What is your opinion? (The Trilogy) (Page 23)

Posted by Libra911
Snozzy - got some cool presents for father's day? 😄

kisses and hugs! Nothing spectacular but it did the job!

So how's the vegas withdrawal going? 😉 haha

I must be aging in reverse! Though I have to admit I've been getting carded quite regularly, haven't had my hair this short for a looooong time 😢

Posted by Jahlia
I'm trying to write a card for my dad and I keep feeling sick because of all the feelings I have to talk about *head desk*.


Ahhh so icky.......if only I could just write a simple 'I love you' @_@ and avoid of all this mushy touching crap.

Give him a big hug and tell him he smells but he's the best dad in the world! Worked on me! DO IT!

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Posted by aquasnoz
I must be aging in reverse! Though I have to admit I've been getting carded quite regularly, haven't had my hair this short for a looooong time 😢

The best compliment I got in a while was when I was asked to show my ID few times in casinos 😄. Nobody else was asked except me yeeeey 🙂

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Too beautiful to be asked I bet 😉

I actually had a fight with my Leeb the other night because she thinks I wasn't being serious! Let's just say I ended that with "I think I'm falling for you"! cleverly steered away from the love word lol.

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Posted by Jahlia
I'm trying to write a card for my dad and I keep feeling sick because of all the feelings I have to talk about *head desk*.


Ahhh so icky.......if only I could just write a simple 'I love you' @_@ and avoid of all this mushy touching crap.

Some times the simplest words are the best ones...

GM

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Just say that, little one.

Sometimes less is more when it comes to matters of the heart.

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Posted by aquasnoz
I must be aging in reverse! Though I have to admit I've been getting carded quite regularly, haven't had my hair this short for a looooong time 😢

Lol, my friends didn't believe that you were almost 30. You should've saw their faces when I told them you had a kid Lmfao.

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Haha...
Noz...TEEN IDOL!

You're like the Aqua Bieber to these young ladies, Noz 😄

@Jahls: Really have to thank my mum for these youthful genes! It's awkward but when she visited a few people mistook us for a couple, totally awkward lol.

@911: haha didn't mean to be unique. If it comes down to it yeah I do love her but I think it's more than that. I guess even I need more time to get to the I love you stage 😛 Because when I say those words I'd belong to her.

Posted by VirgoHero

Haha...
Noz...TEEN IDOL!

You're like the Aqua Bieber to these young ladies, Noz 😄

At least he can get away with charming young girls! haha! My virgo friend like to make a point when teens start flirting at work, "girls he's almost 30 and he has a kid, now move along".

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Posted by VirgoHero

Haha...
Noz...TEEN IDOL!

You're like the Aqua Bieber to these young ladies, Noz 😄

At least he can get away with charming young girls! haha! My virgo friend like to make a point when teens start flirting at work, "girls he's almost 30 and he has a kid, now move along".

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HAHAHHA!

Don't feel too bad. I'm over 30 and they are still quite eager to card me.

GM she means that touch? doesn't mean 'touchy' I think that's what you've mistaken it for 😛 Touche is a term that's like "Oh I see your point!" or maybe like "Oh I didn't think of that, thanks!"

Posted by Jahlia
@PM and Virgohero

I just stated a lot of touching facts-thank god for those.

I'm sure he'll be touched, Jahlia. 😄

hi5 VH! I guess we'll always be the natural charmers! But who can resist a person who's just genuinely good? 😉

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Posted by aquasnoz
@Jahls: Really have to thank my mum for these youthful genes! It's awkward but when she visited a few people mistook us for a couple, totally awkward lol.

@911: haha didn't mean to be unique. If it comes down to it yeah I do love her but I think it's more than that. I guess even I need more time to get to the I love you stage 😛 Because when I say those words I'd belong to her.

I never said I love you first. Omg with one ex I did the imaginable,I said "oo thank you" :/

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LMAO! I did this don't worry! HAHAHA! but god it must've made them feel bad! In my head I was thinking 'really? I don't quite feel it just yet' *hold thought back* "um thanks!"

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Posted by aquasnoz
@Jahls: Really have to thank my mum for these youthful genes! It's awkward but when she visited a few people mistook us for a couple, totally awkward lol.

@911: haha didn't mean to be unique. If it comes down to it yeah I do love her but I think it's more than that. I guess even I need more time to get to the I love you stage 😛 Because when I say those words I'd belong to her.

I never said I love you first. Omg with one ex I did the imaginable,I said "oo thank you" :/

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HAHAHA that moment is nothing short of down right HORRIFYING when your significant other truly says "I love you" and...you're not quiet there yet. Then your heart and mind races to respond, because you kind of have to, and most of us do have the propensity to try to be honest.

I distinctly remember hearing the words and time just slowed down to the point where every second was an eternity. I ALMOST did the "ohh thank you" or "Oh...that's nice of you!".

Ah Leebs, I know your pain.

Posted by aquasnoz
hi5 VH! I guess we'll always be the natural charmers! But who can resist a person who's just genuinely good? 😉

Haha pretty much.

I've always considered myself a decent looking guy but my strength has always just been being confident and charming. You make a girl laugh to her core and everything else falls to the way side.

Posted by Libra911
V - how tall are you?

5'7" 😄

Build wise I'm not tall but have a broad / wide build. Got those nice shoulders girls love to hold on to. I think I still have a couple of pictures floating around dxp somewhere.

Oh yea, hearing those words when you're not ready to return them is like...

Posted by Jahlia
@Virgo hero and Aquanoz My mom got carded a month ago and she's forty-six.

Haha Jahlia, may I ask about your heritage and your parents heritage? I always find it curious who ends up inheriting the "young looking" genes.

Posted by xdimplez

lol when my ex first said those three words to me, i didn't say anything. i just pat him on the back. i didnt know what else to do

^_^ but i did love him, just wasn't so sure at that time

YOU PAT HIM ON THE BACK?!?!?!? HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAA
Dimps, I laughing WITH you, I promise but that's HILARIOUS.

*VH's Internal response at getting pat on the back for saying I love you*:
"Great...I'm a freaking dog now. This sucks"

@911: Yeah I think we're both like that. I don't want to go back to astro talk BUT she's very perceptive we both have pisces moons. I did pull back a bit to evaluate, she gave me the time but I knew she was looking for an answer.

So much for the icky emotions stuff huh? 😛

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Posted by Libra911
V - how tall are you?

5'7" 😄

Build wise I'm not tall but have a broad / wide build. Got those nice shoulders girls love to hold on to. I think I still have a couple of pictures floating around dxp somewhere.

oooh yeah. he's a looker 😉

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You're too kind, Dimps 😄. If its the picture I think you saw, I'm not even smiling in it lol

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Posted by Jahlia
@Virgo hero and Aquanoz My mom got carded a month ago and she's forty-six.

Haha Jahlia, may I ask about your heritage and your parents heritage? I always find it curious who ends up inheriting the "young looking" genes.

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Jahls was genetically modified test tube baby, born to be a genius with an IQ of over 9000!!! But yes I want to know too! I know Asians usually look young but hell no I didn't get it from my dad.

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Posted by Libra911
V - how tall are you?

5'7" 😄

Build wise I'm not tall but have a broad / wide build. Got those nice shoulders girls love to hold on to. I think I still have a couple of pictures floating around dxp somewhere.

I am the same way... just a little taller... but girls have always commented on my shoulders for some reason... I wonder what makes them like it so much... It is not like they are going anywhere... I have met some girls that seem to be in to really thin guys as well...

GM

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I'll tell you EXACTLY why. Strong shoulders help enforce the security thing. Women love holding on to a guys shoulders during sex. Enforces making them feel safe.

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Posted by Libra911
V - how tall are you?

5'7" 😄

Build wise I'm not tall but have a broad / wide build. Got those nice shoulders girls love to hold on to. I think I still have a couple of pictures floating around dxp somewhere.

What's up squirt. lol

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Hahaha!

Leebs / Dimps,

This is how I dodged the "I love you" bullet but it may not work as well with a guy compared to a girl. Its like you said dimps, guys and their validation mechanisms.

-She says "I love you".

-That moment of silence in which I'm supposed to respond seems to last an eternity. Internally I'm giving the Vader "NOoooooooo!!!"

-I couldn't tell you how I came up with this but I playfully blurted out, "Yea? Tell me why? Tell me why you love me?". I COMPLETELY diverted lol.

This got her into expressing her feelings into words and I just kept furthering the discussion so I didn't need to actually response. One can keep a woman talking forever when you ask her to express her feelings. My inner voice saying "WHEW".

Posted by xdimplez

lol i remember how he was for the rest of the day too...trying to get validation. he told his daughters " i love you" ...no response [tough crowd] ....then he told his son "i love you" ...again no response...at that time he was persistent and was like " I SAID I LOVE YOU" ...his son was like " geeze dad i love you too!"

it was funny, cute, and sad at the same time. but i laughed...no lie

Hahha! Guys want their validation. Such is how we are socialized.

Dimps, this brings up an interesting question which you don't have to answer...
How do you feel about actually getting involved with a "pre-made" family?

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Posted by tiziani
I remember you telling that story before dimpz. Although for some reason I remember it as he came out with the words after sex, for some reason. Or I'm confusing it with someone else's story.

i think you may be confused, or i could have been telling a story about a different ex.

i mean yeah...we had sex looonggg before he said those words 😄 , but he didnt say those words until 5 months in to the relationship

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5 months and he's declaring his heart as yours? I'm impressed, Dimps. Queen of Hearts 😄

Mr D's got a point lol. I love wearing jeans and hell I would pay $ 200 for a pair that fits well, looks awesome and lasts! Even the shirts man don't get me started on those. Libra rising activate.

Man tiz my first... the saggie... I wasn't even the one who said it. I crushed on her HARD it was definitely just hormones talking. I think our PDA was borderline public sex anyway. Wasn't romantic it was like a "fuck I love you too" *continues to makeout* 😛 what would a 16 year old know! haha

Tends to make good love songs. Being young and mistaking it for love? lol.

I still remember "NO I LOVE HER! THIS ISNT PUPPY LOVE!" and yeah I guess my mum was right! I know she secretly shakes her head thinking "I told you!"

Posted by tiziani
In my first proper relationship I was the first to say I love you and I think it was 2 weeks into us finally getting busy with one another. We'd known each other and a year and a half prior.


Anyway I said it drunk outside the club on campus while we were rolling in the hay (quite literally). And she said it back.

Months later she admitted she was now saying it really meaning it, whereas at the time she felt she said it just to be kind.


The irony is years later I don't really feel I meant it one single time that I said it, now that I've grown.

Who what have ever thought three little words strung together in a specific sequence could have so much depth and complexity 😄

There's ABSOLUTELY a difference between meaning it from the depth of your core to just saying it to revel in the moment. Hard to tell sometimes.

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Posted by aquasnoz
Mr D's got a point lol. I love wearing jeans and hell I would pay $ 200 for a pair that fits well, looks awesome and lasts! Even the shirts man don't get me started on those. Libra rising activate.

My sports jacket I bought yesterday cost me $ 400. But it retails for much less for smaller sizes. You can get the same quality sports jacket for something like $ 200 if you're a smaller man, or may even find them for $ 150.

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Was it tailored? I find it hard to find well fitted shirts and jackets in general. I think it's the shoulder problem others have brought up. I don't think mine are that wide but in relations to the body things fit funny if they come stock.

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Posted by Jahlia
@Virgo hero and Aquanoz My mom got carded a month ago and she's forty-six.

Haha Jahlia, may I ask about your heritage and your parents heritage? I always find it curious who ends up inheriting the "young looking" genes.

Um, my mother is African American, Native American, and I think Irish. She's mainly African American. My biological father is Jamaican, I don't know much else about his heritage though :/. Guess I'll have to ask him next time he calls.

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PLEASE say you have a little bit of a Jamaican accent 😄

I can't help but hear...

"My name is Jahlia, mon. Irie!

Posted by tiziani
I love you is pretty easy for me to say. It's not a high stakes thing for me. The question is whether I actually like them and enjoy their company.

I think one of the hardest lessons for people is...

It's easy to say "I love you" right after sex, when things are going good, or when you get something from your partner.

Try it saying it when your significant other is going through a bad time or when they are completely being an asshole / bitch.

That's the defining line in meaning those three words.

Posted by xdimplez


at first i was very uneasy about it. the first month we started dating i distanced myself and broke up with him a couple of times using the whole " you know im young and you are such and such age with three kids...i have a whole life to live, lets just be friends" but then as i got to know him more, and the kids more...i fell absolutely in love with him and the kids. i never in my life thought that i would ever be involved with a man who not only had kids but was once married. ever. but all that changed. it got to a point where i found myself seeking friends with people who had kids around their age so we can set up play dates, and looked for events around the area that was kid friendly that we could do outtings to. i started to see my future with them in it. when we broke up , it was uber hard. i caught myself saying " ooh yeah i have daughter who is that age"...and it was ...nooo...noo you dont. 😛 . you get attached. when you break up with them, its hard to severe the ties. its one thing to end it the guy you are in love with, its another thing to end it with his family. soo hard. i still keep in touch with them though. not the father. i teach his daughter piano on tuesdays. we have such a great bond and im trying to guide her to do great things in life with what i can without crossing boundaries

Dimps, that's beautiful. Thank you for sharing that 😄

It's interesting because you never ever imagine getting involved in what I call a "Shake n Bake" significant other yet with the right person in the right circumstances, the person supersedes the situation. I'm glad you came up with a positive after the end of it all.

Posted by Libra911
When I moved to US I was shocked how often people use I love u here. U say bye to a coffee buddy and u tell her Love u, bye LOL. That's when I thought Americans should not have hard time saying I love u to a partner, since they say it even to their neighbor 🙂.. Now I know why, but it was very weird to me in the beginning :/

Ahh but Leebs, how can anyone resist not falling madly in love with you have a little quality one on one time? AWWWWWWW YEEAAAAAAAAA!

Definitely West LMAO. Was on Skype with my friends from Vegas to talk over the trip. Pretty sure they were ALL blind drunk. Answering it a "ERIIIIIKKK SUUUP! love you maaaan!"

response "that's nice"

Posted by aquasnoz
Definitely West LMAO. Was on Skype with my friends from Vegas to talk over the trip. Pretty sure they were ALL blind drunk. Answering it a "ERIIIIIKKK SUUUP! love you maaaan!"

response "that's nice"

Hahaha!

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Posted by tiziani
I say Jahlia with an arabic accent in my head. It's very close to Jala which is a name you come across often out there.

When I tracked down the meaning of my name, it only had Arabic and Hebrew meanings :p. How is it pronounced with an Arabic accent?

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I say it as
JAH-LEE-AH!

Very nice sounding. Rolls off the tongue easily.

Posted by xdimplez
yeah western girls tend to say it excessively

do a favor for them ..response : OMG I LOVE YOU

tell them their hair looks nice..response : OMG I LOVE YOU

tell them they have something in between their teeth... response : OMG I LOVE YOU

its like...ok..i get it. you appreciate it. thanks

SO what happens if you say OMG I LOVE YOU to them? do they say "OMG EWWWW!!"

Posted by xdimplez
yeah western girls tend to say it excessively

do a favor for them ..response : OMG I LOVE YOU

tell them their hair looks nice..response : OMG I LOVE YOU

tell them they have something in between their teeth... response : OMG I LOVE YOU

its like...ok..i get it. you appreciate it. thanks

I...would completely agree with this. We're just loving people out here! We don't have the bitter cold of a proper East Coast winter to lets out negativity stew into a fine edge lol.

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When I moved to US I was shocked how often people use I love u here. U say bye to a coffee buddy and u tell her Love u, bye LOL. That's when I thought Americans should not have hard time saying I love u to a partner, since they say it even to their neighbor 🙂.. Now I know why, but it was very weird to me in the beginning :/

Ahh but Leebs, how can anyone resist not falling madly in love with you have a little quality one on one time? AWWWWWWW YEEAAAAAAAAA!

lol, so according to your theory, there were a lot of lesbians I went out with for coffee 🙂

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Haha Hey, the heart wants what the heart wants 😄 That's a fact of life I never argue.

Plus as a guy, you having that Portuguese accent (which I'm assuming is mistaken for Brazilian), your hotness factor goes up +1000.

Posted by xdimplez
i want to go to cali sooo bad.


any place where the sun is always shining and excitement is around every corner.

Dimps, you seem to get a decent amount of Sun out there ya? All your Facebook pictures show you with that gorgeous tan.

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i want to go to cali sooo bad.


any place where the sun is always shining and excitement is around every corner.

come over, V and I will take u for a drink 🙂

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GOD yes! Relax in Newport looking over the sea, catch the Pageant of the Masters in Laguna in a couple of months, or revel in a little flavor up near LA. The world would be our oyster.

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yeah western girls tend to say it excessively

do a favor for them ..response : OMG I LOVE YOU

tell them their hair looks nice..response : OMG I LOVE YOU

tell them they have something in between their teeth... response : OMG I LOVE YOU

its like...ok..i get it. you appreciate it. thanks

SO what happens if you say OMG I LOVE YOU to them? do they say "OMG EWWWW!!"

you get a pat on the back 😉

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HAHAHAHA OH NO! The deadly dimples pat on the back. You've been friend zoned :/

Posted by Libra911
I will do vocaroo these days 🙂

Leebs, I will blatantly admit I cannot wait to hear your lovely voice 😄

Speaking of Vocaroo's, did you happen to catch LadyScorpion's contribution yesterday?

Lovely version of Diamonds are a Girls best friend

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Posted by Libra911
I will do vocaroo these days 🙂

I'll be in the queue patiently waiting to get to the bottom of this Portuguese mystery!

All we got so far was 9 seconds. Although I remember those 9 seconds fitting very well with your personality.

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What?!?! Leebs already did one?!?!?!

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Audio and voice recording >>


http://vocaroo.com/i/s0QwsoGt😆XU

okay she didn't hide it so here it is. LadyScorpion gracing us with song in the middle of the night.

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Posted by VirgoHero
Speaking of Vocaroo's, did you happen to catch LadyScorpion's contribution yesterday?

Lovely version of Diamonds are a Girls best friend

Yes 🙂 I had a chance to go back few pages. Very lovely voice. A bit younger than I imagined her. I am curious what age category does she fall in?
20-30
30-40
40-50

Anyone? 😄

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Exactly, Leebs. She could practically be 19 with that voice.