idknotsure
@helpmepls
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Posted by TheLibraMudrawow hahaha, do you still have feelings for him even though you're engaged?
I see where you're coming from. I did this with an aqua. Like off and on for many years. We were never really into making things work at the same time.
He was super into it and around for a while but I could care less
No talking for a few months
I really liked him and wanted to make it work but he could care less
No talking
He comes back, I have a bf for 4-5 years.
No talking
He comes back we hang out tons. Joined together at the hip for like a year. He takes me out tons, insists on paying for everything, buys me all this stuff to keep at his house, talks about me moving in, happy days. After months I ask "so, what are we?" Then boom. Push away. He can be kind of a dick every once in a while and I just stopped talking to him. He told our friends we broke up and spoke of me like his ex? Wtf? Lol
No talking for almost 2 years
Comes back. Finds out I'm engaged. Congratulates me but tells me his heart is broken.
What am I supposed to do? Wait for your floaty ass to come around when you feel like it all my life? Just ——

Posted by TheLibraMudrawow @LibraMudra - I am sorry and we should all take this stuff seriously and stop wasting our lives on a "floaty" as you so aptly named it - after all that time and BS of his mind you - it was still about him and what he wanted - I didn't know Aqua's were like that - of course my Dad is an Aqua and it is all about him for the most part ... no it's not worth it ...Posted by helpmeplsI felt nothing while telling him I'm engaged. Then his response was "Wow, seriously? I thought that wasn't for you. Creeped your FB. You're glowing! He seems like he really makes you happy. The smiles you deserve. This is kind of hard to take in. I'm going for now. Maybe we can have 1 more dinner or lunch to catch up sometime?"Posted by TheLibraMudrawow hahaha, do you still have feelings for him even though you're engaged?
I see where you're coming from. I did this with an aqua. Like off and on for many years. We were never really into making things work at the same time.
He was super into it and around for a while but I could care less
No talking for a few months
I really liked him and wanted to make it work but he could care less
No talking
He comes back, I have a bf for 4-5 years.
No talking
He comes back we hang out tons. Joined together at the hip for like a year. He takes me out tons, insists on paying for everything, buys me all this stuff to keep at his house, talks about me moving in, happy days. After months I ask "so, what are we?" Then boom. Push away. He can be kind of a dick every once in a while and I just stopped talking to him. He told our friends we broke up and spoke of me like his ex? Wtf? Lol
No talking for almost 2 years
Comes back. Finds out I'm engaged. Congratulates me but tells me his heart is broken.
What am I supposed to do? Wait for your floaty ass to come around when you feel like it all my life? Just ——
have you told him how you felt and how you feel about the whole disappearing thing?
Then I felt... Weird...
We are both weird with talking about things. Libra aqua moon and Aqua cap moon. Forget about it. That situation will never make me happy no matter how much I might miss his sense of humor and sense of adventure for freedom.
Not worth it.click to expand
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we've been flirting/interested in each other for about 2 years, but i dont think either of us talk about a relationship because we know we are too busy at the moment with travelling etc
during these 2 years hes done the typical disappearing act, sometimes a couple days to a few months, but i tried to do the whole 'act like i dont care, be kind and understanding' thing, and he always came back but he never mentioned other girls whenever i hinted it.
i do believe i have some deep attachment to him that ive never felt with anyone, even during the times i thought he left for good, its always been there.
about 2 months ago he told me he got laid by some girl (which would be his first time since he never got with a girl before) and he told me so casually as if we were just friends, i think he was trying to see some reaction out of me, i responded very coldy like 'thats nice' (usually im really talkative so it should've been a red flag to him) and he told me he decided he prefers something more intimate and he wasn't into it and that it was a casual hookup, then asked me what ive been up to but i left him on read and i haven't responded in 2 months which is the longest ive done, but he never tried to contact me after that asking if i was ok
i know he can do what he wants since we're not committed but internally i've forgiven him but i feel like i shouldn't and that he should know what he did hurt me but its so long ago and i dont want to make a big deal for nothing, i just miss him but i dont want to be all emotional and needy, you know?
like i dont know if i should just talk to him casually and see if he brings it up or just leave it in the past since we're not committed. i know emotional/clingy stuff scares away aquas and i dont know (even though he acts like it) if he genuinely likes me the way i like him
sorry that this sounds super high school, but please try to see where im coming from