So he says....

Yes, against all better judgement i sms the Libra man tonite...i simply couldnt help myself, and i thought one last chance isnt going to hurt?? So i just said "are you well, you have been very quiet"!

An HE says, "are you sure you are well, you seen angry...are you ngry with me, Wwhy do you say i am quiet? I say "because i say so, you are bad, hehee, but dont worry i am fine. See you soon, goodnight"!

And he says "I am glad of that, goodnight". Errm...where are the plans to meet up in that message. N-O-W-H-E-R-E!!! Not even a hint of him wanting to see me anytime soon, so i guess its all over..😢

sounds like it...

Send a message like "Are you going to man up and ask to see me any time soon or are we limmited to text messages every once in a while?"

The problem with Libra/Libra is they both like the other person to come on strong. You don't have to do all the work, just show you WANT him to do the work.

Bloody Librans....so difficult to read!!!! One minute YOU have to be the one to come on strong, then the next thing you can't seem TOO interested or THEY will be turned off...WTF?? lol. You reckon YOU guys have to balance things!!!! Can you even remotely imagine what its like for us NORMAL *hides* signs to deal with you—

I went through this with my Libran and still sometimes go through these kinda texts and chat on msn and there are no plans made (he's the slackest one and I end up doing most of the inviting, the work in other words), its as simple though, as sending a text "if you're free, would you like to do such and such"...simple!! Make a little joke out of it too...keep them laffing 🙂 DON'T let them see how irritating it all is LOL

My $ 0.01 worth!!!

We are very very simple people. But when we are simple, others find us way complicated(due to liberated thinking vs social psychology).

Then we have to complicate the hell out of us to make us look simple. Thats when others say "yea.. libra's- lazy and shallow people.."

Hear hear

I said in my message "see you soon", in other words hopefully see you soon, but he obviously didnt pick up on that!! I have asked him if he wanted to do stuff before and we met up a couple of times, but mostly he said he was too busy with his work/friends etc to make plans with me. He has never made a suggstion, so its more than laziness, its lack of interest. Maybe fate is telling me something, eg, stop wasting your time, lol!!

I think you need to read between the lines here and count your losses. Just hints hoping you'll get the message eventually. Keep your head high, girl! Upwards and onwards...

Im far from dramatic..i want simplicity and straightforward communications, not to be talking in endless riddles. If someone who has been all over me like a rash one minute turns demonic, or cold as ice the next, i think is only fair for me to wonder about it. If i start seeing anther person, i have to issue with telling that to the other person..all this to-ing and fro-ing only complicates the situation, and i?d really prefer for that not to happen. So there.

And anyway, its cruel to just blow people off, no-one appreciates that kind of crap being done to them. Even if you have to make up any old excuse, a person needs closure. So, if you dont want to be in contact with a person for whatever reason, give both parties a reason for it, otherwise, he can hardly be surprised that im trying to find out what the hell happened. Its not about drama, its about decency. Grrrr, even Libra doesnt understand Libra...Sola is NOT in a good mood today.

Sola, you're fine.

Only the dramatic bring up the dramatics of it all. Branh - you're a complete turn-off. Time and time again...

Yeah Libra, but at least Branh is direct!! Hehehe..i wish i didnt ?ber-analyse everything, but that is just my nature, and how i deal with everything. If someone cant give me answer, then i?ll find one for myself..

Now, im able to leave it all behind, but what a massive waste of time and energy...i think thats what really gets me.

You're true to type Sola. You Libra, you...

Dear Sola ,
what can I say? I hope it wont offend you if I say that you now more want to conquer this guy after all his aloofness! He knew it too , that's why he asked if you re upset with him! There are 2 things you can do right now . One , asking him directly why he behaved like that : all over you then back away ?? Does he just want to be friends or can he see potential ? If that's the case , you need him to put more effort ,not being so flaky!!.
Two, forget that "idiot" to free yourself from obsession and to move on to new and better future - a more healthy and evolved relationship.
I personally want to think about the goodness in people but sometimes , it just irritate me to see people who love playing games in love , although it might not be intentional , somehow , I want to give them back the taste of their medicine ! But that was just in the thought , then I dismiss that horrible and selfish thinking to bravely walk away from the situation 🙂

Exam, you know me too well, but you should NEVER give Sola choices...its rule #1!! It so could have been love, but everyone here on DXP has been confirming my suspicions...he?s simply not interested. I dont intend to make any bold moves..why should I?? Im walking away..but with a heavy heart 😢 Sola needs some love.

*hugs*

Wonder what rule #2 is!!!!

I agree Sola, no need to make any bold moves.....his loss, and your gain as you will find another sexy guy in no time 🙂

I want to know ALL the rules!

LOL Atom but that would be too easy!!! Nothing is easy, but it would be nice to know HOW MANY rules there are!! Then we could work hard at breaking them *giggles*

Branh, you gotta learn how a libra thinks. He is taking his time sola. Just relax and be patient. But respond promptly.

FRIENDSHIP is a marvellous thing 🙂

He is taking his time sola. Just relax and be patient. But respond promptly.

Lol thelibran...i cant respond promptly because he never initiates the contact..only me 😢 Besides, its been 3 weeks now, i only saw him a few times during those weeks. Its over and i know it, so there?s no point on musing over it any longer...Sola is a free agent once more!!

#rule 2...dont stare at me..i hate it, and i dont find it flirtatious, only offensive.
#rule 3...never, EVER, tell me what to do, because i?ll only do the opposite, consider never speaking to you again, or become spiteful, etc.
#rule 4...dont talk about you mum, if im interested i?ll ask...one of the biggest turn-off?s ever. We all have/had one. Extend that rule to ex?s.
#rule 5...dont tell me lies, i cant stand it.

Yeah sola, move on...

Good. Only 5 rules.

Sola, what is rule #1?

See above QS!!

Guys, i have only 5 rules because im a fairly easy to please person..just treat me right and you?ll have love in abundance!! But, no man has ever achieved the 5/5, so i have to keep looking...anything less just isnt good enough 🙂

Scorp from Christmas, who didnt buy me a present remember?!! wants to meet up with me soon, so i said ok. Looking forward to that. He knows im going back to Scotland soon, so i wonder what he?s got to say for himself??