Virgo/Libra Cusp

Do you accept apology gifts?

I've bought this girl a $ 20,000 diamond necklace gift and apologiesed sincerely to her. Do you think she the chances are good for her to forgive me if she accepts it?

She doesn't wanna see me again and I want to explain to her that there was a huge misunderstanding but I was pusy and insisted on some things so she said she didn't wanna see me again because I was putt a lot of stress on her at that time... she blocked my number so i just recently sent her and email but she hasn't responded now i've just backed off completely..

A 20k necklace might do it if it was just an argument. She's done blocked your number and said she never wants to see you again, you're gonna have to do more...

Get the matching anklet. 😆

You're also gonna want to present them to her in a romantic location. I'd suggest a candle lit dinner at her place. Yours would be easier for you but since she ain't talking to you, she probably won't come over for dinner. She probably won't let you in her house either but like the saying goes, it's easier to get forgiveness than permission. Just let yourself in while she's at work. When she comes home you can have the candle lit dinner ready.

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Posted by LibraSid
A 20k necklace might do it if it was just an argument. She's done blocked your number and said she never wants to see you again, you're gonna have to do more...

Get the matching anklet. 😆

You're also gonna want to present them to her in a romantic location. I'd suggest a candle lit dinner at her place. Yours would be easier for you but since she ain't talking to you, she probably won't come over for dinner. She probably won't let you in her house either but like the saying goes, it's easier to get forgiveness than permission. Just let yourself in while she's at work. When she comes home you can have the candle lit dinner ready.

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Let myself in? Do you want me to get arrested?

Allow me to accept it on her behalf, I'll even take cash, more meaningful. 😛

Is she the Virgo/Libra

Omg! No way will she take you back with that gesture! 20,000 !!!! She will think you want something from her in return and that you have no control over what you do! If shes a gold-digger you are in for luck but if not, then you have ruined all your chances! You should have been apologizing to her if you have made a mistake. Libra or not, any girl with any sense of self worth would not accept that gift as a token of apology! Sorry for being blunt - but she seems like a sensible girl and if you havent completely ruined all your chances - you have a lot more to apologize for!!!!

What did you do to her? and whats your sign?

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
What did you do to her? and whats your sign?

She's so pissed at me. Blocked me off completely. I think it's because I judged her and wasn't being a good friend, she was expecting me to be a good friend but I was in love with her at the same time when this other dude suddenly enters the picture. I was supposed to be her supportive friend but I reacted as a curious boyfriend. She basically changed her opinion of me because she was expecting support and friendship. Now I want fix things but I fear it might be too late for it. She doesn't want to hear it from me now and maybe even never.

A lot of my friends are telling me to give her space but I got a feeling that's only gonna make her forget our good times even more and if I keep pushing she'll think I'm a creep. SCREWED.

Interesting thing was that night she told me how she takes back her "girlfriends" when they do mistakes but not "boyfriends".

Posted by Starry22
Omg! No way will she take you back with that gesture! 20,000 !!!! She will think you want something from her in return and that you have no control over what you do! If shes a gold-digger you are in for luck but if not, then you have ruined all your chances! You should have been apologizing to her if you have made a mistake. Libra or not, any girl with any sense of self worth would not accept that gift as a token of apology! Sorry for being blunt - but she seems like a sensible girl and if you havent completely ruined all your chances - you have a lot more to apologize for!!!!

She knows she's worth it.

Posted by root

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
What did you do to her? and whats your sign?

She's so pissed at me. Blocked me off completely. I think it's because I judged her and wasn't being a good friend, she was expecting me to be a good friend but I was in love with her at the same time when this other dude suddenly enters the picture. I was supposed to be her supportive friend but I reacted as a curious boyfriend. She basically changed her opinion of me because she was expecting support and friendship. Now I want fix things but I fear it might be too late for it. She doesn't want to hear it from me now and maybe even never.

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bravo, good addition to the story.


So lemme get this straight. You're crushing on this girl, she says your just friends. She even came to try and talk to you about a guy she was actually interested in and you got jealous. She overreacted (clearly) and said she never wants to see you again. Now you're planning to buy your way back into the friendship and her pants?

I think the other guy must have some type of mind control spell on her. Everything was cool til he got there right? I don't know if jewelry is enough to break the curse. You should definitely still try it, but I think you may need to confront the evil at its source.

If a 20k necklace doesn't say "let's be friends", maybe beating up her real boyfriend will...

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This has to be trolling...right?

Posted by LibraSid

Posted by root

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
What did you do to her? and whats your sign?

She's so pissed at me. Blocked me off completely. I think it's because I judged her and wasn't being a good friend, she was expecting me to be a good friend but I was in love with her at the same time when this other dude suddenly enters the picture. I was supposed to be her supportive friend but I reacted as a curious boyfriend. She basically changed her opinion of me because she was expecting support and friendship. Now I want fix things but I fear it might be too late for it. She doesn't want to hear it from me now and maybe even never.

bravo, good addition to the story.


So lemme get this straight. You're crushing on this girl, she says your just friends. She even came to try and talk to you about a guy she was actually interested in and you got jealous. She overreacted (clearly) and said she never wants to see you again. Now you're planning to buy your way back into the friendship and her pants?

I think the other guy must have some type of mind control spell on her. Everything was cool til he got there right? I don't know if jewelry is enough to break the curse. You should definitely still try it, but I think you may need to confront the evil at its source.

If a 20k necklace doesn't say "let's be friends", maybe beating up her real boyfriend will...

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If she was done with him why would she tell me to come see her 10 minutes after he left. And after what he did (rushing into her house and pushing her around while I was waiting outside the door ringing the bell) I'd doubt she would have let him stay. If he had any influence on her she would have blocked me RIGHT AWAY.

I don't know if she was interested in that guy. He's clearly rich and pays for something, she just sucks the money out of him and likes his company perhaps but she isn't looking for any serious relationship. Just fun.

And everything was cool till he got there and even after that for like a couple of hours. Until I sent a text the following morning saying if he does all these nice things for you and he still isn't your bf then I don't know what a bf is my whole life.. she got pissed and said it wasn't my business and he's just a friend I was like sure, you're right. One thing lead to another and she got madddddd and went on a rant and it was harsh and coldddd freezing. Apparently I was being insensitive to her emotions and didn't appreciate her as a friend.

Actually even after the text she was sorta fine with but clearly ticked off. But as I insisted to go see her she got even more aggravated (wasn't expecting that), I think I was just pushing into her boundaries too far it reminded her of that dude. So now I'm labelled as a maniac when like a couple of days ago I was the most normal and nice fella she has met.. what.the.fuck.

Posted by root
I don't know if she was interested in that guy. He's clearly rich and pays for something, she just sucks the money out of him and likes his company perhaps but she isn't looking for any serious relationship. Just fun.

Oh I bet she's sucking a lot more than money out of him...

Not sure what exactly I did to this girl but she HATES ME now. It's paining my head to understand where this sudden strong negative emotions come from.

She said that she felt stupid telling me her personal problems that I'm just another guy.. (what the heck?)
She said that she doesn't need friends nor stress like me in her life..which is a little extreme no?

She just went on a tangent rant about all sort of things that I somehow triggered.