why does libra keep coming back? (Page 2)

He knows that he could never satisfy me. He even said it himself...I know that statement won't do me any good, but being me... I like to have the last word.

and that will probably make him want to come back (in time) even more so...LOL

ugh, son of a gun...!

Well, so far so good. I'm learning to keep him out of my mind esp when I'm out. I do feel down sometimes, but it's not as bad as before.

Heart broken - Please help. I'm a leo and have been dating a Libra for a 1yr 6months. He as two young children and I have two older children. He seemed to have moved real fast when I met him. I thought it was odd, but went along with his plans of moving in together. He ended up purchasing a house for us. I didn't put my name on it, and ever since then he has felt my mind has not been in the relationship. I have had anger outburst with him, and he has ignored me for a month and decided that too many things have been said and it wont work. He is already having feelings of finding a new girl. What is up with this?? Im so confused on how a person can just give up so easy. I feel Libra's don't know how to forgive.

Leo123 Im a Leo too and Libras do forgive just as we forgive others.

A Month? that is nothing, he'll be back in time, just give him his space that he needs and if he's after another woman? there's nothing you can do about that....that should give you enough motivation to walk away yourself.

Mine was distant for 8 months, then came back all coy but we worked things out....its just that Ive let him go now.....I love him but he cant give me what I want and deserve.....he'll be back too LOL

Why didnt you put your name on the house? Sounds like he was a keeper at that point anyway?

I was scared to put my name on the house. When I started dating him, I was getting out of a not so good relationship with a Pisces. My Pisces friend and I remained friends w/benefits for about 5 years. I decided to move on because I knew it would never be with him. I feel I ruined the relationship with my Libra lover(libra's are pretty good lovers :o) with my actions and feel somewhat ashamed. As I looke back, I think I stressed myself out and blamed him. But, I also feel if this person loved me like they said they did, things could be worked on. I'm so mad because I don't tell people ?I love? them unless I really do.

Its not healthy to live with regrets though....you need to find some peace with what has happened. And above all, you need to FORGIVE YOURSELF!!! We all make mistakes

But yeah OMG arent they great lovers? sheesh!!!!! Stop it, I dont want to remember LOL.

weird. my libra was not a great lover, but it didn't matter to me.

lol moon eyes!!!

or that msg might not be for me ...I dunno.

ya..i know he's hurt right now, but will get over it in a week or so

you're def right about hurting his ego, not really his feelings.

yah i have stopped talking to him. I'm invisible online...I see him, but he doesn't see me. I should really stop that too, checking his away msg and such.

((yah i have stopped talking to him. I'm invisible online...I see him, but he doesn't see me. I should really stop that too, checking his away msg and such. ))

Yes, you should it will only hurt you more then him.I have been down this road.

People keep talking about Libra being back....popup when you least expect it.
I for one am not looking forward to him popping up in my life again.... but he called 15 minutes ago.

Was bar hopping with my friends.I run into him friday night.He came over to greet us. Had one drink then we left. He called a few times but I didn't pick up my phone.

Now, he calls and wants to drop off things I left behind at his place...I told him I really have nothing to say to him . And he should throw the stuff in the trash.

Is he physcotic or what...This is like the bold and the beautiful really there is always something.

OK ,anyway have to run

We are still living together. I am moving the middle of Septmeber and he has already done the "non talking thing" with me for a month now. I find it so strange and confusing! I asked if we could be friends, and he said "yes", but he totally keeps his distance. I feel like he hates me..like i've done something so bad to him. I finally just stopped talking to him too, to keep the peace (it's so hard). I feel confident enought where I know another man will come along; however, my libra man is driving me Crazy with the way he is acting! I think that is why I still want him. I don't think I'll ever figure this particular relationship out...it is so strange.

Leo123, I think whats confusing you is that he just turned cold on you so quickly.And being a leo we just don't get how someone can loved you so much one minute and the next minute not give you the time or day.

almost 9 months later I still don't know what happend. We lived together at his place.I was working late in the study.And he didn't want to go to bed without me.I put him to bed. worked until midnight went to bed. He woke me up at 03:00 to make love. 07:00 I kissed him goodbye for work. 10:00 He calls me and tells me that he has been thinking and he doesn't want to be with me anymore. No, explanation nothing. He just didn't want me and I had to get over it.

And him comming over didn't help, because I was thinking. He must love and care about me if he comes to me when things in his life is falling apart.

I am just sharing with with you. I am no Libra expert. But I know how much it hurts to play the " He loves me. He loves me not games with Libra".
You are the only one that will get hurt. comfort yourself that even this will pass.Hurt as happiness does not last forever.

Just got this mail.

There comes a point in your life when you realize:

who matters,
who never did,
who won't anymore...
and who always will.
So, don't worry about people from your past,
there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future.

Maybe your libra was playing on timing. Also, this sign is very detached and not highly expressive. Need alot of time to themselves especially when emotions are concerned, to figure themselves out. Libra may dislike feeling like theyre losing their sense of self, especially when they get too close and much more of their emotions is demanded. Libra doesnt take too well to demands or expectations. You must make them feel that things are on their terms, or else they will pull away, to wait for the next chance to meet halfway.

I won't tell you to forget him, but if you want them back, you gotta lead your own life and be independent - clinginess especially doesnt work well with libra

I just want to say ?thank you? for all your support. I'm glad I found this site. I have been feeling so down about all of this, but feel better that I'm understood. He did come to me on occasion and I thought we were working things out, but he told me that ?he's a guy and that is what guys do??he said he thought he was leading me on. (Ya?go figure!). I was a little clingy there for awhile, but noticed that it was pushing him even further away. I think I have finally let go of him, but I do hate the thought that he wants to move on and be with other girls so quickly. (what an a..hole!)

Ok, one last thing. I was reading above and saw that Bella79 said she was in the hospital cuz of her Libra. Omg, I stayed home for a week from work stressed out. I thought I was going crazy. I normally have confidence and can say ?whatever? and move on. I just find it odd that others have the same situation with Libra's.

((Ok, one last thing. I was reading above and saw that Bella79 said she was in the hospital cuz of her Libra. Omg, I stayed home for a week from work stressed out. I thought I was going crazy. I normally have confidence and can say ?whatever? and move on. I just find it odd that others have the same situation with Libra's. ))

Yes, I did...had a nervous breakdown.But like I said I did this to myself.I reacted very badly to him not wanting me

Funny, thing...ex-Libra just called.He informed me that my Exx- Pisces is getting married. Of course I know Pisces' mom called me yesterday and invited me. WHy would he do that it's not like they are friends.

Ugh. I've been crying every night, but I'm ok during the day. I know he's hurt about what I said, but I'm not going to apologize

((...he does want something though.))

Yip, he wanted something.He wanted to screw someone over and he knows that I have a close relationship with this person. So he wanted some dirt.

Ag, any how. I just can't believe that this is the person I care about.

I met someone new 🙂

Yah I met him 2 to 3 weeks ago and finally we made plans to hang out. We were chatting away at a bar and diner until 6 am...

Maybe this whole thing happened for a reason. Bye bye libra! lol

I once said, "libra will come back even if u run him over with a truck" ..and he sure did! He msg'd me last night online, but I just signed off. I'm happily coupled now 😄

Good for you capris...THATS when they seem to want you back the most but unfortunately if you have a Libra who is a player? all they want you back for is to make sure they took you from somebody but dont really want you - til next time.......most of the time though, they dont think they're playing games

BUT I have to say that is not just a Libra who is a player, thats any man who thinks down those lines.

He'll most likely try again too!!

do libra man ever fall in love and remain dedicated and loyal to their women?

are there any "normal" libra men? i just found out that the libra man who took my on a long rollercoaster ride for 4.5 yrs finally settled down. he is nearing 50. he was much older than i was when i met him and in between wives. he is married for a third time. i almost became wife # 3 until i jumped off that crazy ride. anyway, he is about to have this second child in this marriage and he is finally a one woman man. i hope for her sake this sticks. now i am in love with another libra and i feel a foreboding.

capris, are you back with your libra man or with the new guy?

((i hope for her sake this sticks. now I am in love with another libra and i feel a foreboding. ))

I have seen some really cool Libra guys. Guys that love,are faithful and loyal to their girlfriends. So, I am sure that once a libra has madeup his\her mind about settling down and they choose you that libra's can settled down.

As for them comming back...I am sure that not even they know why.

My ex- libra is getting married. He pitched up drunk at my place 04:00 in the morning.( My Cappy is out of town).I had to call his best friend to come get him.Now I just feel sorry for him.It was like watching the man you love turn into a pumpin right infront of your eyes. And now all his friends know that he is a lair and is the one running and chasing after me.And things are not the way he said it was... that I am a pest that doesn't want to leave him alone.

everything happens for a reason. and evetually when we forgive the people that wronged us. It is so much easier to move on.

I am with a gemini now. We made it official saturday. He showers me with affection, jus the way I like it! 🙂 nomore libra

Yah, I try not to read his horoscope profile. I know they're a handful, but so far so good 🙂

if you think u had problems with a libra...Gemini ??

So far no problems...we're in the honeymoon stage...so who knows—

LOL I went straight from a Gemini (OMG what a rollercoaster) to a Libra......its all good now but OMG these signs? not for the lighthearted LOL

We get along really well like he's one of my gfs which I find weird, but I guess that's how its supposed to be (comfortble)..annd again we're in the honeymoon stage, so I don't know yet. He alreayd told me he wants a future with me...which I find weird that he's so sure of it. We just MET! I try to shrug it off like he's joking.

wow I didn't know Gems like to settle so quick! but best wishes to you capris!

@ashleysagstar I like what you said about treating him like your best friend! Every relationship should be like this =D

And with libras being detached, its just how they are, honestly just really to keep yourself busy and have your own life if you are in a relationship with a libra.


I always like the quote, if you let them go and they come back to you, they were yours all along.

i like geminis but they are loving and intentionally cruel. libras just disappear and it is cold how they disappear. geminis stay but can be critical, judgmental, callous and mean as a well as loving and sweet. they will tell you one day they love you and the next they don't love you. they are not afraid of sharing all of their emotions with you bad or good.

Oh definitely agreed with that one eagwstinggirl...definitely!!!

They can be the most judgemental people ever.....there certainly are 2 of them...that nice person and then the evilist of twins that will knock you over once you've been put on that pedastal that the good one put you on....from one day to the next you really dont know where you stand with these.....they can be a lot of fun but watch out when things dont go their way....you'll know about it.

Not all Geminis are like that but most of the ones I know....I know many LOL.

Oh this is so much like this ex libra bf of mine.. We broke up and I tried to make things work after that, he seemed reluctant, so I kept my distance and moved on.. even though I still feel for him, I still like a LOT. But he keeps coming back, he keeps texting me every now and then.. and when I text him back I feel its like an ego boost for him , the feeling that "ok she's still replying" and then he disappears again.. And before I knew it, there he is.. He doesnt wanna be in a relationship I just wonder why he wants to keep in touch

He doesnt wanna be in a relationship I just wonder why he wants to keep in touch

because he can and because he know he still has you 100% and if he has you already why work to get you back, the door is open, he can step through any time he wants with no objection on your part you simply text him back to let him know your still WAITING around, no challenge in that so he leaves you hanging, like most men do that don't want anything but a ego boost.