Why are libra men so confusing? (Page 2)

I'm sorry to say but this guy is playing you and as long as you keep feeding his ego and leaving presents on his porch he'll keep you around.
Back off completely, if his interest is genuine believe me he'll get in touch.

I told him that I'm done and I consider him like a litle brother. I also said that we are toxic for one another. I thought Gemini's were a match for a Libra, but that is untrue in my book.

I don't get how anyone is confused by a Libra male, if they want to be with you, they will. If they are tired of fighting they will leave, if they want to work it out but haven't decided, then you will not get much action from them. They are pretty easy to understand. They spend time with the ones they want to be with, unless, there is a lot of history and they are trying to weigh it all out.

Do you feel loved? What is he really doing that makes you feel and believe he loves you? Action is what makes his words real...

Posted by WateryGem
I don't get how anyone is confused by a Libra male, if they want to be with you, they will. If they are tired of fighting they will leave, if they want to work it out but haven't decided, then you will not get much action from them. They are pretty easy to understand. They spend time with the ones they want to be with, unless, there is a lot of history and they are trying to weigh it all out.

Do you feel loved? What is he really doing that makes you feel and believe he loves you? Action is what makes his words real...

Most of the time, the women who come here and are "so confused" is because they're ignoring the obvious, or are newbs to the Libran "psyche," if you will. I know when I first delved into this stuff with an ex, I just couldn't understand what the hell was up with this guy. How could someone be so into me and then flip a bitch and NOT be into me? How can they be so friendly and sociable all while not really liking you? The stupid ones also have a tendency of saying a lot of shit but then not following through.

It's understandable when they're just learning. However, a lot of it is really basic "male behavior in dating" and a lot of women just don't use common sense. Their vajayjays are doing all the deciding and no common sense is used. Women also have a tendency to feel as if they are to blame or did something wrong and this is why he's acting a fool. This is something society hammers into women's heads- "you're not good enough or if you don't do x,y,z then you'll lose his interest!" Also, make note of all the numerous articles (mostly women's mags) where you can "catch and keep" a guy, or "how to 'get' a guy."

You don't see that nonsense in men's mags or articles. Most are usually about sex, cars, and personal appearance.

That said, it's hard to get women to get their heads out of their ass and see common sense when reality is constantly skewed all around them by outside influences. A lot of women need to keep it simple- if he's into you, you'll KNOW. There is no ifs about it because it will be obvious. Save for a few exceptions, when you are "confused" or not sure where you stand with a guy, he is not that into you. Move along and use your valuable time for a guy that's quite capable of making it known when he likes you.

Ya my libra mom is flakey too and I know done libra males who are too but I do know that Libras put who they like before anyone so I can't see him backing out if he really likes you. My bf when we first met was straightforward, no games and would do anything to hangout if I wanted to. Reevaluate him and your interactions, is there something you're missing? Maybe he isn't that into the idea of you guys dating

He doesn't want to take responsibility for is action. He would like you to organize everything and then jump in the end of it, and make a good actor while the lights are on 🙂