Are you high maintenance?

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428 on Tuesday, January 6, 2015 and has 19 replies.

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My perspective is that high maintenance denotes somewhat a need to depend on others to satisfy needs, but one can be high maint independently.

Dependent mostly upon others:

Cancer & Pisces uber high maintenance emotionally.

Leo high maintenance regarding stroking (or at least not offending) their ego.

Independently high maintenance:

Gemini high maintenance keeping them intellectually interested or having fun. (Can be done independently.)

Taurus needs to be kept very comfortable, very good food, luxury, etc, but they will seek to satisfy it on their own so I don't think that really counts as being high maint.

Libra (me at least) high maintenance regarding appearance, hair makeup for nights out etc. but I do this myself, the only thing that depends on someone else is for example husband patiently waiting for me to get ready. I'm pretty quick though!

Least high maintenance overall: Aries, Sagittarius, Capricorn

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I want to add Scorpio too because if they love you they pretty much need your entire soul right? My Venus Scorpio is very demanding in love, especially early in the relationship.

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Posted by size zero superhero
Posted by GG
Emotional high maintenance is a new one for me. Anyone care to expand on that?

Emotionally demanding? Type of person who grows infuriated if their friend communicates with, or is on civil terms with someone they have a personal grudge against. Or gets legit furious when someone doesn't love a song, movie, etc they dig. Positive feedback goes to their heads & any neg input get to their heart. Surrounds self with people pleasers, needs undivided loyalty/attention.

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You just described my Gem ex to a tee.I got chills.If I did not hate who she did we would fight or would not talk to me.She was almost child like in that.

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Posted by GG
That's hilarious! You're a Virgo...of course the Gemini will get on your nerves and vice versa.

ive seen quite alot of virgo/gemini couples, but only because of hidden synastry. Too much gemini and too much virgo would be no good.

ie. Helena Bonham Carter and Tim Burton, Virgo Selma Hayek and her very wealthy Gemini husband.

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Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by GG
That's hilarious! You're a Virgo...of course the Gemini will get on your nerves and vice versa.

ive seen quite alot of virgo/gemini couples, but only because of hidden synastry. Too much gemini and too much virgo would be no good.

ie. Helena Bonham Carter and Tim Burton, Virgo Selma Hayek and her very wealthy Gemini husband.

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I have nothing in Gemini but Pluto,Uranus,Mercury,Sun in Virgo.Venus and Mars in Leo.Don't know her chart.I knew her for 9 years and only dated for less than 6 months.

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Posted by feby
I know an emotionally needy sag. She'll relentlessly try to rally me to follow her opinions and to be against people she's outed, regardless of my numerous explanations about how I'm not interested in the drama etc. I love her though no matter what, but sometimes I need some space from her.

irony again.

I have this gf with comming bd on Jan. 23. She was calling me the other day.
She has been trying to rally me to follow her opinions and to be against people she's outed.

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Posted by feby
Posted by DwellingOnMove
Posted by feby
I know an emotionally needy sag. She'll relentlessly try to rally me to follow her opinions and to be against people she's outed, regardless of my numerous explanations about how I'm not interested in the drama etc. I love her though no matter what, but sometimes I need some space from her.

irony again.

I have this gf with comming bd on Jan. 23. She was calling me the other day.
She has been trying to rally me to follow her opinions and to be against people she's outed.

Good for you. It's not a tit for tat.

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good for me? which tit for which tat?

BTW my gf has moon in Cancer.

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ok, then let us make this longer then it is more boring and have more smilies.

I had no talk to you before. So there was no reason for titatoo. some things are not related to each other. some lessons need no teacher.

bored enough?

then it's time for a smilie.