We agreed to be friends, but ended up arguing all the time. I would begin to move on, only for her to say something like " I love you very much." But she remained distant only in communication. We were not intimate, but we still hung out. At those times she would do and say things that made me believe she was still interested. When I asked her about it, her response would be "I don't see you that way" or " that's not what I want." She would text me about a song that we both loved and would say that she still loved me very much or say on the phone she was sad about losing what we had, only to remain distant. All of this unprompted and random. Finally after weeks of this, my trust having evaporated, I began to ask direct questions. Only to get "I don't know" as a response. I finally stopped calling her and we basically only communicated via text. She still continued in the same manner and I finally got frustrated and began criticizing her, which of course she didn't like. In one of her last emails to me, she said that there are many things that we have in common, but there are a few things that just don't fit and she didn't think they ever will. In short she said, she is not "the one." There was no "don't call" or anything like that, so I would put out "feelers" by sending positive texts in support or trying to uplift her. Most were not responded to and when she did it would be a couple of words. I would then ask her why she hadn't called or initiated and contact, only to be met with anger.i said I don't expect much, but it's not a friendship if it's only me contacting you and not the other way around. Her response, "you need to respect my time and work and I guess we can't be friends." I apologized and I haven't contacted her since. And I didn't contact her that much for the past couple of months. So, will she come back based on what I've told you? I respect your responses and "constructive criticism"...if any. Thanks!
