Would you ever known if a Libra is depressed?

Would you ever known if a Libra is depressed?

Drinking. Picking up bad habits they swore off.

I doubt they'd actually confide in you unless they trust you and know you - REALLY well.
Like, I mean super tight with you.

In terms of actually spotting or identifying the signs of depression for yourself...? Not sure sorry =/
Maybe if it's a Libra you care about just ask.-"are you okay?"

...oops sorry, didn't realize you actually were a Libra...
context of the question *whooshes~over~head* my bad.

Pissy, rude, introverted.

I'm very quiet and like to stay to myself when I'm too down. However since i seriously hate being upset, mad or sad for long periods of time i will do something to take my mind off of it. If it's small i'll go shopping and surround myself around family and friends i definitely like a drink to calm me(Not a whole bottle to myself or anything just a cup or a glass, because i dont smoke weed.haha.)

Then if it's something big like heartbreak or something dealing with my romantic interest i may change my hair style, re-arrange my furniture, i've been guilty of getting a brand new car, or moving. I will want to change up my scenery if i can afford it. Last time my heart got broken i cut my hair, got a tattoo and got a gym membership, i also changed my room around, and bought a new car. lol.
Bottom line is i guess i'm always looking for ways to forget or get over what ever it is that's bothering, so i do things to re-balance my scales even if it means forgetting the person ever existed, thats where deleting them social media comes from 😉

Posted by Lyse
I'm very quiet and like to stay to myself when I'm too down. However since i seriously hate being upset, mad or sad for long periods of time i will do something to take my mind off of it. If it's small i'll go shopping and surround myself around family and friends i definitely like a drink to calm me(Not a whole bottle to myself or anything just a cup or a glass, because i dont smoke weed.haha.)

Then if it's something big like heartbreak or something dealing with my romantic interest i may change my hair style, re-arrange my furniture, i've been guilty of getting a brand new car, or moving. I will want to change up my scenery if i can afford it. Last time my heart got broken i cut my hair, got a tattoo and got a gym membership, i also changed my room around, and bought a new car. lol.
Bottom line is i guess i'm always looking for ways to forget or get over what ever it is that's bothering, so i do things to re-balance my scales even if it means forgetting the person ever existed, thats where deleting them social media comes from 😉

This is right I have had on going anxiety and depression for years now I always find away out, but mostly it can hit at any moment even in the most exciting of times. That kind is usually brought on by loss though like when I think I am over my heart being broken I can feel a pang all over again out of no where and I will clutch my chest not thinking about it and my friends might as what is wrong and I will laugh it off and say my heart broke again, but it was there real and intense for a moment, but I might forget about it.

When I am in a real funk. I eat. I will eat cup cake after cupcake it is almost like a nervous tick. I finally went to the doctor after I had consumed 3 cartons of Whole Food cupcakes in one week out of nervous compulsion, but I refuse to take meds because I already have a too lazy laid back nature I am afraid I will disappear within myself.. *shrugs*

Posted by Lyse
I'm very quiet and like to stay to myself when I'm too down. However since i seriously hate being upset, mad or sad for long periods of time i will do something to take my mind off of it. If it's small i'll go shopping and surround myself around family and friends i definitely like a drink to calm me(Not a whole bottle to myself or anything just a cup or a glass, because i dont smoke weed.haha.)

Then if it's something big like heartbreak or something dealing with my romantic interest i may change my hair style, re-arrange my furniture, i've been guilty of getting a brand new car, or moving. I will want to change up my scenery if i can afford it. Last time my heart got broken i cut my hair, got a tattoo and got a gym membership, i also changed my room around, and bought a new car. lol.
Bottom line is i guess i'm always looking for ways to forget or get over what ever it is that's bothering, so i do things to re-balance my scales even if it means forgetting the person ever existed, thats where deleting them social media comes from 😉

Omg I done that before!!!! When my ex broke up with me I changed my whole style, I changed the way i did my makeup and brought a shit ton of new clothes

Posted by Lyse
Bottom line is i guess i'm always looking for ways to forget or get over what ever it is that's bothering, so i do things to re-balance my scales even if it means forgetting the person ever existed, thats where deleting them social media comes from 😉

What about the Libras who keep those on social media and keep knick knacks around the house? Sentimental?

It's something I've noticed from some (mostly the guys).

Posted by luckiedollsmith

Posted by Lyse
I'm very quiet and like to stay to myself when I'm too down. However since i seriously hate being upset, mad or sad for long periods of time i will do something to take my mind off of it. If it's small i'll go shopping and surround myself around family and friends i definitely like a drink to calm me(Not a whole bottle to myself or anything just a cup or a glass, because i dont smoke weed.haha.)

Then if it's something big like heartbreak or something dealing with my romantic interest i may change my hair style, re-arrange my furniture, i've been guilty of getting a brand new car, or moving. I will want to change up my scenery if i can afford it. Last time my heart got broken i cut my hair, got a tattoo and got a gym membership, i also changed my room around, and bought a new car. lol.
Bottom line is i guess i'm always looking for ways to forget or get over what ever it is that's bothering, so i do things to re-balance my scales even if it means forgetting the person ever existed, thats where deleting them social media comes from 😉

Omg I done that before!!!! When my ex broke up with me I changed my whole style, I changed the way i did my makeup and brought a shit ton of new clothes

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I'm not sure if this is Libra specific though. I've done the same thing and I know of others who do this too. It's their way of coping. Just getting rid of all the "bad" reminders and starting fresh.

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by Lyse
Bottom line is i guess i'm always looking for ways to forget or get over what ever it is that's bothering, so i do things to re-balance my scales even if it means forgetting the person ever existed, thats where deleting them social media comes from 😉

What about the Libras who keep those on social media and keep knick knacks around the house? Sentimental?

It's something I've noticed from some (mostly the guys).

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Yes. Definitly sentimal reasons. For example, when i was trying to get over my Gemini Ex, i wouldn't throw out our pictures. Instead i stuck them in a place i would never think to look for them. Well one day i was cleaning, he and i had been broken up for almost 6 months by then, i came across the pictures and threw them out without a second thought. If they keep you on social media i would think that they are choosing to love/like you from a distance. They wont dare throw themselves into the fire, or set themselves up to be let down by messaging your or even liking a picture, but they still want to make sure your okay. For heavens sake i still check on that Scorpio, he just doesn't know it because i deleted him. I wont go on his page, but i'll have my friend do it, just to me if he's alive and okay, i dont want to know what he's posting tho.lol

I check on ex's much less when I'm over them. My ex Sagg i look on his page out of amusement and to remind me that i definitly dodged a bullet. I have a bit of nosey streak too, so it doesn't always mean i'm not over the person. But if the wounds are fresh, yea. I'll cut all ties, but i still want to know they are okay, i dont want to know details (who they're dating, what they did that day, or what's up) i really just want to know they are alive and healthy. ;p

Okie doke. I always figured they did it because they don't care or think much of it and/or they just keep them on there because it's another option amongst all the others they have on there.

It just seems like an odd thing to do if they're the one who ended things. The usual response from an average person is number deletion, social media deletion, etc. But to ignore/avoid irl but keep them all over social media is contradictory in a sense. Why would there be any senitment if they were done and over with the relationship in usual Libra fashion? If you guys are the ones ending it, it's usually because you know you're done.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Pissy, rude, introverted.

+1

They can be very cold and downright mean and act like they don't care or nothing you say matters. But it's a storm and it passes and rather quickly when it's a relationship if they see their actions are hurtful. They do want peace after all. Some, more than others, tend to see they are making a big deal out of nothing. Problem with Libra is that at times they can get so caught up in over analyzing a situation -reading into things more than they need to, things that really don't matter. You have to have patience and be very reasonable in your dealings with helping them understand.

Posted by ladylibra21

Posted by Lyse
I'm very quiet and like to stay to myself when I'm too down. However since i seriously hate being upset, mad or sad for long periods of time i will do something to take my mind off of it. If it's small i'll go shopping and surround myself around family and friends i definitely like a drink to calm me(Not a whole bottle to myself or anything just a cup or a glass, because i dont smoke weed.haha.)

Then if it's something big like heartbreak or something dealing with my romantic interest i may change my hair style, re-arrange my furniture, i've been guilty of getting a brand new car, or moving. I will want to change up my scenery if i can afford it. Last time my heart got broken i cut my hair, got a tattoo and got a gym membership, i also changed my room around, and bought a new car. lol.
Bottom line is i guess i'm always looking for ways to forget or get over what ever it is that's bothering, so i do things to re-balance my scales even if it means forgetting the person ever existed, thats where deleting them social media comes from 😉

This is right I have had on going anxiety and depression for years now I always find away out, but mostly it can hit at any moment even in the most exciting of times. That kind is usually brought on by loss though like when I think I am over my heart being broken I can feel a pang all over again out of no where and I will clutch my chest not thinking about it and my friends might as what is wrong and I will laugh it off and say my heart broke again, but it was there real and intense for a moment, but I might forget about it.

When I am in a real funk. I eat. I will eat cup cake after cupcake it is almost like a nervous tick. I finally went to the doctor after I had consumed 3 cartons of Whole Food cupcakes in one week out of nervous compulsion, but I refuse to take meds because I already have a too lazy laid back nature I am afraid I will disappear within myself.. *shrugs*

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Ahh yes the Libra sweet tooth emerging lol 😉

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Okie doke. I always figured they did it because they don't care or think much of it and/or they just keep them on there because it's another option amongst all the others they have on there.

It just seems like an odd thing to do if they're the one who ended things. The usual response from an average person is number deletion, social media deletion, etc. But to ignore/avoid irl but keep them all over social media is contradictory in a sense. Why would there be any senitment if they were done and over with the relationship in usual Libra fashion? If you guys are the ones ending it, it's usually because you know you're done.

Well in my last relationship i didn't want to end it, but if i was going to show some type of self-respect and dignity i had to let him go. So even though it was painful, he had to go. I wont let someone just walk all over me like a doormat i dont care how much i love them. I love from a distance until my feelings resolve themselves, thats why i said some of us may hold on for sentimental reasons.

I'm a Libra with a Pisces moon, when I get depressed, you can't miss it...I shut down completely. I just want to hide away from the world until I can wrap my head around what put me in that state.