Why do you guys

Come on strong then disappear thennnnnn when I'm finally getting over you and forgetting about u just pop back into my life—wtf leebs you guys are the hardest to understand for me ... Can I just get a simple fucking answer

Yes he's a immature libra and he's not ready to take you on , move forward and don't look back . Coming from a libra that used to be afraid to take the next step.

Yeah I had to nip that crap in the bud. I'm now the cold girl in the circle but I refuse to let that drag on.

But what are they thinking —is it the history and comfortability they have that makes them go back to the same person vs someone new? I've had this happen w 2 leebs no other sign . One started in highschool would go back and forth with me and another girl but no matter what would always come back to me I just eventually got over him and even today he will randomly pop up in my life trying to rekindle things and this started about 10 years ago . This other libra we were casually dating sooo into each other but we were having fun so I didn't care about getting too serious then he randomly disappears and pops up .our chemistry is very intense and he acts very into me then I find out he has a pretty long term girlfriend but they fight and break up A LOT and every break up im the rebound he goes running to . He's even used me to throw in her face .sucks because besides that he's like my dream guy haha. I haven't talked to him in almost a month and there he goes texting me all day asking if he can visit me and take me out meanwhile he just posted pictures with his girlfriend over the weekend ./:

Posted by BetaBanana
But what are they thinking —is it the history and comfortability they have that makes them go back to the same person vs someone new? I've had this happen w 2 leebs no other sign . One started in highschool would go back and forth with me and another girl but no matter what would always come back to me I just eventually got over him and even today he will randomly pop up in my life trying to rekindle things and this started about 10 years ago . This other libra we were casually dating sooo into each other but we were having fun so I didn't care about getting too serious then he randomly disappears and pops up .our chemistry is very intense and he acts very into me then I find out he has a pretty long term girlfriend but they fight and break up A LOT and every break up im the rebound he goes running to . He's even used me to throw in her face .sucks because besides that he's like my dream guy haha. I haven't talked to him in almost a month and there he goes texting me all day asking if he can visit me and take me out meanwhile he just posted pictures with his girlfriend over the weekend ./:

Ok first off he's still with his girlfriend and you allow him to be with you ? You jus open the door for this playboy to screw your life over . Let this guy go it don't make any sense for you to be the third wheel.

They don't care but when they feel you slip away they become interested. They don't want you but don't want you to leave either. It's simple.

Posted by libralotus
They don't care but when they feel you slip away they become interested. They don't want you but don't want you to leave either. It's simple.

Spoken like a true Libra.

Posted by libralotus
They don't care but when they feel you slip away they become interested. They don't want you but don't want you to leave either. It's simple.

Thank youuuuu

Posted by Dizzy1014

Posted by BetaBanana
But what are they thinking —is it the history and comfortability they have that makes them go back to the same person vs someone new? I've had this happen w 2 leebs no other sign . One started in highschool would go back and forth with me and another girl but no matter what would always come back to me I just eventually got over him and even today he will randomly pop up in my life trying to rekindle things and this started about 10 years ago . This other libra we were casually dating sooo into each other but we were having fun so I didn't care about getting too serious then he randomly disappears and pops up .our chemistry is very intense and he acts very into me then I find out he has a pretty long term girlfriend but they fight and break up A LOT and every break up im the rebound he goes running to . He's even used me to throw in her face .sucks because besides that he's like my dream guy haha. I haven't talked to him in almost a month and there he goes texting me all day asking if he can visit me and take me out meanwhile he just posted pictures with his girlfriend over the weekend ./:

Ok first off he's still with his girlfriend and you allow him to be with you ? You jus open the door for this playboy to screw your life over . Let this guy go it don't make any sense for you to be the third wheel.

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No no were not together or seeing eachother. I didn't find out about the on and off girlfriend for a while then when I did they were broken up so I didn't care I was just having fun . Last time I was with him we went out to a neighborhood bar and she showed up they were not together (again) I'm not sure if he brought me there on purpose but that's what it felt like unless he just didn't care that she might show up. After that he asked me out a few times but I was too busy and moved to another state. Week goes by and on fb they were back together he texted me a few times then i just stopped replying . Yesterday after a month of not talking randomly asks me out . I'm not trying to be in a relationship w him I realize how shady this shit w the other girlfriend is im just trying to understand libras in this sense because of the 2 I've dealt with acted the same way .

Posted by Dizzy1014
Yes he's a immature libra and he's not ready to take you on , move forward and don't look back . Coming from a libra that used to be afraid to take the next step.

so how did you get over your commitment phobia or are you still that way ?

Posted by BetaBanana

Posted by Dizzy1014

Posted by BetaBanana
But what are they thinking —is it the history and comfortability they have that makes them go back to the same person vs someone new? I've had this happen w 2 leebs no other sign . One started in highschool would go back and forth with me and another girl but no matter what would always come back to me I just eventually got over him and even today he will randomly pop up in my life trying to rekindle things and this started about 10 years ago . This other libra we were casually dating sooo into each other but we were having fun so I didn't care about getting too serious then he randomly disappears and pops up .our chemistry is very intense and he acts very into me then I find out he has a pretty long term girlfriend but they fight and break up A LOT and every break up im the rebound he goes running to . He's even used me to throw in her face .sucks because besides that he's like my dream guy haha. I haven't talked to him in almost a month and there he goes texting me all day asking if he can visit me and take me out meanwhile he just posted pictures with his girlfriend over the weekend ./:

Ok first off he's still with his girlfriend and you allow him to be with you ? You jus open the door for this playboy to screw your life over . Let this guy go it don't make any sense for you to be the third wheel.

No no were not together or seeing eachother. I didn't find out about the on and off girlfriend for a while then when I did they were broken up so I didn't care I was just having fun . Last time I was with him we went out to a neighborhood bar and she showed up they were not together (again) I'm not sure if he brought me there on purpose but that's what it felt like unless he just didn't care that she might show up. After that he asked me out a few times but I was too busy and moved to another state. Week goes by and on fb they were back together he texted me a few times then i just stopped replying . Yesterday after a month of not talking randomly asks me out . I'm not trying to be in a relationship w him I realize how shady this butter w the other girlfriend is im just trying to understand libras in this sense because of the 2 I've dealt with acted the same way .

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You know libra do think a lot I'm sure he know she be there that's why he took you there... just be careful it's not worth getting hurt over someone who is playing with you . He jus using you to get his gf back..

Posted by tcta

Posted by Dizzy1014
Yes he's a immature libra and he's not ready to take you on , move forward and don't look back . Coming from a libra that used to be afraid to take the next step.

so how did you get over your commitment phobia or are you still that way ?

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I'm in a relationship with my Cancer , once you find what you looking for you will know , before her I was on and off for 8 years with my Gemini ex and something about her I can't commit between them years I dates other woman and she dated other guys , I'm not putting any blame on her but she one of the reason I can't commit to others till my Cancer girl come along she change the whole game up lol that's when I know this is it , my Gemini ex text me and I tell her we need to stop doing this to each other we waste so many years trying to correct one another , we finally cut the line. All it take is one special woman make you feel complete ðŸ‘ðŸ¼