*Sues Crushes Parents*

Ok so this might come off as weird to some of y'all but Hypothetically speaking; I was wondering what do y'all think about someone telling you that they think you shouldn't date their kid because y'all have an age gap maybe 7 years. And you should try dating someone your age. Like I personally feel that they have no entitlement to tell me who I should date but I also understand that the kid is their 'property' for lack of better word. I just feel like you don't know the experiences I have had with other people that would make me want/feel comfortable enough to date them and they technically have no say in the matter for me but it is their kid. I don't know, I am shallow at times so opinion please thanks!

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Posted by CrabNextDoor
Ok so this might come off as weird to some of y'all but Hypothetically speaking; I was wondering what do y'all think about someone telling you that they think you shouldn't date their kid because y'all have an age gap maybe 7 years. And you should try dating someone your age. Like I personally feel that they have no entitlement to tell me who I should date but I also understand that the kid is their 'property' for lack of better word. I just feel like you don't know the experiences I have had with other people that would make me want/feel comfortable enough to date them and they technically have no say in the matter for me but it is their kid. I don't know, I am shallow at times so opinion please thanks!

—?thats so crazy but technically i think its possible

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That's how I feel to but its like the guy is old enough to make his own decisions but he lives with his parents so I guess he should follow suit with them? I don't know feels wrong though!

Posted by NemDeux

Posted by CrabNextDoor
Ok so this might come off as weird to some of y'all but Hypothetically speaking; I was wondering what do y'all think about someone telling you that they think you shouldn't date their kid because y'all have an age gap maybe 7 years. And you should try dating someone your age. Like I personally feel that they have no entitlement to tell me who I should date but I also understand that the kid is their 'property' for lack of better word. I just feel like you don't know the experiences I have had with other people that would make me want/feel comfortable enough to date them and they technically have no say in the matter for me but it is their kid. I don't know, I am shallow at times so opinion please thanks!

if you are 19 and your object off affection is 12 ....it's a legitimate objection.

if you are 19 and the other 28 ....i see no qualms.

besides that; i don't interfere nor do i appreciate interference; an unhealthy family attachement is off putting to me for many reasons.

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I'm 19 he's 27

Posted by PVJamz

Posted by NemDeux

Posted by CrabNextDoor
Ok so this might come off as weird to some of y'all but Hypothetically speaking; I was wondering what do y'all think about someone telling you that they think you shouldn't date their kid because y'all have an age gap maybe 7 years. And you should try dating someone your age. Like I personally feel that they have no entitlement to tell me who I should date but I also understand that the kid is their 'property' for lack of better word. I just feel like you don't know the experiences I have had with other people that would make me want/feel comfortable enough to date them and they technically have no say in the matter for me but it is their kid. I don't know, I am shallow at times so opinion please thanks!

if you are 19 and your object off affection is 12 ....it's a legitimate objection.

if you are 19 and the other 28 ....i see no qualms.

besides that; i don't interfere nor do i appreciate interference; an unhealthy family attachement is off putting to me for many reasons.

The title of this thread doesn't make sense. With that said, I agree with nem.

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I was just joking about the title I wouldn't sue over something that stupid!

Posted by NemDeux

Posted by CrabNextDoor

Posted by NemDeux

Posted by CrabNextDoor
Ok so this might come off as weird to some of y'all but Hypothetically speaking; I was wondering what do y'all think about someone telling you that they think you shouldn't date their kid because y'all have an age gap maybe 7 years. And you should try dating someone your age. Like I personally feel that they have no entitlement to tell me who I should date but I also understand that the kid is their 'property' for lack of better word. I just feel like you don't know the experiences I have had with other people that would make me want/feel comfortable enough to date them and they technically have no say in the matter for me but it is their kid. I don't know, I am shallow at times so opinion please thanks!

if you are 19 and your object off affection is 12 ....it's a legitimate objection.

if you are 19 and the other 28 ....i see no qualms.

besides that; i don't interfere nor do i appreciate interference; an unhealthy family attachement is off putting to me for many reasons.

I'm 19 he's 27

ok ...now, whose family disapproves?

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His does

Posted by NemDeux

Posted by CrabNextDoor

Posted by NemDeux

Posted by CrabNextDoor

Posted by NemDeux

Posted by CrabNextDoor
Ok so this might come off as weird to some of y'all but Hypothetically speaking; I was wondering what do y'all think about someone telling you that they think you shouldn't date their kid because y'all have an age gap maybe 7 years. And you should try dating someone your age. Like I personally feel that they have no entitlement to tell me who I should date but I also understand that the kid is their 'property' for lack of better word. I just feel like you don't know the experiences I have had with other people that would make me want/feel comfortable enough to date them and they technically have no say in the matter for me but it is their kid. I don't know, I am shallow at times so opinion please thanks!

if you are 19 and your object off affection is 12 ....it's a legitimate objection.

if you are 19 and the other 28 ....i see no qualms.

besides that; i don't interfere nor do i appreciate interference; an unhealthy family attachement is off putting to me for many reasons.

I'm 19 he's 27

ok ...now, whose family disapproves?

His does

what is his stance on this?

has his family openly objectified against you/the relationship?

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what i wrote in the post was stated in a nicer way, and he has been avoiding me for like 3 days so i'm going to talk to him after work!

Posted by PVJamz

Posted by CrabNextDoor

Posted by PVJamz

Posted by NemDeux

Posted by CrabNextDoor
Ok so this might come off as weird to some of y'all but Hypothetically speaking; I was wondering what do y'all think about someone telling you that they think you shouldn't date their kid because y'all have an age gap maybe 7 years. And you should try dating someone your age. Like I personally feel that they have no entitlement to tell me who I should date but I also understand that the kid is their 'property' for lack of better word. I just feel like you don't know the experiences I have had with other people that would make me want/feel comfortable enough to date them and they technically have no say in the matter for me but it is their kid. I don't know, I am shallow at times so opinion please thanks!

if you are 19 and your object off affection is 12 ....it's a legitimate objection.

if you are 19 and the other 28 ....i see no qualms.

besides that; i don't interfere nor do i appreciate interference; an unhealthy family attachement is off putting to me for many reasons.

The title of this thread doesn't make sense. With that said, I agree with nem.

I was just joking about the title I wouldn't sue over something that stupid!

Oh no. I just didn't understand it

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I was just thinking of that when i was making the thread