Depression & Cleaning

I recently hooked back up with this aries guy from my past.

I was shocked when he came over to my house to hook up. I always went to his. He never offered to come to my house in the past. I was curious when he asked to come back to my house for another hookup. I was wondering what he may be hiding by not inviting me to his house. I already know I have the better home but from what I remember, his home was nice as well. So I was really curious. So I pushed and insisted I would come to him.

Boy was I shocked. This was the same place but his cleanliness really took a downward spiral.

I was itchy. He would even let me use the bathroom.

I wonder if he went through some depression since 2016.

Now I see why he was wanting to come to my house.

Depression is linked to Cleanliness

Posted by Bumblebebe

Perhaps, lately Ive been wondering am I depressed are these symptoms and then Ill like get home and look around my space and it NEVER looks like the space of a depressed person. Clean home, organized spaces, etc. etc.

I wonder if its aspect related.

For example, my appearance and my home takes a hit when I'm down in the dumps.

I've been feeling a bit more depressed lately.

I have piles of clothes in my room

I know I need to wash them but I just don't have the motivation.

I wake up with such high hopes and very soon after wakening I just lose all interest in the matter.

Depression definitely affects cleanliness.

I'll snap out of it and just do a major purge

That's how I go about it

My Aries ex goes thru cycles of depression it seems like, but he has legit gone thru so much craziness.... I hate to see an Aries in this state.