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What to do when a libra man cheats (Page 2)
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My ex's bday was Sept 29 and he couldn't help but be a douchebag. He turned out to be a gigolo selling himself to random women on kijiji. Sept 29 would be a regular, everyday libra.
I don't know, Rocky, but there is a difference between libra/scorp cusp and regular libras. I speak with regards to friendship because I no longer date this sign. Lol. However, I do keep them as friends and I have tons of libra male and libra/scorp cusp. In terms of friendship, I've found that libra/scorps have a backbone which they gt from their scorp side. Also they are on the feisty side. Another difference I've noticed with libra/scorp is they don't have this incessant need to keep ex around, especially if the presence of the ex is causing grief to your current partner.
Posted by oldskoolflavor
ummm .. are you using flattery to break down my walls & get to my frozen heart ?the average libra is a sucker for flattery, but a libra/scorpio only takes self-flattery to heart .. from what I've seen, you don't seem to like amibiguity and occasional drama, which is sthg my species seems to thrive off .. at least the ones on the libra side
Damn! Shouldn't have gotten you to read that book!! Now you know all the tricks of the trade! I don't like mind games/ambiguity/drama/indecisiveness and that is why I keep em as friends 😄 Problem solved! They fare better as friends than lovers in my case. Most of my libra guys' gfs agree with me on that their bfs are better friends to their friends than partner to them.
Posted by aquarius09
My ex's bday was Sept 29 and he couldn't help but be a douchebag. He turned out to be a gigolo selling himself to random women on kijiji. Sept 29 would be a regular, everyday libra.I don't know, Rocky, but there is a difference between libra/scorp cusp and regular libras. I speak with regards to friendship because I no longer date this sign. Lol. However, I do keep them as friends and I have tons of libra male and libra/scorp cusp. In terms of friendship, I've found that libra/scorps have a backbone which they gt from their scorp side. Also they are on the feisty side. Another difference I've noticed with libra/scorp is they don't have this incessant need to keep ex around, especially if the presence of the ex is causing grief to your current partner.
In the friend department, both seem equally as flaky and do shit for self serving reasons. *shrugs*
I'd believe the backbone bit though. My ex had the balls to state what he wanted from the beginning and sat me down and talked to me when he wanted to end it.
This one has never really bothered bringing up what he wants, seems shyer, and though his actions have shown me he's not that into me, he still contacts me on a semi consistent basis. No idea why, but he does. :/ (lack of backbone)
Posted by aquarius09
My ex's bday was Sept 29 and he couldn't help but be a douchebag. He turned out to be a gigolo selling himself to random women on kijiji. Sept 29 would be a regular, everyday libra.I don't know, Rocky, but there is a difference between libra/scorp cusp and regular libras. I speak with regards to friendship because I no longer date this sign. Lol. However, I do keep them as friends and I have tons of libra male and libra/scorp cusp. In terms of friendship, I've found that libra/scorps have a backbone which they gt from their scorp side. Also they are on the feisty side. Another difference I've noticed with libra/scorp is they don't have this incessant need to keep ex around, especially if the presence of the ex is causing grief to your current partner.
In the friend department, both seem equally as flaky and do shit for self serving reasons. *shrugs*
I'd believe the backbone bit though. My ex had the balls to state what he wanted from the beginning and sat me down and talked to me when he wanted to end it.
This one has never really bothered bringing up what he wants, seems shyer, and though his actions have shown me he's not that into me, he still contacts me on a semi consistent basis. No idea why, but he does. :/ (lack of backbone)
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The current one is a sounding like a loser already. Why is he still around?
I've had romantic bad experience w/ 2 leeb losers, and I've had it. Since I'm attracted to this sign, unfortunately, I now evaluate at the very beginning if it's an evolved libra I'm dealing with or unevolved. Evolved or not, a libra doesn't have a backbone unless there is a tinge of scorp or a sharp sign coming in.
I have no idea. Like I said, he's the one that contacts me on a semi consistent basis.
On those semi consistent basis you need to tell him to go fuck himself. Pardon my French. But I think every male who tries the back burner trick (keeping a woman on the back burner while he finds another woman) deserves a hard cold slap on their face.
everevolvingepithet I did do right by him, he cheated on me I never said he couldn't look at other women but its a difference when u look at them and sleep with them.@Tiz I always know what I want and the kind of man I want he is the one confused and want to play games, I haven't blamed any other woman in his life ever one has a past. And as far as letting him run around on me He is a grown man I can't stop him from begin a "man whore" But all im saying is don't hold on to me and u want another woman, He got to let me go and Libras want their cake and eat it to.
Well my Libra was for a minute, then he decided to be with me as far as I know
Posted by angiedbc457
But all im saying is don't hold on to me and u want another woman, He got to let me go and Libras want their cake and eat it to.
Uh...
Posted by angiedbc457
I kept him around until I find a replacement for him. I want some company so that's why he is here.click to expand
Are you mentally slow, or do you not see your own hypocrisy here?
And your point is, Im grown I do what I want to do that's your opinion
Posted by angiedbc457
And your point is, Im grown I do what I want to do that's your opinion
And you're a dumb bitch. That's mostly fact and less opinion. You deserve the treatment you get. Karma's gonna get you!
I am a Libra woman that spent 10 years with a Libra man that cheated, lied and manipulated. They alway are looking for something they can't have. They are never happy with just one woman! Sorry, but true. And they are self centered lovers. It's all about them.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Yeh, looking and touching are different things lol, although Libras aren't usually the cakey eaty type.
Where have you been? Libra men are soo the cake eaty type. It is all over this libra board. Your forum stinks of douchebaggery. You should stop defending libra men and come be an Aquarius 🙂 lol
Posted by angiedbc457
And your point is, Im grown I do what I want to do that's your opinion
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Yes, your man is a cake eating douchebag. And you are a weak, desperate woman who allows him to walk over you. If he's such a cheater, why are you with him? Why are you allowing his bad behaviour? You are well aware of his repeated infidelity and you allow it, and which point it's not really cheating because you have accepted him for what he is. The mere fact that he comes to you shows that you allow it. So what is the meanin of this post? You' want him to change himself for you and become one woman man? Well, wouldn't that be nice? Wake up! This is life! It's not perfect. Get the hint and leave him. You are oppressing yourself by being with such as guy. Each day you spend wit him, you lose self-respect for yourself because he certainly doesn't respect you. No love lost on his end.
Just grieve his loss one time! It's better than grieving over him everyday. Bite the bullet.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Ooohh, no you ditn't!
Even in those moments when one may perceive us to be cakey-eaty, we, without a doubt would be happy to share that very same cake! Hmmm, Aquas are kinda like honorary Libras anyways, maybe not vibrating on that same upper octave up there in amongst the spheres but I can dig that, undercover Aqua, yeh why not? 🙂
Oh yea!!! (Macho man Randy savage style ) Share that cake? So you will have a cake eating orgy with other libros. Lol. Doesn't make libras anymore respectable. Please don't insult us aqua by associating us with libras. Lol. We are honorable without libra attached. If you have never done the crap libra men are repeatedly accused of, then kudos to you! You definitely are an undercover aqua. However, I see you defending bad libra behavior, although it is very loyal of you, it makes one wonder if you did them at some point? Fess up 😉 lol
Epi, I can't believe you are defending libra men after the countless posters on here about them stringing people along or cheating on them. I've never seen so many posts on the exact same subject in any other forum. Don't make me go and start bumping all these similar posts.
Posted by angiedbc457
And your point is, Im grown I do what I want to do that's your opinionK
Yes, your man is a cake eating douchebag. And you are a weak, desperate woman who allows him to walk over you. If he's such a cheater, why are you with him? Why are you allowing his bad behaviour? You are well aware of his repeated infidelity and you allow it, and which point it's not really cheating because you have accepted him for what he is. The mere fact that he comes to you shows that you allow it. So what is the meanin of this post? You' want him to change himself for you and become one woman man? Well, wouldn't that be nice? Wake up! This is life! It's not perfect. Get the hint and leave him. You are oppressing yourself by being with such as guy. Each day you spend wit him, you lose self-respect for yourself because he certainly doesn't respect you. No love lost on his end.Just grieve his loss one time! It's better than grieving over him everyday. Bite the bullet.
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She's admitted to just keeping him around so she's not lonely. She's using him as much as he's using her.
Posted by angiedbc457
And your point is, Im grown I do what I want to do that's your opinionK
Yes, your man is a cake eating douchebag. And you are a weak, desperate woman who allows him to walk over you. If he's such a cheater, why are you with him? Why are you allowing his bad behaviour? You are well aware of his repeated infidelity and you allow it, and which point it's not really cheating because you have accepted him for what he is. The mere fact that he comes to you shows that you allow it. So what is the meanin of this post? You' want him to change himself for you and become one woman man? Well, wouldn't that be nice? Wake up! This is life! It's not perfect. Get the hint and leave him. You are oppressing yourself by being with such as guy. Each day you spend wit him, you lose self-respect for yourself because he certainly doesn't respect you. No love lost on his end.Just grieve his loss one time! It's better than grieving over him everyday. Bite the bullet.
She's admitted to just keeping him around so she's not lonely. She's using him as much as he's using her.
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Her reason could be whatever, but she's oppressing herself, not to mention ruining her psyche, by allowing his bad behaviour. As for keeping him around to alleviate her loneliness, that's another way of saying I'm desperate and weak.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Ooohh, no you ditn't!
Even in those moments when one may perceive us to be cakey-eaty, we, without a doubt would be happy to share that very same cake! Hmmm, Aquas are kinda like honorary Libras anyways, maybe not vibrating on that same upper octave up there in amongst the spheres but I can dig that, undercover Aqua, yeh why not? 🙂Oh yea!!! (Macho man Randy savage style ) Share that cake? So you will have a cake eating orgy with other libros. Lol. Doesn't make libras anymore respectable. Please don't insult us aqua by associating us with libras. Lol. We are honorable without libra attached. If you have never done the crap libra men are repeatedly accused of, then kudos to you! You definitely are an undercover aqua. However, I see you defending bad libra behavior, although it is very loyal of you, it makes one wonder if you did them at some point? Fess up 😉 lol
That's the spirit! 🙂
Hmm, well I think it's only fair to share with fellow cuspers, 23rd day only though! Weeellll, that may bring things back around to yet another story that could possibly, in part, at least allude to some of the less than salubrious traits of the aforementioned sign.🙂 I can only speak for myself in regards to Libran behaviour and watch over my fellow members of the sign lest they descend into the more crappier actions.🙂 Lol@ honorable, in what way? 🙂click to expand
Hilarious! I love your response! I wanna hear your stories, grandpa! Never have I been this interested to hear stories. Maybe that would give me something to compare and contrast libra men with. I think I told you your chart is almost the same as my ex :s I really wanna believe that you never did half of the bad qualities attributed to libra men. You watching over leebs doesn't do anything unfortunately. They've already crawled into the gutter and then some. Lol. As for aqua being honorable, we are straight shooters. Tell things as they are and we don't care to hurt feelings. Cheating is not something you will find aqua men doing predominantly. We have aqua oddball men who do it, but aqua isn't notorious for cheating. We are known for disappearing for a while and coming back. I'm guilty of that too
However, I let the other party know I'm disappearing for ... days and assure them that I'm not gallivanting during this time. If you come on our board, you will see women seeking advice on deciphering aqua weird behaviour, but nothing like cheating, stringing, and overall cake eating behaviour. I'd never thought I see a libra confess up to how his mind works and recent a libra male dxp user has. Unreal! Go read his post! That is how libra men are, at least the ones dxp women come across.
rockyroadicecream Yep I sure do deserve what I get and that Libra bitch do to, aquarius09 What makes u think I am with him, when I made that last post we went out separate ways. And that doesn't mean that I disrespect my self or low self esteem because I want to make a relationship work out. Everyone makes mistakes, yep I do except people for what they are, its called forgiveness something people these days don't know anything about or have a heart to do.
And yes we are using each other for whatever we want to use each other for. That's what Libras do they use each other, so I play games just like he do, So Let the games begin. Yep I keep him around and use him for my own will. That's because he don't want to leave me alone. So since he want to stay and be tortured so be it.
@cunninglinguist its all fun and games, See im a Gemini and I love games to, I can be a bitch when I want to be. Its not that im weak or oppressing myself. Its a game, and its fun to me at this time. All my feelings are gone, its not there anymore. Its payback time now. Im playing with my other twin now. The bitchy one.
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I loled about her comment about the cuspers. My ex is far from what she described.
The current Lib I was seeing was the opposite end- Sept 29th. SAME BULLSHIT. May have not moved as fast as the ex did in typical Libran fashion, but he's pulling a lot of the usual Libran bs you hear about.