and curious about it.
These are two guys, I trust them, I know them, etc.
If I do it, I'm worried I'll regret it for some unknown reason.
If I don't do it, I know for sure I'll regret it

And...I could say so much stuff that would make it even more complicated, but its all so hazy, so I'll leave it out. I will say that I'm pretty new at sex, but to me that doesn't matter, I feel like I've always done it.

The fact that its 2 guys instead of 2 girls, I think that makes the 3-some a little different (although I've never done either before).



Any advice? Don't tell me what I should do, but just if you know any other information, someone else in a situation like this...
I would appreaciate it a lot, I feel like I'm in no-man's land.
~Natgirl :-)

ugh.

Uhhhh ... hmmmm.

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Hey Natgirl

Yes, I do know of some girls that have been with two men at the same time. Two enjoyed it and was very boastful about how each one was in bed, all I could do was snicker and listen 😄

The other girl wasn't too thrilled about the experience and she has stated that she wouldn't want to do it again.

OOoh girl...

Ummm....i wouldn't, but....sure if you want to. GO FOR IT....i guess.

Are you sure, you dont sound too sure...

Are they gay? or Bi-Curious?

Oh my! I must admit this is one of my fantasies...I personally don't know anyone who has been in a 2-guy/1-girl scenario...but I'm very experimental myself, and wouldn't mind just trying it...even if only once.
Does anyone know if a Scorpio guy would agree to this scenario? I'm almost afraid to ask!

Yeah, I won't do it. That's way too much ... nah, no way. Two different penises ... and you don't know where they've been .... Yikes!!!!!

Well from what I hear...somebody is not going to get that much attention......

A guy told me that who did it with 2 women.

Me hell I am a scropio and I am experimental but not with 2 men, HEEELLLLLL NOOOOOOOO, my experiments are strictly one on one.

True GL.

Twins...ewwww...thats incest on their part.

2 dudes and a girl...thats just too much...

I wouldn't do any of that, like it was said... im experimental with only one on one.

Been there, done them! It was fun, exciting, sexy, hot......I would do it again if the situation ever came up. But it was something I wanted to do. I didn't do it for the guy or guys. It was me fulfilling MY fantasy.

Just make sure you are mentally ready to deal with the guys after all is said and done! I think it kinda depends on the mentality of the men you are going to be with also.

Not trying to be funny but you have to be extremely careful with situations like this. You don't know everything about everybody. Even if you do feel like you know their whole histories. Sorry sweetie you may not...

Do what is best for you-BUT 2 guys with one girl...that's a lot of d*ck baby! You sure one isn't bi-curious like Lady M said? Guys don't usually like two d*cks to be in the same room. They usually get scared they may rub 🙂

Anyway Good Luck...

Merc so you are all for multiple guys and a girl?

She can do whatever she wants, just make sure your ready and wont regret it, etc...

Think about thoroughly and make sure its what YOU want.

Exactly Lady M! If she does it, she should do it for herself. Not for her boyfriend. If she just does it for him, chances are she will regret it!

"...If she does it, she should do it for herself. Not for her boyfriend. If she just does it for him, chances are she will regret it!"

This I agree with!

"...If she does it, she should do it for herself. Not for her boyfriend. If she just does it for him, chances are she will regret it!"

I second or third that.

Then again, I'm straighter than a defective boomerang, so I would tell her not to do just because of the risks she has the potential of running in to.

4. These men are your friends. Given item #3, how would they honestly feel about you afterward? Would they leave you with your dignity intact or feeling used?

thats exactly what I was thinking.

It just seems odd that they would ask a respected friend to participate.

So true...and its the aqua guy, I dont know if he really likes you as much as you think.

Good points scorp-in-law

"It just seems odd that they would ask a respected friend to participate."

"So true...and its the aqua guy, I dont know if he really likes you as much as you think."

Hmmm...interesting perspectives!!

Not in a million years.

Merc, we will...we're all licensed professionals.

LOL

Scorp-in-law basically said everything I had to say.

If you did do it, can you identify what it is you fear you would regret? try to be honest about it with yourself.

*** It just seems odd that they would ask a respected friend to participate.

You would be suprised actually. Perhaps they see her as someone who will respect their privacy and not be freaked out by their fantasy.

If you do go there will there be boundaries within the situation?..would you give them both oral— anything goes?

Okay, I thought I should clarify a few things
first of all:
1 They are not twins, they are not even related
2 They are not at all gay, (I did ask him that) and he said if I wasn't there, neither would do it. Not bi, or even bi-curious either (LOL, I assure you guys)
3 My aqua guy said if we do this, he only wants to do it with his trusted (Sag/Cap)friend, he trusts him completely. Aqua guy is ridiculous concerning my safety, he's almost overprotective of me.
4 This is his fantasy, but I sincerely believe I will have some "fun"
5 I know both guys, and let me tell you, I'm more sex crazed than the both of them put together; their libido isn't anywhere near as high as mine.

6 The only thing I'm worrying about is how its going to work. Am I going to have to take it up the butt? ouchhhhh, I don't know, it might hurt, or does it?

Just set limits on what is and is not allowed before you begin. Make sure it is all clear and in the open. Have all the rules and expectations laid out and go from there.

LMAO^ @ jrussou

that is actually a good scene right there

oh, I tip really well.
How big of a tip can you handle?

"6 The only thing I'm worrying about is how its going to work. Am I going to have to take it up the butt? ouchhhhh, I don't know, it might hurt, or does it?"

Eeeeew...double penetration.

No, they take turns while you give them oral or one watches and waits.

Or one might be capturing it all on film.

I would consider their "sizes" first before I decide which one goes "where"!!

Aw wow! An ass shot! It sounds like you are going to go through with it. But you sure better check sizes because I know a "9" incher might split that a $ $ for ya...unless it's loose enough to take one.

This is too much for even me...