
rockyroadicecream
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Posted by Libra911Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by Libra911
Ok I also asked my laser removal lady now when I went on the lunch break about vegas LOL ( I am such a nerd) she is also for it, so i guess I was desperately trying to find the reason not to go but unsuccessfuly... I responded to the chick and I am going yay...if something happens to me there I ll blame u all and hunt u all down 🙂
Once you make it out of Vegas, alive, that is 🙂
lol! U devil u 😄click to expand


Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by rockyroadicecream
Random question- why would a guy get dressed right after sex and get back into bed?
I'm thinking insecurity, but really? :/
It's cold?click to expand

Posted by xdimplezPosted by rockyroadicecream
Random question- why would a guy get dressed right after sex and get back into bed?
I'm thinking insecurity, but really? :/
it could be. or he doesnt like how the sheets feel against his naked family jewelsclick to expand




Posted by tiziani
Nyan Cat > Grumpy Cat

Posted by xdimplez
lol only on dxp will you find ratchet cats.
i wonder how girls feels towards getting dressed after sex. yay or nay? and why?
i dont. the next round is bound to happen, might as well make it easy

Posted by aquasnoz
The getting dressed question? I had to backtrack which I rare do 😛
One part insecurity? Maybe he just really likes cuddling with clothes on I'm not too sure.
Posted by xdimplez
lol only on dxp will you find ratchet cats.
i wonder how girls feels towards getting dressed after sex. yay or nay? and why?
i dont. the next round is bound to happen, might as well make it easy
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
To put be dressed after, the entire passionate run of being undressed, defeats all purposes, it feels like one is erecting a wall, to separate, oddly so, this gestures seems rather cold, aloof and distant. Why ruin the atmosphere by getting dressed, there is no point, well, one hardly sees one. Besides a single round is hardly enough, unless something else pressing and urging must be done and life calls.click to expand





Posted by aquasnoz
Yeah I'm with LadyS, I like being naked and cuddling afterwards. In fact I'd probably stay naked for a while until I actually had to get dressed 😛

Posted by aquasnoz
Think it'll be worse the other way around. Imagine just after sex and they tell you to put some clothes on.


Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by aquasnoz
Think it'll be worse the other way around. Imagine just after sex and they tell you to put some clothes on.
Well, it depends upon where one have had sex, if the environment surrounding it demands it would be far sane and safer to dress again, then one would not take offense one supposes but in ones home, in bed, it could easily be misunderstood and taken for an insult, if one is overtly sensitive. That would really depend on the situation.click to expand

Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by aquasnoz
Think it'll be worse the other way around. Imagine just after sex and they tell you to put some clothes on.
Well, it depends upon where one have had sex, if the environment surrounding it demands it would be far sane and safer to dress again, then one would not take offense one supposes but in ones home, in bed, it could easily be misunderstood and taken for an insult, if one is overtly sensitive. That would really depend on the situation.click to expand

Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by aquasnoz
Think it'll be worse the other way around. Imagine just after sex and they tell you to put some clothes on.
Well, it depends upon where one have had sex, if the environment surrounding it demands it would be far sane and safer to dress again, then one would not take offense one supposes but in ones home, in bed, it could easily be misunderstood and taken for an insult, if one is overtly sensitive. That would really depend on the situation.
Yeeah, fortunately, I didn't take too much offense to it. Just something I'd noticed.click to expand

Posted by aquasnozPosted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by aquasnoz
Think it'll be worse the other way around. Imagine just after sex and they tell you to put some clothes on.
Well, it depends upon where one have had sex, if the environment surrounding it demands it would be far sane and safer to dress again, then one would not take offense one supposes but in ones home, in bed, it could easily be misunderstood and taken for an insult, if one is overtly sensitive. That would really depend on the situation.
Well now! What kind of environment would we be talking about? 😛click to expand

Posted by aquasnozPosted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by aquasnoz
Think it'll be worse the other way around. Imagine just after sex and they tell you to put some clothes on.
Well, it depends upon where one have had sex, if the environment surrounding it demands it would be far sane and safer to dress again, then one would not take offense one supposes but in ones home, in bed, it could easily be misunderstood and taken for an insult, if one is overtly sensitive. That would really depend on the situation.
Well now! What kind of environment would we be talking about? 😛click to expand

Posted by feby16aqua
Bedroom sex can become boring. At least to me. I need a lot of switching up and different environments. I've definitely changed over the years.

Posted by brianafay
rocky...do you know if he has virgo mars??
My Libra ALWAYS puts shorts back on...he has virgo mars. He's just a really modest person, doesn't like being naked he feels all exposed he says


Posted by Libra911
Do u people think it is normal not to take a shower right after sex? Do u prefer cuddling for a bit or to jump in the shower first and then come back to bed

Posted by Jahlia
I'm back, that was fun 🙂. The aquarius and I went with her two brothers too, and it was awesome. I loved how interactive it was, one of the characters said that she didn't like me cause I asked too many questions lol. Turns out she was the one who did it, awesome.

Posted by Libra911
Do u people think it is normal not to take a shower right after sex? Do u prefer cuddling for a bit or to jump in the shower first and then come back to bed



Posted by feby16aqua
I have a crab rising and I don't feel well adjusted at all lol.never have been.



Posted by JahliaPosted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by feby16aqua
I have a crab rising and I don't feel well adjusted at all lol.never have been.
Hmm, never noticed Crab Risings to be mad, and there are quite a few here. Well, one is not saying all Crabapple or Leonine placements as wild, but they do and could manifest that way, hence my question and query to my home turf minions here.
(Besides, you seem alright to us here, no overtly sensitive barometers. tiz have a Crab Rising as well, he is well and about, like yourself) 🙂
Have you (or anyone) ever witness a Leonine/Crab rage?
It is terrifying, the harm they could do to their surroundings, and the words they dare utter out of their mouths, mind baffling to the point one wonders, over what slight?
A single misunderstood word?
Yes, that's why I'm so biased towards Cancers. I shouldn't be, but I am. I hate how they fly off the handle, it's absolutely ridiculous. They shriek, grab sharp objects, attempt to attack people, then they start yelling 'Poor me!' when there are consequences. It's absolutely ludicrous how they can go to being perfectly fine one moment and then charge someone the next. For once I'm the one who feels the need to say 'It's not that serious!' Ugh -.-. I don't hate Cancers, I actually like they quite a lot but this trait that I've seen in them(IMPE) angers me to no end.
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Posted by Jahlia
@TSL Cancer and Pisces. The most frightening and explosive displays I've ever seen were from those two signs.





Posted by tizianiPosted by TheLadyScorpio
tiz
It was not about her, but witnessing her behaviour did trigger my reflecting upon my past experiences with Leo/Crab individuals, hence my questions, because apparently it seems, there always is this singular similar trait amongst them, which one cannot get my head around, not to figure out, per se but to find a way to cope with them, besides leaving them out in the cold.
One thinks, there must be a better way, or is walking away the only option (which should only be a last resort)?
Maybe it just boils down to how much faith you have in the other person and the relationship. Whether you consider it worth the time.
Some people... I look at the relationship when they come out of nowhere with some behaviour and you think this is legitimately 6th gear for us. This is us. This is probably all they have to give right now. And all I can do is accept that. Which never really involves walking away for me. It's just acceptance and it's done.
But if I really have faith in something and believe they have more to give or we have more to give, then find the right time, say my piece, communicate.click to expand

Posted by tizianiPosted by TheLadyScorpio
tiz
"The ones that try to be the heros with the messiah complex rushing in to sooth your pain only ever find security in pain."
^^^ What was that in referral to, an opposition to the victimizing complex? Do elaborate.
It's like Nemesis said once:"Don't find your comfort zone in my weaknesses"
Some people can't help themselves, whether through guilty conscience or hero complex... they just want to be there for others when they are down. What's easy to lose grasp of is exactly that... the relationship's focus becomes always about being there when someone is down, no matter what. when you're up they start to question where they stand with you. It's perverse since we all find happiness in sharing, but it's a question of what we agree to share no matter what.
No heroes for me, that's all I'm saying. I prefer more grounded relationships. I realize "more grounded" means different things to different people. And I'll think about what you said about emotional stability in terms of what it means to you.click to expand


Posted by tiziani
I see what you're saying with regards to emotions or picking up on vibrations.
With miscommunication it's not always down to one side or the other's skills. Most miscommunication falls down to perception and what gets lost in translation imo.

Posted by tiziani
My first girlfriend was a Cancer. I don't remind her being too bad with the alcohol. She was perfectly sober when she broke my heart 😉 She had the stereotypical generous chest size too.

Posted by tiziani
Yeah maybe happiness is grey area word to use. But sharing on an levels gives people harmony - scientifically proven according to Harvard and JC Biver 😉
As for emotions, I don't necessarily run so much as just look at the other person thinking:"How much mileage do you think is left in this?" when they get particularly out of control and their emotions rule them. I can be pretty insensitive but it beats losing my mind.

Posted by Libra911
I met one crab last night..the first thing she asked me was if I am a logical person. I said yes and she rolled her eyes lol. Then she told me a very logical libra broke her heart cuz he couldnt deal with her emotional tantrums :/

Posted by everevolvingepithet
That was a JustLibra——? switch, as well you know! 😄

Posted by feby16aquaPosted by TheLadyScorpio
Any scars to bear from any of those rages? Hmm, which sign have you experienced the most frightening of rages, that came at you from the left field?
Gemini. Hands down. I've talked about it before. A relationship that lasted wayyy too long when we should have parted ways long before. Lots of mutual abuse. I have 12th house gemini: did I pay back my karmic debt??click to expand
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More about common sense and not assuming one would be okay with something when you have no idea if they will or not.
Again, no malicious intent, just poor judgement.