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jeane
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I stalk my love interests. #noshame.
Lol why?
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Because I want to know everything about them! Its my way of weighing everything up and assessing them. I don't stalk my partner now. Its transferred from obsessively stalking to just ever so slightly obsessive...lol

But I want to know where they live, where they went to school, previous partners, what those partners are like, family members, what they do in their spare time, who their friends are, etc. I work to fulfil a complete dossier on them.

I should add I my venus is in scorpio too so that doesn't help.
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Posted by jeane
Posted by Diamondnurse
Posted by jeane
I stalk my love interests. #noshame.
Lol why?
Because I want to know everything about them! Its my way of weighing everything up and assessing them. I don't stalk my partner now. Its transferred from obsessively stalking to just ever so slightly obsessive...lol

But I want to know where they live, where they went to school, previous partners, what those partners are like, family members, what they do in their spare time, who their friends are, etc. I work to fulfil a complete dossier on them.

I should add I my venus is in scorpio too so that doesn't help.
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Makes sense but there comes a way that you go about it. Do you ever get caught? My leeb did and i called him out on it.
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Posted by Diamondnurse
Posted by jeane
Posted by Diamondnurse
Posted by jeane
I stalk my love interests. #noshame.
Lol why?
Because I want to know everything about them! Its my way of weighing everything up and assessing them. I don't stalk my partner now. Its transferred from obsessively stalking to just ever so slightly obsessive...lol

But I want to know where they live, where they went to school, previous partners, what those partners are like, family members, what they do in their spare time, who their friends are, etc. I work to fulfil a complete dossier on them.

I should add I my venus is in scorpio too so that doesn't help.
Makes sense but there comes a way that you go about it. Do you ever get caught? My leeb did and i called him out on it.

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Caught? Amateurs... 😉
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A Libra I was seeing admitted to stalking my social media after we stopped dating. She also has her Moon in Aries and Venus in Scorpio, so that may have something to do with it. Scorpios stalk, I say this having been literally stalked by a Scorpio ex in public.

Also know if his Moon is in Aries, that means he has a confusing placement for a Libra. Libras are known to be indecisive and not quick to pass judgment, while Aries are literally the opposite. So what you get is an indecisive Libra who is prone to snap judgments. They tend to instigate more than they can finish, but unlike Aries are still left wondering about the other possibilities.

http://universal-tao-eproducts.com/mp/files/sun-moon_libra-aries.pdf

I think with Libras unless they truly shut the door themselves (they stop interacting with you entirely), you will always remain a "what if" in the back of their minds. I also left the door open for her if she ever chose to re-enter my life and I moved on to date other people. Keeping things pleasant even after a break up makes them think twice, especially if you move on with your own life.

I also have a good Libra friend who broke up with his girlfriend, moved on to someone else, only to regret it and go running back to his ex. The ex didn't complain, she simply moved on and started the path to seeing someone else. Seeing his window of opportunity closing, my friends promptly changed his mind and dumped the second girl to go back to the first. Aside from being indecisive, I still have no clue what his rationale was.
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My leeb moon is aries and def very judgemental & indecisive. He stalked me on social media. I had an aries ex try to have his friend talk to me i think that's what this leeb trying to do. I don't think he come back and i hope not. He remind me so much of my aries ex. Try to be passive aggressive and try to control me. He a manipulator too. My ex the aries try to come back last year but i think i shut that down. I don't want nothing to do with him. He cheated on me got her pregnant then try to come back to me.
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Posted by Chuckcem
A Libra I was seeing admitted to stalking my social media after we stopped dating. She also has her Moon in Aries and Venus in Scorpio, so that may have something to do with it. Scorpios stalk, I say this having been literally stalked by a Scorpio ex in public.

Also know if his Moon is in Aries, that means he has a confusing placement for a Libra. Libras are known to be indecisive and not quick to pass judgment, while Aries are literally the opposite. So what you get is an indecisive Libra who is prone to snap judgments. They tend to instigate more than they can finish, but unlike Aries are still left wondering about the other possibilities.

http://universal-tao-eproducts.com/mp/files/sun-moon_libra-aries.pdf

I think with Libras unless they truly shut the door themselves (they stop interacting with you entirely), you will always remain a "what if" in the back of their minds. I also left the door open for her if she ever chose to re-enter my life and I moved on to date other people. Keeping things pleasant even after a break up makes them think twice, especially if you move on with your own life.

I also have a good Libra friend who broke up with his girlfriend, moved on to someone else, only to regret it and go running back to his ex. The ex didn't complain, she simply moved on and started the path to seeing someone else. Seeing his window of opportunity closing, my friends promptly changed his mind and dumped the second girl to go back to the first. Aside from being indecisive, I still have no clue what his rationale was.



My leeb seen his opportunity with me was over so he ran back to his ex. I'm not hurt by it i just wanted to know his intentions or motive. I rejected him cause i longer wanted to be the only one put forth the effort.
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Gay male libra here. I didn't know it was an astrological thing, but yeah I suppose you could say I have stalked someone, though not in an illegal, creepy way. In one case it was about going to a bar where he worked when I thought he'd likely be on duty. He no longer works there and that's that. Never ever considered finding out about his personal life and that kinda thing.

Currently, there's something similar going on. More like a crush on him; not that I expect to date him, even if he were gay, but an infatuation.