@TheLadyScorpio
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What turns you off ?
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people with ugly feet.
no no I kid, I kid.
seriously tho what really turns me off is rude people who has no respect, especially those who has no respect for their elders by not addressing them as ma'am or sir amongst other things. there's really more. stay tuned.
My biggest turn off to date, is someone who lacks common sense. I don't need someone the smartest person in the world, but the lack of common sense drives me nuts. Hell my bf uses board, instead of "bored" and my inner grammar Nazi goes nuts. I still adore him because although his grasp of the English language is mediocre at times, I know logically he is smart and has a good amount of common sense.
Second is when the person is overtly sexualized. When I say this, I meant, I dislike a man that brings up sex every other sentence. It drives me nuts.
Third, sheer arrogance and self entitlement.
Last, no sense of humor. I like to laugh, at myself, with you, with everyone. If you can't take a joke, no way. Matter of fact my bf called me a dick last night when I was trolling him. lol
if a girl is dumb and/or disrespectful.
Just legs turn me off 😢
Dumb and ridiculous people, those who can't reason but think they're smart, and those who don't have self-respect neither dignity, leading to victim behaviour dragging for attention/love.
Weakness is a turn-off (liars, manipulators, doormats). Humblebrag-turn off. Attention whores-turn off. Boring-turn off. So many things.
I agree with you, but more of a turn off, the opposite is a turn on.
Posted by GetMisted
Putting ketchup on a hotdog.
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Posted by nikkistar
Posted by GetMisted
Putting ketchup on a hotdog.
GTFO
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Tripa tacos to make up for the triggering?
Too much dominance in a woman. I find myself extremely attracted to women mostly in the beta side, but have enough alpha traits to not let people walk all over them.
Bragging about your money/thinking you can buy me.
Racist and/or sexist remarks.
Rubbing the clit too hard. Its not your dick, harder isn't better!!!
Conceited guys are a huge turnoff. You can know you look good without being a dick. Too serious is a problem for me as well along with not being funny.
Posted by Prince_Pisces
Posted by AfternoonDelights22
Just legs turn me off 😢
I think I'm embarrassed for her at the moment.
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Don't see what's wrong with her legs tbh.
Not everyone feels the need to pose and filter everything.
Couple of squats could help her to get "the look" but this picture looks like it was part of a test or a "before after" journey.
Posted by GetMisted
Posted by LadyNeptune
Bragging about your money/thinking you can buy me.Can I buy you with cheap tacos and dank bud?
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Still no. Cause my bud is better than yours.
Posted by GetMisted
Posted by LadyNeptune
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Posted by LadyNeptune
Bragging about your money/thinking you can buy me.Can I buy you with cheap tacos and dank bud?
Still no. Cause my bud is better than yours.
you dont know dat
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I do
People who don't try to take care of their health. I don't ask for perfection with that, just a genuine interest and effort. Not making the effort really starts to show as people get into their 40s.
Posted by AfternoonDelights22
Just legs turn me off 😢
That's racist
Posted by Nepturanus
Posted by CopperDove
People who don't try to take care of their health. I don't ask for perfection with that, just a genuine interest and effort. Not making the effort really starts to show as people get into their 40s.6th House Stellium talking 😆
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lol. 🙂
Not that it's the only thing that turns me off, of course, but it can impact so many things and many people don't realize it until it's too late.
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Anyone who cannot make me laugh or hold a conversation.If they cannot stimulate my mind with their wit and cheekiness, it would not matter if they are the most handsome / beautiful individual to be found or an incredible lover in bed.
They would simply turn me off.
What turns you off ?
People who are incapable of learning (even if and especially when they are educated above their level of intellect).
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Anyone who cannot make me laugh or hold a conversation.If they cannot stimulate my mind with their wit and cheekiness, it would not matter if they are the most handsome / beautiful individual to be found or an incredible lover in bed.
They would simply turn me off.
What turns you off ?
Lying
Disloyalty
Justifying your poor behaviour by blaming others. Sorry if you crawled in the gutter to get back at someone/prove a point, you made that choice. Own it.
Obnoxious, abrasive and arrogant people.
anything my scorp is not
hey u never know who is watching
lol
Posted by Ajna
Someone with a short fuse...Someone prone to violence...
omg yes
someone who just backhands you or punches you if you say something they don't like.
Posted by ChrisIsKodak
Posted by starwars
full of one self and full of shitgeminis
know it all
punchable
drama queens
edgy-too much
clingy
you should definitely date a potato then
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lol
the above are a lot of people though.
it's asking for perfection.
condoms
feminists
fake boobs
feminists with fake boobs who like condoms
In general:
- People who are cruel towards humans and animals
- Dishonesty and exploit
- Narrow-minded people too stubborn to even consider other viewpoints.
- People pretending not to see value in themselves (or work) in order to get others to validate their selfworth. I hate that.
- Drama queens
- People who bully and trashtalk (I can't validate your self esteem at the expense of others)
In attraction:
- Guys who won't respect a 'no thank you, I'm not interested/I've got a boyfriend'
- Way too tight jeans on men (put that split bulge away, PLEASE!)
- Men who hate women (and women who hates men)
Immature people who shoot down your ideas without discussion, close minded idiots who act like 3 year olds....
Hmmm...
- Lack of humor/ability to laugh at the small AND big things in life
- Disrespectful behavior towards anyone, not just myself...don't be an asshat - it's not difficult lol
- Someone who's too caught up in themselves
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Anyone who cannot make me laugh or hold a conversation.If they cannot stimulate my mind with their wit and cheekiness, it would not matter if they are the most handsome / beautiful individual to be found or an incredible lover in bed.
They would simply turn me off.
What turns you off ?
But wht about to someone Who make an effort to hold a conversation that they weren't able to do the first time around?
I mean it does take practice for some people, i think making an effort is rewarding than someone not willing to try and being ignorant.
For me, if they are ignorant, selfish, arrogant.
These traits are a NO. Now when it comes to conversation, some are better than others at conversing. Anyone that said can learn how to.
I rather turn to someone who make an effort stimulating/trying to make u laugh, who is a kind genuine person who is just simply himself than an arrogant asshole who maybe funny and mentally stimulating but aren't genuine nord have good intention.
Posted by Distilled
I despise liars.
But...it takes time to find out
Posted by starwars
full of one self and full of shitgeminis
know it all
punchable
drama queens
edgy-too much
clingy
controlling
Petty..What u said Gemini lmao.
Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Anyone who cannot make me laugh or hold a conversation.If they cannot stimulate my mind with their wit and cheekiness, it would not matter if they are the most handsome / beautiful individual to be found or an incredible lover in bed.
They would simply turn me off.
What turns you off ?
People who are incapable of learning (even if and especially when they are educated above their level of intellect).
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Can you be more specific when you say learning? In what circumstances?
At a job? School? Life in general? Learning from a discussion. Etc
Guys that don't understand boundaries! Guys that don't value you as a human but more as an object.
Guys that says one thing but does another.
Guys who claims to know it all.
Guys that refuse to be truth to themselves and want to give u a false image of them.
Guys that doesn't want to try or improve themselves.
Posted by Vageenka
Passive-aggressiveness. Bad communicators. Guys who shave their bush (I'm an exception tho cause I'm flawless. But you have to be hairy). Bad breath/ugly teeth. Holy fuck. Am I really supposed to kiss you? Racism/bigotry/religious people who demonize others while being sinful themselves.
What's wrong with racism?
Dumb.
Dude can be the hottest person alive, but if he's dumb as hell, I'm out.
Posted by Vageenka
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Vageenka
Passive-aggressiveness. Bad communicators. Guys who shave their bush (I'm an exception tho cause I'm flawless. But you have to be hairy). Bad breath/ugly teeth. Holy fuck. Am I really supposed to kiss you? Racism/bigotry/religious people who demonize others while being sinful themselves.
What's wrong with racism?
It's so wrong and annoying. Like people literally hating or discriminating against someone because of their race. Like wtf? There's so many things you can hate about a person, like their disgusting attitude, and racists pick people to hate on based on.... Their race.
Lol it's just ignorant to me
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People are racists within the race!
Surprised?
Google!
Unless you prefer I just LIE but it's turn off already...
Do I lie or being honest racist?
What's more turn off?
People who are rude. There's never an excuse for that. No matter what else you are or are not.
Posted by PootyButt
Disrespect in any of its forms:1) insulting me
2) x2 if the insult is in front of other people
3) ignoring me
4) openly flirting in front of me
5) belittling or discounting my talents, hopes, experiences, feeling, etc.
R.E.S.P.E.C.T., find out what it means to me.
Cheating or hitting would just get you kicked out of my life for good, not merely turn me off.
These would all be on my list.. The flirt one is kinda lower thou, all people flirt, sometimes without even knowing but if it's like over the top or done to prove a point. Then fuck that.
Gotta add dishonesty, from lying to hiding shit.
narcissistic type behavior.
Bad body hygiene.
Insecurity and indecisiveness
people who are too pushy
Posted by PootyButt
Posted by justagirl
Posted by PootyButt
Disrespect in any of its forms:1) insulting me
2) x2 if the insult is in front of other people
3) ignoring me
4) openly flirting in front of me
5) belittling or discounting my talents, hopes, experiences, feeling, etc.
R.E.S.P.E.C.T., find out what it means to me.
Cheating or hitting would just get you kicked out of my life for good, not merely turn me off.
These would all be on my list.. The flirt one is kinda lower thou, all people flirt, sometimes without even knowing but if it's like over the top or done to prove a point. Then fuck that.
Gotta add dishonesty, from lying to hiding shit.
narcissistic type behavior.
Bad body hygiene.
The flirting really depends. My guy can make pleasant conversation and joke and have fun with lady friends in front of me all night. I don't consider that flirting. Even if they think he's attractive...that's adorable. It's the flirting that crosses lines that bothers me, and it's hard to describe it.
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Yup, I think we talking the same thing. Very hard to discribe but its very disrespectful.
IQ above 109
lack of booty
too mentally stable
obsessed with celeb lives
obsessed with appearances
claims to be a queen or diva on message boards
takes herself too seriously
no person. planet, jupiter nor asc. in scorpio
takes this list seriously
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Anyone who cannot make me laugh (lacking a sense of humour) or hold a conversation.If they cannot stimulate my mind with their wit and cheekiness, it would not matter if they are the most handsome / beautiful individual to be found or an incredible lover in bed.
They would simply turn me off.
What turns you off ?
People who play victim - STFU and rise above and do something about it other than whine/complain/wallow in misery - attention seekers.
People who call others names because it's weak. People who pick on others = insecurity.
Posted by whatisthisallabout
people who are too pushy
+100,000,000,000 to that.
Posted by Seraphlight
Ignorance. Hate.
I don't hate anybody. There is no hate it my heart.
I just finding easier to tell the truth than to play games.
I'd I say I can be friends with anybody and anything but it doesn't mean I will welcome you into my family!
And you all can make faces all you want but 99% of you just like me!
Go ahead...lie!
Posted by Kemetisinme
IQ above 109lack of booty
too mentally stable
obsessed with celeb lives
obsessed with appearances
claims to be a queen or diva on message boards
takes herself too seriously
no person. planet, jupiter nor asc. in scorpio
takes this list seriously
😆 You and afternoondelights. Little booty girls need love too lol
Posted by Damous
Don't try to reason with Gemitati or explain it to her/him/it. I'm sure it's a troll or someone with very limited function.
I am the oldest troll if I was the one then.
And my abilities just enough for me to be able to not to bullshit people into 'I love you I love you whoever you are' !!!
And I don't need YOU to explain to ME anything because I can explain everything to YOU but you wouldn't be able to digest it!
Posted by femme
Posted by Kemetisinme
IQ above 109lack of booty
too mentally stable
obsessed with celeb lives
obsessed with appearances
claims to be a queen or diva on message boards
takes herself too seriously
no person. planet, jupiter nor asc. in scorpio
takes this list seriously
😆 You and afternoondelights. Little booty girls need love too lol
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🤗
*squeezes something by accident*
😈
Posted by Kemetisinme
Posted by femme
Posted by Kemetisinme
IQ above 109lack of booty
too mentally stable
obsessed with celeb lives
obsessed with appearances
claims to be a queen or diva on message boards
takes herself too seriously
no person. planet, jupiter nor asc. in scorpio
takes this list seriously
😆 You and afternoondelights. Little booty girls need love too lol
🤗
*squeezes something by accident*
😈
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Lmao. Hope you enjoyed that, I have to slap you now hehe
Posted by femme
Posted by Kemetisinme
Posted by femme
Posted by Kemetisinme
IQ above 109lack of booty
too mentally stable
obsessed with celeb lives
obsessed with appearances
claims to be a queen or diva on message boards
takes herself too seriously
no person. planet, jupiter nor asc. in scorpio
takes this list seriously
😆 You and afternoondelights. Little booty girls need love too lol
🤗
*squeezes something by accident*
😈
Lmao. Hope you enjoyed that, I have to slap you now hehe
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Why slap me ? I was making sure there are no lumps there.. good guys just can't win !
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Anyone who cannot make me laugh (lacking a sense of humour) or hold a conversation.
If they cannot stimulate my mind with their wit and cheekiness, it would not matter if they are the most handsome / beautiful individual to be found or an incredible lover in bed.
They would simply turn me off.
What turns you off ?