The Charmer: From The Art of Seduction...

Thought I's share this since were are known to be the charmers of the zodiac.

The Charmer

Charm is seduction without sex. Charmers are consummate manipulators, masking their cleverness by creating a mood of pleasure and comfort. Their method is simple: They deflect attention from themselves, and focus it on their target. They understand your spirit, feel your pain, adapt to your moods. In the presence of a Charmer you feel better about yourself. Learn to cast the Charmer's spell by aiming at people's primary weakness- vanity and self-esteem.

They deflect attention from themselves, and focus it on their target..."" Not that I have a target, but I do tend to do this with people I'm around.

"Learn to cast the Charmer's spell by aiming at people's primary weakness- vanity and self-esteem."-- I feel kinda guilty now admiting that I am a charmer...Mr Greene just makes it sound so evil...

It isn't evil, if vanity and self esteem weren't the most important things to people, then it would just be something else.

My libra is definitely a charmer.. full definition... should have his pic next to it in the dictionary.(he happens to be a good boy though, thank god)

Is it just Libra and Taurus ruled by Venus?

yup. Jus libra and taurus. and we got get that dimple as gift from venus.

define good boy brats!!! LOL

Chatz.. Good Boy = doesn't use his charm to harm me, not sure what he is using it for actually.. maybe just to test.. but when I lose, as I am right at this very moment, bc I am all in love with his charming butt.. he doesn't pull away or treat me any differently just keeps on loving me and tells me so..

...which is actually the torture part.. so maybe he is not a good boy but a very bad boy (if he knows what he is doing to me)... he probably does.. You gotta hate a man that can outsmart you. huh.. Chatz.. man! *brat nods head*

Dang, if that is a good boy I might be a little bad. I am guessing by "harm you" you mean to not use it for his own bennifit? I have a tendancy to do that, I used to not even realize I was "charming" until I took a long hard look at a lot of my "relationships" and realized that I was subliminally manipulating people into wanting to sleep with me. That combined with never making the first move it was a win/win. At first I was like, okay, that is kinda cool, then I realized that it might be kind of messed up too. Thats when I started to focus on being more upfront and risk being abrasive over manipulating someone. Sometimes I give in and go down to a bar or club or party and use it to get a little action though. At least I'm using it sparingly right?

right 😉

Nic.."I am guessing by "harm you" you mean to not use it for his own bennifit?"

Yes, and he doesn't play the game with me, or at least I don't think he is..

But Nic I love what you said about using your charm sparingly on occasional nights.. I was laffin.. I guess when you put it that way, we can't be mad at you..🙂 Gotta use what you have, to get what you want..