Tell me more about the Libra Man/Scorpio Woman!

Hello Scales and Friends of Scales,

I would never have seen myself as dating a Libra, although I have been involved with a few Geminis this past year. I didn't know how compatible we could be, but the relationship, though new, is going phenomenally!

First of all, this man is the world's best kisser. I know, I know....I've read some posts here on the board about how well a Libra guy can kiss. But this man has stamina I've never encountered before. I'm sure he could kiss me for 15 minutes without stopping. At first I was a bit hesitant-- but you know us Scorps --we are willing to try! I was delighted at this new world of sensation. It reminded me of when I was 13...couldn't believe it.

Also, this Libra easy-goingness is something I like. My man has a very pleasant charming face, a beautiful smile, and soft, sensuous lips. He is also a big man, very tall, and makes me feel tiny. I love his outgoingness, friendliness....and he gives me beautiful compliments. Tells me how beautiful I am etc. etc.

Okay, I should stop raving about his body. He has a very pleasant personality, and is also a terrific dancer.

So tell me more about the Libra man. What do I need to do to please him?

We'll let GeminiFox cut and paste something for you.

but if you want some die hard experience, let QueenScorpio give you advice and insight on most of this topic.

QS and I have posted a LOT about this.....see if you can search the forum for "libra male, scorpio female" because there must be dozens of threads with that phrase from conversations we have had.

Either way, QS will be happy to share some of her viewpoints with you. 🙂

Ditto on the Queen advise!

Seems like we see the same story with this over and over again. Seems like it is an intense yet short-term attraction that isn't sustained over time.

*stop throwing things✨

Okay, The Queen has arrived. Eagle you are in for a wonderful relationship, if as a scorp, you let him be the man he is, not what you think he should be. Give him credit for what he does and don't sweat the small stuff....

Libra/Scorp combo is insanely delightful on a sexual and emotional level. He can get very emotional and feel very comfortable with you. You can have conversations about anything. They give us just enough space to give us our independence and they know how to cuddle you and hold you when you need affection. There is this sense of esp between the two, where without words the two of you will just know what the other needs.

Whew.... I have wonderful and very fond memories of my 6 year marriage to a Libra and a couple of relationships with Librans as well. They have been my Kryptonite (sp)? The one sign I can't seem to avoid, and the one sign that will find me in a crowd.

What I have learned about them ofcourse after a lot of experience, things that might have helped save my marriage and past relationships, are:

They are thinkers, logic is their thing. We are emotional, feelings are ours. However we crave and admire what the other has.... Libras love how hard we love and with all we have, we love how they think and can analyze and be fair in most situations. We secretly desire what the other has and we support eachother while sharing our traits to benefit the other.

There is an unspoken bond between a scorp girl and libra guy, that the outsiders can't see. Something only we know, and we live in this "our own world" space while in love and nothing outside of it matters.

Good luck and keep us posted. ***Jealous eyes roll*** As I know this a phenomenal time in both of your lives. You both have to work hard at being there and understanding eachother at times, we can fall off of the same page because of our differences. Respect eachother for who you are, never try and change him, accept him and love him and he will return it 10 fold.

LS, I can go both ways on your comment. For me, there are a lot of things I know that I myself and ofcourse the Libran in question could have done differently and who knows what would have happened. But, I am recently thinking that timing and situations were bad in most of my relationships, lack of communication was huge. I might be bettere as a friend personally for a libra than a mate. But then again, I dunno. Who knows, I don't soley put compatibility on zodiac signs alone, because everyone is different.

Queen Scorp,

Thanks so much for your comments and support. I did read some of your earlier posts about the attraction btn. a Libra man and Scorp female. Me and my man are just in the beginning phases of our relationship.

I'm also divorced -- one of the main reasons being is that my Cancer husband was not able to meet my emotional and physical needs. I hope this man will be able to. I know what you mean about letting him be the man. He already has shown his "cardinality" by being very straightforward about wanting me to be open to having a baby with him (!) if things worked out. He also told me to keep my eyes open when I was kissing him. I've never been bossed around that way before, but I found it really enjoyable 😉 And that was our first date.

He's from an Eastern European country, which accounts partly for his directness. I did his chart -- he's a very strong Libra, with many planets in that sign. As for communication, we don't speak each other's language all that well, but I'm going to gently insist that we learn together. Communication is key (I have a Gemini rising.)

I'll keep you guys posted. Thanks for your insights.

Eaglegirl, I must warn you that it may not go on for ever. Things can be way intense but if you dont make it a point to understand each others pros and cons, and talk about overcoming the potential issues, it will someday end. Still it will leave a lot of emotional attachment behind both of you. Enjoy while it lasts. Its hard to tie up a libra for long. Give him enough freedom to meet his friends and he want you to meet all his friends. Dont ever say a no. Every simple mistake you make will be counted and once it becomes a certain level, libra will switch automatically to a more greener ground.

sagitTAUries: gemfox's cousin 😉

1_fine_gem : re: "gemfox's cousin" haha you beat me to that comment!

***Things can be way intense but if you dont make it a point to understand each others pros and cons, and talk about overcoming the potential issues, it will someday end. Still it will leave a lot of emotional attachment behind both of you.***

I totally agree with thelibran. This is very important.

Sagitaurus is Geminifox's twin, she too has posted this similar post on the scorp board as well.... Uggghhh.

Well, I know you're just trying to help with your warnings. Frankly, we are both older (though I won't say how much older!) and I do feel that age has a way of making people more tolerant and understanding. Or at least it should!

Someone mentioned that he will count every mistake.....well, if he does, then he's a fool. He was the one who chased me, although he knows I don't speak a word of his language (though now I'm learning!). I know that men tend to be less forgiving than women. But no human being is perfect. He should know this -- he is religious, and so am I. Our religion talks about forgiveness, and perhaps it's my Neptune conjunct Sun making me more like a Pisces, but I feel it's very important to forgive.

In some ways, I don't really even care if a relationship ends because of misunderstanding. I have my kids, I'm divorced -- there is no one that I actually need. Whether I want them or not is another question. And I attract a lot of male attention so if he doesn't want me because of my flaws that's his problem. I don't say this to be stuck up, simply because it's true. I am almost surprised at my age at how many men look me up and down.

But the fact is, this man hasn't pushed me to meet his friends yet. I know he's a Libra because he said in his previous relationships that he hated arguing -- or at least, he implied it.

I think it's important to view each relationship with fresh innocent eyes. Don't view life through the wounds of the past.

***Someone mentioned that he will count every mistake.....well, if he does, then he's a fool.***

Maybe they do this with some signs, but I have never found this to be true in any of my relationships with them. They shock me at how understanding and flexible they can be. Really.

*** there is no one that I actually need. Whether I want them or not is another question. And I attract a lot of male attention so if he doesn't want me because of my flaws that's his problem. I don't say this to be stuck up, simply because it's true.****

LOL!!! Spoken like a true scorp!!!

*** there is no one that I actually need. Whether I want them or not is another question. And I attract a lot of male attention so if he doesn't want me because of my flaws that's his problem. I don't say this to be stuck up, simply because it's true.****

EG & QS, I couldn't agree more. In fact, I think these words must be written in the Scorpio Woman's DNA: All will love me, and despair!

EG, I never found LibraEX keeping score of my mistakes, and I agree with QS that they can be very flexible and compromising. I think you mentioned he's of Eastern European descent - well, all those decades under the Soviet thumb made for some hard-nosed people (at least in my dealings with them in my NATO days) - so some of his temperament may be more cultural than astrological. Just like I claim that us Southern Virgos are more relaxed and laid back than the stereotypical nervous nelly anal retentive nit pickers the experts write about...

I don't know about Libra Guys, but you Scorps and your I Could Care Less centered-ness / self-sufficiency is very attractive to us Virgs (obviously!)...

Hi! there Miss Eagle welcome back.

a libra always takes pleasure in pushing his parter to reach his own standards and levels throughout the relationship. This can be way subtle and he wont be doing this to most air or fire signs. But for a water or earth, he will sure push them in a nice way. Its important for us to pick every single negative things in a partner to figure out the best solutions to "fix them". Its a sad fact that not everyone can be fixed the way we want but still a libra will keep doing this to take you intellect to a whole new level.

Well you can call that foolish though.

Dy and FD,

It is good to be back, and you two were people I missed a lot. I am praying about your babies, Dy! And FD, you need to trust that there's going to be someone in your life, somone special. Just keep being sweet and good to people, no matter what happens. God will reward you.

I left because my inner self was telling me I was getting too involved, and needed to give the board a rest. Obviously, this change of vibe worked, for now I have a Libra boyfriend and all my wonderful Gem male friends, too.

I know that my boyfriend's support of me has a lot to do with my new confidence. And I don't forget his sweetness.

To the Libran from Singapore: thank you for clarifying. I had a Libra boss whose perfectionism could make a Vir-Guy look mellow! But I realise how idealistic air signs are. And I actually like it, and am willing to go along....

...and no, it doesn't sound foolish at all, but when I first read your post, the whole thing sounded rather intimidating!

thelibran, just so you'll know. There are some water signs that intrigue the intellect of a libra even... I have been told that myself by several librans. I can hold long conversations with them on any level and subject and bounce the intellect off of eachother. It can be a joyful sport. BTW, intellect isn't according to zodiac sign, it has to do with the individual. My best friend in highschool (libra guy) wasn't the brightest student, had tons of common sense though.