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Ooh we're talking about relationships 😛, should I take notes?



I think we're talking in general really...

Are you still being courted by the Pisces or is it the Aqua or the Sags, I can barely keep up with you Jahls!




Lol Tiz the Aquarius is a girl! She did bring her two brothers though, A Capricorn and another Pisces. The Pisces, Gem moon, remains unavailable -.- because he has a girlfriend in Virginia :/. But I still get to spend time with him, and get hugs pretty often so, it's not that bad 🙂. Though, there is this other Pisces that I'm going to be VERY focused on when school starts though.....


I like him, but I have something to prove. He pretty much insulted my intelligence when he first met me two years ago(wounded pride lasts a while okay!) and I have a score to settle-via beating him in every class except math. IB here I come.



Well at least you've put your vengeance into something that reaps results. Win win 😄
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Now, that is our resident Cap girl. Go at it 😄
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Incredible and fascinating to witness though, if one may ask, were your family relatives, Lionesses whom truly stood their grounds, even when not leaders, adamant to get their way and nobody else?



Yes. My Grandma was quite the lioness. 🙂 A beautiful woman that brought 10 of my aunts and uncles into this world. She was married to my Grandpa (still alive) a crazy cap WWII fighter pilot war veteran with a LOT of stories. Also a retired judge. I've heard stories of their brawls LOL.
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*laughs*
No other term would be better fitting, your Grandpa, must be quite something 🙂
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Posted by feby16aqua
As for all of that other stuff, speaking for my opposite sign, once the ego has been engaged it is best to let things be and bygones be bygones. No level of approach will be enough. They must come to you when they are ready to and their emotions have settled, if they ever do decide to. Any pushing or prodding in either direction can result in a mauling.



+ 1

Incidentally in general, Aquas and Lions square my Stinger, the ego are at odds as well. Yet, it is easy remaining friends with Aquas, there is a level of sanity, it may be an Airy ego that contributes to this? Them fire will maul you then burn you to a crisp, without so much as a glance.
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tiz & feby:

There is always that one relationship, that acts as a bigger burden in which we carry with us, not so much so as in our missing of the relationship itself, it is more of the memory of what was, the feelings of what was, it could sometimes be a sense of failure, disappointment or possibly, overtly compassion, empathy, sympathy or pity. When that strikes, the love is over, in my opinion. It acts as a scar, as like a physical one, it might fade, it might nearly disappear, but it have made its mark, it will always be a part of us, colouring who we are and have grown to be, the only important thing is to know how to move forward, with it, no matter what.

(hug) to all.
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(hug) Feby 😢

One have been there and done that, darkest hell brings a complete catharsis of self, it allows one to shed, even painfully so a former self we no longer need, we do come out stronger, and after all that, we know of our own worth and strengths. We prove to ourselves of our capabilities and that should always be a thought which empowers you, that you have an ability, choice and will to move forwards, to great better things.
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+ 1

Incidentally in general, Aquas and Lions square my Stinger, the ego are at odds as well. Yet, it is easy remaining friends with Aquas, there is a level of sanity, it may be an Airy ego that contributes to this? Them fire will maul you then burn you to a crisp, without so much as a glance.



I'm not sure. But I know I have an ego lol. For me I try to weigh things out and decide if they are worth carrying on about. I don't like to put my energy into unnecessary things: negative emotions are very much included in that. I try.
Without trying to sound like a hypocrite I must say that having been to my own personal hell and back, in the grand scheme of things, my scale is a little different 🙂 I think it's big lol.
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My scale is big too, so you are not the only lunatic here on home grounds 🙂 Of course, one have an ego too, it would be a complete lie to say one transcends above it all, no, but one can learn to heed its arrival and direct it accordingly in the right pathways without it ruling us. One supposes that may be the difference.
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I guess a lot of people tend to take a lot from that first relationship or what we believe to be the first true love. At least from my experience, subconsciously judging and comparing. Might not even be them but changing yourself, trying to learn from the past. Sometimes trying to recreate moments that just won't ever come to pass again and even at times unknowingly sabotaging the whole relationship.

Was going through my time capsule I think the other week. Realised I pretty much fit the Aqua descriptions to a T. Lots of letters in there specifically a few from my first love. Though I never outwardly expressed to her what she wrote down, things like "I will always love you forever" and realising how naive it was even when we believed it when we said it.

Now I don't use it, possibly spawned from that but little things like that.
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Suppose people would find it surprising if I were to say if I had the chance to go back in time at a particular moment in my life, I would choose to prevent my mum and dad from ever meeting.

For good reasons too, but I'm genuinely suprised when I throw this question around because it seems we all seem to have that one thing we don't like to talk about and that little black mark we would like to remove.
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remind me to not overhelp people... i think im gonna die now... the cap im seeing made the craziest shit ever to thank me.

Goat: baby i have a surprise can i see you today
Leeb: hmm i have lunch open ok sure what do you want for lunch.. blah blah

After 20 mins
Cap approaching: Hey baby ( went for that hug gesture... )
( btw this leeb hates hugs )

Leeb tried the hugging thing and surprise surprise

saw her name tattooed on goats neck.

Fuck.everything went downhill after that.

Kill me now.
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remind me to not overhelp people... i think im gonna die now... the cap im seeing made the craziest shit ever to thank me.

Goat: baby i have a surprise can i see you today
Leeb: hmm i have lunch open ok sure what do you want for lunch.. blah blah

After 20 mins
Cap approaching: Hey baby ( went for that hug gesture... )
( btw this leeb hates hugs )

Leeb tried the hugging thing and surprise surprise

saw her name tattooed on goats neck.

Fuck.everything went downhill after that.

Kill me now.



heyyy girl!!! Missed ya here!
Omg! Thats freaky 🙂 how did u react?
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i thought i was just imagining it because i came from a crazy doyble shift and then when i read it it was really my name.. i was in the verge of a nervous breakdown seriously.

its like this feeling of getting trapped in a cage.

like i dont plan of staying long with this guy and now i see this im like WTF!!!!
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remind me to not overhelp people... i think im gonna die now... the cap im seeing made the craziest shit ever to thank me.

Goat: baby i have a surprise can i see you today
Leeb: hmm i have lunch open ok sure what do you want for lunch.. blah blah

After 20 mins
Cap approaching: Hey baby ( went for that hug gesture... )
( btw this leeb hates hugs )

Leeb tried the hugging thing and surprise surprise

saw her name tattooed on goats neck.

Fuck.everything went downhill after that.

Kill me now.



Damn, what are you doing to these goats 808?? lol
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nothing

..well, when he got laid off ( thats when i started dissappearing in dxp) we went looking for jobs and rearrange all his shit in order..

he now has a full time one plus a part time, we finished decorating his room ( yewah yeah its leeb thing ) and just found him a second hand car.

He has no family he's a foreigner

he always thinks he owes me a lot but seriously the things i did i would do it to anyone i consider as a friend.

i know i was good at sucking dick but i didnt know i was that good hahaha

ffs how can i tell him im not really pleased with his stupidity without being a bitch... and we're talking about a goat here i dont want those crazy suicede episodes happening ok.

leeeebbbss heelpp !!!
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Posted by xdimplez
" This is exactly the reason why i never pursued a friendship with you after the break up because you have a way of making me act insane... there is something about you, you are addicting you're like a drug... i really appreciate you being there to be a shoulder to cry on for my daughter....i think you're a moron and nothing you say is right" - scorpio sun pisces moon [sp] ex

" i hope you choke on some heart candy xoxo... i despise u for this no contact game you play...just know" - scorpio sun cancer moon[sc], didn't even make it in to a relationship, just a past romantic crush

apparently the no contact rule doesnt work in getting rid of certain exes or past romances, specifically scorpios. The first one, SP, who impacted me greatly and helped mold the person that i am, i understand why he would make contact with me [because i teach his daughter piano], but the comments he makes are unwarranted. seeing as the mofo contacts me every single time out of the blue. i dont contact him at all

the second one [SC] , seems to not just get the hint...for the past 4 years. i have blocked him on facebook, ive blocked him on skype, and i have blocked him on my phone a couple of times. but he seems to always make contact and says stupid shit to get my attention. i told him a while ago, when i apologized for being mean to him and he apologized for being a jackass, that i cannot continue to be friends with him if he is going to keep making pervish condescending jack ass comments. well... clearly he couldnt contain himself.

they always seem to rear their heads out of the blue and always have something negative to say. i wish i could maintain a friendship with them, or even a acquaintance, but their behavior makes it difficult to do. if i could move on with my life without hearing from them again, i would be fine. but they dont seem to get the hint with the no contact rule! and they sure as hell aint getting on my good graces by being a jack ass!



ok ffs now hat im gonna do now

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lol what do you mean libra?



like i want to be away from someone not permanently stalk me and with your post it made me think im fucking in a dead end



the goat right? as long as he doesnt have any strong water specific influences [esp. scorp in my experience] you should be good!
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our conversation is not getting any better dimpz...

he's a scorpio moon.
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lol what do you mean libra?



like i want to be away from someone not permanently stalk me and with your post it made me think im fucking in a dead end



You're tapping into the leeb flair for the dramatic right now. Gotta keep it in perspective and not be afraid of confronting that conversation. Like 911 said, it's his tattoo and he made the decision. You can both at least ask one another if it means anything more than a tattoo, spell out your priorities and take it from there...
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haha shit... thats the thing i dont want to converse with him anymore for now.... maybe a i should do a name change... i like to change my name anyway haha..

maybe ill just for more shifts in work...

tiz if you inked a name in your body im sure yould be thinking of a permanent future with the person right? like i just wish he placed where it can be hidden or something.. i dont care if its near his butthole or something as long as strangers cant easily read it...


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Posted by xdimplez
well damn , how long have you been dating this guy?


maybe.... he knows someone that has the same name...maybe


ive met him since march and he's asked me to have dates before but i was too busy or im not ready to date or whatever lame leeb excuse i have to avoid emotional contact with anyone..

we're friends but weve just started doing the semi serious dating like a month or so i guess..but its like everyday seeing each other becuase of his situation were everyday i was bringing him breakfast and then i go to work then he would visit me at my workplace... like in a week we only have one day of not seeing each other. but this is was beacuse he asked my help and i gave him what he needed ( and more of course hahahaha)
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Posted by tiziani
I think hinting your way around this is the type of thing to turn a man murderous, personally.

If Scorp Moons are anything like Scorp Suns just confront them with their own behaviour.


"You got a tattoo. Where are you going with this?"


Scorpios actually keep things as simple as you allow them to be. They're cool when you confront things head on from my experience.



i just wished he should ask me first before crazy shit like this... i wouldve been ok just receiving a chocalate bar or something... oh well what done is done..

its just i really like this guy but the tattoo killed it for me because im still in the phase of deciding if i should go serious with him or not.

maybe i should put a fake tattoo of a guy's name ....can i borrow your name tiz hahaha.

after this guy im deciding to go date girls...or maybe stick with my dildo.
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Posted by tiziani
LOL tomorrow is a new day. Wake up in the morning and maybe see it in a different light.


I'd be feeling uncomfortable too though, for what it's worth.



thanks tiz.. yeah i wish im having a nightmare.

so ca you guys change the topic now... i need something to read haha..

btw where the hell is my husband?? im guessing he's enjoying the leeb mistress hahaha..

and isnt it crazy that our men in this thread are with leeb women??

im waiting for ee or grey to get laid or date or whatever comes first im curious what sign they would get haha
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Posted by tiziani
Jeez, that's true. Two guys fell to Libra women.


I have nothing to offer conversation wise. I got two windfall payments two days in a row and was even offered to put my name forward for a contract job out of nowhere today. Everything is going in a nice direction and I'm not trying to ruin it like the days of old by analyzing it 🙂

Plus the summer is Leeb season I feel. I know I'll be lazy and hibernate throughout winter then just make up for it round this time right through to the end of the year.



i know its crazy that financially everything is great like i got an unexpected raise this july and i thought i got lucky aslo with my social life until today hahaha.

i know when its sunny my eyes just want to shut down and sleep...

oh god i wonder what would happen when venus would be in leeb ... when the venus is in leeb thats when i get them shitloads of dating prosposal and stuff and ex's would come back.