Venting (Page 2)

This topic was created in the Libra forum by LibraSid on Wednesday, March 9, 2011 and has 120 replies.

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Posted by beautifulscorp
Oh so they weren't your kids hummmmmm maybe you should have just kicked her to the crub lol.

Biologically the boys aren't, the girl is. But they are all mine. I raised them. I adopted the oldest boy when he was just over a year old. They're mine.

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16 Years

Well you know Sid I truly commend you for adopting some other man's children -- now that takes a stand up guy and a true man to do that.

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Posted by BelovedAssata
Mars in Aquarius

The planet of drive and aggression in the sign of unexpected change combines to make you very independent, self-sufficient and experimental. You can be very persistent with regards to a desired goal. Just make sure that your aims are worth fighting for. You may be willing to put forth a lot of energy toward humanitarian causes or even radical social change. When carried to extremes, you may express a kind of negative rebelliousness just because you get a certain amount of satisfaction from upsetting other people's more traditional apple carts.

That is very accurate about her. She was a softie on the inside and a big humanitarian (and animal lover). She volunteered at an animal shelter and we rescued a dog. And she went to that extreme a lot and like to tip peoples 'apple carts'. All the stories I've told on here before about me doing things to get awkward reactions out of people... she was there playing along for a bunch of them. Lol her and I were out front watching the kids play and talking one day and a couple jehovah's witness' came up. Oh we had a blast saying things to make them squirm. She went in and brought back the house phone and said something about a friend of hers arguing with her girlfriend about which one got to wear the strap on.

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Posted by BelovedAssata
there's actually a saturn retrograde going on right now in libra from the 26th of jan to the 12 of june..so I'm not sure if it's right but she might be in for some shit.

We both turned 30 over the last few months as well, and we each have saturn in Libra. There's the whole return of saturn thing too.

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Posted by BelovedAssata

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Posted by BelovedAssata
there's actually a saturn retrograde going on right now in libra from the 26th of jan to the 12 of june..so I'm not sure if it's right but she might be in for some shit.

We both turned 30 over the last few months as well, and we each have saturn in Libra. There's the whole return of saturn thing too.

But is your saturn and jupiter in retrograde?

It's like opposite day right?

Jupiter is a pretty lucky sign, so if you have it in your own sign...that's great..but if you have it in retrograde? They're not lying when they say you have to "make your own luck"

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Nah, I don't think any of my placements were retrograde. I don't know much about this stuff though so I don't know the differences anyway. I try to go to some of those sites but when they start with the triunes, conjunctions, and the other stuff I get confused. I haven't really looked into understanding it yet.

My Jupiter is Virgo, but I'm a Lib/Virgo cusp... does that count as having it in my sign lol? Does close count here or still only in horseshoes and hand grenades?

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Posted by aquagirl24

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Sid...when normal people find their car missing they call the sheriff department to find out if it was towed or repoed...
Not their ex to accuse him of having it towed, demanding he make them bring it back.

You obviously already realize this...but... she was clearly just looking for a reason to call you and hoping she could get you to argue with her and talk shit back.

I know right? She's known they're looking for it for months. She has joked before that she's passed the tow truck looking for her. When it was gone she knew why (I'm still assuming it was repo'd) and called to blame me... who cares that she wasn't paying for it, somehow it's my fault lol.

If it was repoed, all she has to do is call and get the repo company's information - call them - and they will let her come get her stuff out of it. Of course, they will make her pay to get her stuff. Don't you dare even consider helping her out on that one.

No fear, I'm not helping her with any thing anymore.

because brianafay knows everything. dont help someone who waited for you and who was ur ex wife. dont help the mother of ur kids.

dont help her because its her car, not his car, obviously. why u dont tell her its her car now and not yours anymore, oh right because it is both's... how unfair she called the other owner of the car, how unfair of her!

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if you and her have the same attitude/perspective...good. I'm glad he doesn't plan on ever helping her again. I do not feel bad for her at all.

As Cappy said, people like that think people owe them something. She's been spoiled (by a Libra man) she expects Sid to bail her out like he always did. He's been her security/support system...she's starting to realize she fucked up, she's losing it.

*shakes head*

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Posted by aquagirl24
@eee being the farmer librasid the donkey and cappyluv the ox...

I'm the donkey? Are you calling me a jackass again lol?

Now I'm gonna have to find the story and see what she means. Nevermind, I'm over it, I don't care.

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Posted by aquagirl24

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Posted by aquagirl24
@eee being the farmer librasid the donkey and cappyluv the ox...

I wish dxp gave you the option of changing screen names.....I'd SOOOO change my screen name to CappyOx30 for shits and giggles. LOL 😛

lolz. u have to read the story... its nice 😄 from one thousand and one nights...

the ox isnt the bad one, the real bad one is the donkey, the ox is the one that believes the donkey and they both end up bad, because the farmer punishes them both lol.

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So that means I get to trick Cappy into being bad with me?! 😛

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Well Aqua I'm a full fledged Scorpio and let me tell you I don't go around looking for fights—I pick my battles very carefully. I think you do it because your payout is attention and I guess it is true some would rather have negative attention then no attention at all??_. Why can't you just be nice instead of being unladylike an ugly.

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Are youuuuuuu ready to rummmmmmmmmmmmmmmbleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee Cap?! And in this corner we have the Mami, the gorgeous Capricorn, the Goatsest wif da Mostest...and on this side The Bull, pale as moonlight with fire in her eyes. Earth to Earth, horns locked. Who will win? There can be only ONE...

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Posted by CappyyLuv30
She seems to be looking after you more than VB and I really.....she's been all up on this post for hours with chapters of posts. Didn't she say she didn't have time? I think she's lying. Smh. Silly aqua.

Very true, she does stalk my posts... she has said she's ignored me multiple times but still sends me messages randomly. I have a stalker!

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Posted by CappyyLuv30

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Are youuuuuuu ready to rummmmmmmmmmmmmmmbleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee Cap?! And in this corner we have the Mami, the gorgeous Capricorn, the Goatsest wif da Mostest...and on this side The Bull, pale as moonlight with fire in her eyes. Earth to Earth, horns locked. Who will win? There can be only ONE...

LMAO @ Goatsest wif da Mostest

Did you know that GOAT stands for Greatest Of All Time? 😉 LOL

I crack myself up. Smh.

You win hun. Bull vs goat? C'mon now. You can squish me in a hot minute. HAHA

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LOL "Floats like a buttahfly stings like a bee".. I'll just sit on you a mo', mind the udder, it's sensitive.

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Aqua Cappies have a great sense of humor (I was married to one) sometimes it comes across as mean but it's all in fun. If the chick called your mother a whore who cares as long as you know she isn't. It's just cappies way of having fun despite you don't like it. The girl was probably sitting back laughing seeing that what she said to you pissed you off. Hey at your age I would have just called her mother something worse and then laughed. As for Sid well, you know the ex deserved what she got really now..... Honestly if some nutbag called me in the middle of the night I wouldn't have been as nice as he was to even listen to her ranting I just would have said "F--K YOU" and then hung up then turned my phone off or took it off of the hook.

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Posted by beautifulscorp
hummmm I see you can't type the word whor- on here lol

You can turn off the profanity filter. it it's on the site substitutes words.

Fuck = tree trunk
whore = just like me
sparkle motion = god damn
shit = butter

I don't remember them all.

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Posted by LibraSid

Posted by beautifulscorp
hummmm I see you can't type the word whor- on here lol

You can turn off the profanity filter. it it's on the site substitutes words.

Fuck = tree trunk
whore = just like me
sparkle motion = god damn
shit = butter

I don't remember them all.

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/facepalm

I just realized that with your filter turned on me telling you the words and there translations doesn't matter cause all you'd see is butter = butter

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Look at all the trouble you stirred up Sid. Are you happy now?!?!!?!

Actually, I can't even begin to tell you how grateful I am that me and my ex aren't having to deal with this sort of thing. What a hell to have to endure.

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Posted by aquagirl24

Posted by beautifulscorp
Aqua Cappies have a great sense of humor (I was married to one) sometimes it comes across as mean but it's all in fun. If the chick called your mother a whore who cares as long as you know she isn't. It's just cappies way of having fun despite you don't like it. The girl was probably sitting back laughing seeing that what she said to you pissed you off. Hey at your age I would have just called her mother something worse and then laughed. As for Sid well, you know the ex deserved what she got really now..... Honestly if some nutbag called me in the middle of the night I wouldn't have been as nice as he was to even listen to her ranting I just would have said "F--K YOU" and then hung up then turned my phone off or took it off of the hook.

honey i didnt call anyone whore. and i pointed that out to the 1st person who defended him (a capri) its not humorous defending bad behaviour. it makes the world a worst place.

librasid called my mom a whore, he is a 30 year old man. he doesnt need no momma, he is RESPONSIBLE for his actions. how come he is a man to a 25 year old girl, put a man next to him he pisses in his pants.

theres no humour, i was being serious. he could have insulted me not my mom. what does she have to do with him anyway.

i just answered him back. he had no right to insult my mom.

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Fine you're a whore too... happy?

As for why I insulted your momma... I know it pisses you off. If I say x, I get y response. I don't have anything against your mother personally but I'll call her a whore all day long to piss you off.

How's this?

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Posted by dofacc
Look at all the trouble you stirred up Sid. Are you happy now?!?!!?!

Actually, I can't even begin to tell you how grateful I am that me and my ex aren't having to deal with this sort of thing. What a hell to have to endure.

As for stirring shit with aqua, I've always been an instigator. I was the middle of 3 boys.

and the ex drama, hopefully one day her and I can get past the stupidity of it all, but it's not looking like it'll be anytime soon.

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I was in the middle of a bunch of boys, too. All I got if I started trouble was the crap beat out of me. Ah, yes, brotherly love, I can still feel the lumps....

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Posted by amethyst2002
My Cancer friend's ex wife is an Aqua. She STILL depends on his child support checks to help out financially and she's REMARRIED. Maybe we have a theme here... :/

Amethyst question for you why would a wife that is remarried not be entitled to child support payments from the father of her children which are still his responsibility?

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That comment makes me believe that you either don't have any children or you have never been divorced with children.

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Nef, if I'd have known you were up I might have. It was 3am when I made this post so 4 for you. I didn't even think to call someone, even you should have been asleep by then 😛

Posted by amethyst2002
Sid, you Libra guys attract some speshul ones, that's for sure. :/ It makes me sad that these leechy hobags take advantage of your kindness.

Ain't that the truth!

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Ok that clears it up she is just asking for the check early well he has the right to tell her to F--k Off and actually he might want to go through the court and just have them take it right out of his check that way she is really screwed because then he has nothing to do with it when it is late and let me tell you they are late a lot lol. Now if she has made it difficult for this man to see his children that is grounds for an ass kicking for her. Women that do that don't do anything but hurt the children and women like that are disgusting in my eyes.

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Ummmmmm she can't send any child of his off anywhere without his concent and if she does that it is considered kidnapping in this country.

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If you have the kids LS......why in the hell are you paying her—

Not something I understand, it certainly doesn't happen like that downunder!

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Posted by sweethearts
If you have the kids LS......why in the hell are you paying her—

Not something I understand, it certainly doesn't happen like that downunder!

The child support conversation is about a guy Amye knows, not me. I have custody and there is no child support involved.

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LOL Sid.. well, next time, call.. if I'm asleep, I won't answer *wink*

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😄

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You were paying for her car though??

I did the no child support thing, I thought it would be better this way and less complicated and he would come to the party...all that happened was that I now have to ASK which feels like begging and explaining what the money is used for because it's not to feather my own nest! And more, he pays barely anything and is quite happy to pay bare minimum so that I fit the bill or most things....

Should have just gone through the correct channels and STOP being so damn Libra about things!

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I only paid on her car til the divorce was final. The lawyers said it would be good if I could afford it. We weren't married ten years so there is no long term alimony but I did a temporary thing until it was all finished. I haven't paid on the car since July. The child support was left out entirely. I don't want or need her money. I got the kids and that's all I really cared about. I was willing to walk away with the kids and our clothes and I've have been fine. I got substantially more than that, but the kids is all that matter.

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Now why would I do that?

I have chosen a beautiful person to father my children. Our issues are minor and to sit down together and share a meal and laugh together as we do often is therapeutic for the kids.