The 'out of balance' thing...

So is it true? Do you libra's really struggle when you are feeling off kilter? I was dating a libra man for a few months before he pulled the line on me. He seems very genuine about it all and has said if he were in a relationship now he wouldn't be a good boyfriend as there is too much going on in his head around the direction he wants for his career, study and also still dealing with getting over his ex (they broke up a year ago). He's a great guy, we have great chemistry and I feel there could be a future there for us. He's insistent we remain friends although I still feel at times he gives me mixed singnals as he's always complimenting me, telling me how awesome and great he thinks I am and he even went as far as sending me a picture message late one night, of the pub where we met, simply stating 'good times 🙂'. We've not been intimate together and although he would like to he doesn't want to do anything that would jeopardise our friendship. He suggests that would should go running together, go to the movies and even suggested I join him on a holiday. What is going on? Have I been put in the friendship basket or is this guy truly off balance?

Help me libra's!

you are getting some good advise here. we really do get off balence from time to time ,it's not a hoax , it's real. He seems to be genuine and honest with you so that's a healthy start. The more you get to know him the better you will be able toi feel him out, it's OK (and even recommended )to take a dirct approach with us.

Thanks for the advice. I'm afraid if I kiss him he'll kiss me back, but nothing will change between us, at least for now.

It's probably worth noting that it was me who called time on things, as I could tell he wasn't sure where he was going and what he wanted and I want someone who is at least sure they want to date me!

So my next question is, how do I know if he likes me? He seems to have a lot of female friends, how can I tell the difference between being just a friend to him, or being someone he's romantically interested in? He tells me there is something about me, the night we met he couldn't not ask for my number, even though deep down he knew he wasn't in a great place to be starting something. I'm just worried I am misinterpreting him, my gut says he likes me...but my head is telling me to be weary and I may not be as special to him as he is to me.

And I was direct with him, when I called time on things. I told him I think we could have something special together, but that it's clear he's not ready. He knows how I feel.

It's either on or off for me, no career or anything will get in the way if I want you. I think its just an excuse because he feels you want something and he really really likes having you around as a mate. Sorry but that is how I have been in the past but then I am a black and white person no grey's!