@outofdarkness
9 YearsLibra
Don't know what to think
I don't understand why you feel creeped out or that you have to do anything at all unless she's trying to friend you. Anyway, stuff that happened over 30 years ago is past history, or should be. You're not the same person you were back then and neither is she. Try to forget about the past, and move forward. She might be a much nicer person now.
Posted by Season
I don't understand why you feel creeped out or that you have to do anything at all unless she's trying to friend you. Anyway, stuff that happened over 30 years ago is past history, or should be. You're not the same person you were back then and neither is she. Try to forget about the past, and move forward. She might be a much nicer person now.
I did forget about her until today. She very well may be a nicer person today. I have moved past it, but don't understand why she would even remember me after all this time. It's strange.
It could be anything and it could be nothing, outofdarkness.
Unless, if she decides to approach you, to apologies or what not.
Leave it at that, and do not let your anxiety over the matter get the better of you.
Posted by outofdarkness
I'm feeling a little creeped out today. I went on Facebook today, and lo and behold, there is one of the girls who bullied me in my first elementary school. I haven't thought about her in years, haven't seen or spoken to her since I left that school 37 years ago, and I have never been on her Facebook, including today. She was one of the girls who bullied me mercilessly. From what I can see from her photo and the "Harvard University", she seems to be doing well for herself. Ok... so why would she remember me after all this time? I don't feel comfortable with it.
Girl, you have some demons to expel.
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I'm feeling a little creeped out today. I went on Facebook today, and lo and behold, there is one of the girls who bullied me in my first elementary school. I haven't thought about her in years, haven't seen or spoken to her since I left that school 37 years ago, and I have never been on her Facebook, including today. She was one of the girls who bullied me mercilessly. From what I can see from her photo and the "Harvard University", she seems to be doing well for herself. Ok... so why would she remember me after all this time? I don't feel comfortable with it.