MsPisces.
@MsPisces.
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Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
In the last few months my ends and my roots have gotten rougher. I think it is because I have been over doing the processing lately.... it's just so damn fun! So is there a product you gals use that would work well for my hair?



Posted by MsPisces.
Yea, I guess I can see that. I know some ppl who never want to leave the jects, but then again, they're not accountants either lol Oh well.
lol @ your Nicks for all of them. I actually liked Eric at first. Ya know, I got over the knot and all and actually thought he was alright...but I wish he would have thrown a drink at me like that lol I can't even be mad at him tho, because Jen is too much of a ditz for me anyway.
Posted by MsPisces.
My friend went to that salon. Its on like 119th and 8th or something, right? She said the experience was nice, but they were very expensive. Eh, I'll stick to my $ 25 wash and sets from the Dominicans lol
Sounds nice to do once in a blue for a ladies day though.
Posted by DMV
i would get a boob job if i had the money.
ive always wanted a daughter so i could put those barettes and beads in her hair...
Posted by LoveBucketPosted by VirgoVixxxen
@LoveBucket,
I wouldn't want a Virgo mother hot-combing my hair. Ha! I could imagine your moms wanting to get every nook and cranny! Scaaaary!
I've been dying to try a weave but as I told DMV, I'm afraid that I might get hooked.
My sister used to have a jheri curl and every night my mother would wake her up and give her a "whop!" on her arm because the activator would keep soaking the pillow case...now ain't that some shit? LOL! Although my sister begged her to get the JC, she was happy to oblige (and had the nerve to do it herself with the home kit...my mom that is) and then turned around and would give her a slap on the arm every night for something that was totally out of her control. I guess in her mind she was probably thinking, "well, can't take it out on the activator". LOL.
You go without wearing a bra? I could never do that! Well size does matter so like you said, having dense full ones can afford you that luxury. I'm quite top heavy so there is no going bra-less for me. No siiiiree!
Girrrrrl, my mom got every pot, spoon and fork in my kitchen!! She had me thinking I didn't need to go perm, which is why I didn't get my first one until my mid 20's!! 🙂
On the jerri-juice, you really didn't need alot of that activator, at least I didn't. The style looked very nice on me and, I only had to activate once every few days. Because that was my experience, I always thought all those activator skits were overblown.
On the bra, see, I'm not quite heavy, just a regular D cup (36D) so I can getaway. Soons I get home every day it's one of the first things that come off on those days that I do wear them. I'm such a friggin hippy!! 🙂click to expand


Posted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by DMV
i would get a boob job if i had the money.
ive always wanted a daughter so i could put those barettes and beads in her hair...
As in a lift or a size increase/decrease?click to expand



Posted by DMVPosted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by DMV
i would get a boob job if i had the money.
ive always wanted a daughter so i could put those barettes and beads in her hair...
As in a lift or a size increase/decrease?
one cup increase. large d would be splendid.click to expand
Posted by LoveBucket
I don't know about the study, but I do know that you should not sleep in bra and panties, which serves me well because I've been sleeping in the nude since I left home at 18. Also, all of that "they will fall if you don't wear a bra", it's not a fact, it's what they say. If they fall, it's not the bra -- perhaps gravity worked against the person for whatever reason. I am living proof of that b/c girl, had my breasts fallen to being droopy, no way could I get away without wearing a bra plus, I would ALWAYS want to wear one to keep those girls up!! 🙂 It just feels free-er when I LOVE FREEDOM!! 🙂
My mom is a riot and you sound like my cousins because they all "love Aunt Margaret". I remember one time not too long ago we were down south, she sat on a bench, the bench started to rise like a seesaw, which compelled her to say "quick, somebody with a big ass sit down on that side" and, someone did, but not without everyone busting out in a crazy laugh!!
At times my Ma was mean but because she was so funny when she wasn't even trying to be, the funny times way outweigh the mean times.
Her birthday is coming up -- September 19!! 🙂
Posted by LoveBucket
VV, I was never a fan for fads or for what was popular -- actually, I hated fads and what's popular so I never liked the bamboo earrings and, to this day, I still do not like them. 🙂
Posted by DMVPosted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by DMV
i would get a boob job if i had the money.
ive always wanted a daughter so i could put those barettes and beads in her hair...
As in a lift or a size increase/decrease?
one cup increase. large d would be splendid.click to expand
Posted by DMV
i DID however have a dope ass name chain!
Posted by LoveBucket
I wanted the name ring, but by the time I got around to buying it, I no longer wanted it -- the thrill was gone!! 🙂


Posted by LoveBucketPosted by VirgoVixxxen
@GemsRaGalsBestPal
. . .
The China man beauty supply is the shit. It's like kryptonite to us Black girls, LOL.
And they know it, which is why they got that industry on TIGHT lockdown to the point they don't even distribute to Blacks. They want ALL of that money and, THEY GET IT!! Well, not ALL of it but you get my drift.
I got into a pissyfit about two weeks ago in the chinaman's shop. For a change, my daughter wanted to get a weave (not her first, occasionally, she'll wear one but most of the time she wears her own hair) so, I went with her to the China man to buy some hair. She wanted this hair called Remi Boss, which is quite expensive but well worth it because IT FEELS GOOD. They have it in a few grades, and price wise, it's like 70, 80 and 90 dollars for a pack, depending on the grade you want, Boss being the highest grade. I felt all three and told her I like the Boss the best. When the girl said it was $ 90 something dollars (which my daughter knew), my heart went out to her and I told her I'd buy the hair for her. I mentioned to the sales girl I don't have my ID (on the Avenue, you need it) and she asked me to speak to the boss. He tells me I can't charge it without my I.D. I told him I didn't come out to shop -- I didn't come out to buy hair but b/c it cost so much, I want to spare my daughter and pay for it for her, but he said no. Leos liking to get their way, I told him I guess you wouldn't understand what it's like to have a daughter then, considering you abort your daughters so that they don't out number your sons and then I walked off. Now get this -- my daughter hands her credit card to the guy (Chinese) behind the counter and he swipes it so fast -- he did not ask her for I.D.
The lesson I learned from that -- next time don't ask, just present the card and see what they do!! 🙂click to expand
Posted by PheonixBluez
Damn im late. *koolaid smiling* Here! *waiving and looking around at all my beautiful sistah's of all hues of brown *

Posted by LoveBucketPosted by PheonixBluez
Damn im late. *koolaid smiling* Here! *waiving and looking around at all my beautiful sistah's of all hues of brown *
The different hues ARE beautiful, which is why I wish folks who say they don't see colour should just stop it and revise that to say colour does not matter. Comparatively, the person with the birthmark on their face -- black or no pigmentation -- we see it but it does not matter. I saw a black man today, he had a no pigment birthmark on his face -- I SAW IT -- BUT IT DID NOT MATTER!!
I mean really, those same people who say they don't see colour DO see eye colour, DO see hair colour, even fawn over these things that appear above the neck on a person's body YET, you don't see the colour? What that sounds like to me is they don't see the colour because they associate the colour to something negative and to not appear negative, they say they don't see it. How can you not see something so beautiful. Colour is something that should be appreciated and embraced -- not flat out ignored -- nope, don't see it. Right??
Even on our non-black sisters -- they too come in different hues, all of which should be embraced and appreciated. First things first though -- in order to embrace and appreciate, you must first see.
I see, embrace and appreciate all of the colours in the rainbow of people on this earth, from the palest of the pale to the darkest of the dark, no matter where you come from.click to expand

Posted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by PheonixBluez
Damn im late. *koolaid smiling* Here! *waiving and looking around at all my beautiful sistah's of all hues of brown *
Hiya!
Nice of you to stop by. And all this time I thought you too were a White girl, PB!
LOL, anyway, join in the fun. 🙂click to expand
Posted by LoveBucketPosted by VirgoVixxxen
@GemsRaGalsBestPal
. . .
The China man beauty supply is the shit. It's like kryptonite to us Black girls, LOL.
And they know it, which is why they got that industry on TIGHT lockdown to the point they don't even distribute to Blacks. They want ALL of that money and, THEY GET IT!! Well, not ALL of it but you get my drift.
I got into a pissyfit about two weeks ago in the chinaman's shop. For a change, my daughter wanted to get a weave (not her first, occasionally, she'll wear one but most of the time she wears her own hair) so, I went with her to the China man to buy some hair. She wanted this hair called Remi Boss, which is quite expensive but well worth it because IT FEELS GOOD. They have it in a few grades, and price wise, it's like 70, 80 and 90 dollars for a pack, depending on the grade you want, Boss being the highest grade. I felt all three and told her I like the Boss the best. When the girl said it was $ 90 something dollars (which my daughter knew), my heart went out to her and I told her I'd buy the hair for her. I mentioned to the sales girl I don't have my ID (on the Avenue, you need it) and she asked me to speak to the boss. He tells me I can't charge it without my I.D. I told him I didn't come out to shop -- I didn't come out to buy hair but b/c it cost so much, I want to spare my daughter and pay for it for her, but he said no. Leos liking to get their way, I told him I guess you wouldn't understand what it's like to have a daughter then, considering you abort your daughters so that they don't out number your sons and then I walked off. Now get this -- my daughter hands her credit card to the guy (Chinese) behind the counter and he swipes it so fast -- he did not ask her for I.D.
The lesson I learned from that -- next time don't ask, just present the card and see what they do!! 🙂click to expand

Posted by PheonixBluezPosted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by PheonixBluez
Damn im late. *koolaid smiling* Here! *waiving and looking around at all my beautiful sistah's of all hues of brown *
Hiya!
Nice of you to stop by. And all this time I thought you too were a White girl, PB!
LOL, anyway, join in the fun. 🙂
Thank you mam. :-)click to expand
Posted by LoveBucketPosted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by LoveBucketPosted by VirgoVixxxen
@GemsRaGalsBestPal
. . .
The China man beauty supply is the shit. It's like kryptonite to us Black girls, LOL.
LOL, I love this and LMAO @ you making that comment to him about their daughters...oh my gosh!
Oh do I KNOW about Leos and them liking to get their way (I'll tell you my story later).
Lesson learned is right. You must've forgot that money talks and everything else walks!
No, that's not the lesson I learned. The lesson I learned, because I surely did learn one, is next time I don't have my I.D. -- only a credit card -- *don't approach the owner on the side and explain -- just go right up to the counter and see what the cashier will do, because considering my daughter was not asked for her I.D. by the cashier -- the cashier just swiped her card -- had I not approached the BossMan first and just went up to the counter, the card swiped would have been mine with no questions asked.
Now, on the money talks thing -- had I been the bigboss, considering 2 packs of that Remy Boss hair is $ 180 before taxes, THE MONEY WOULD HAVE TALKED even though it was plastic money and, I would have told the customer that this time I will let her charge the hair without showing her I.D.
I would NOT have let $ 180 plus tax walk out my store!! 🙂click to expand
Posted by LoveBucket
^ ^ ^ Had my daughter not brought her handbag, which holds her wallet in the event I told her at the house I'd by the hair, it is the chinaMan who would have let that Money, which was supposed to talk, WALK!! My daughter is such a friggin lady -- when I go out locally I take my purse (not wallet, just a change purse) with what I need in it. Not Aries is not like that -- according to her, a lady always carries her handbag therefore, she always carries her handbag.
I learned she felt that way a few months ago when we were going somewhere locally, or she was going to the corner to get her hair did by the Dominicans, and I mentioned "why take your handbag". Her answer -- a lady always carries her handbag. Guess I ain't no lady then!! 🙂 However, in the bedroom, I am because I'd never ever consider spitting!! lol lol
Posted by MsPisces.Posted by LoveBucketPosted by VirgoVixxxen
@GemsRaGalsBestPal
. . .
The China man beauty supply is the shit. It's like kryptonite to us Black girls, LOL.
And they know it, which is why they got that industry on TIGHT lockdown to the point they don't even distribute to Blacks. They want ALL of that money and, THEY GET IT!! Well, not ALL of it but you get my drift.
I got into a pissyfit about two weeks ago in the chinaman's shop. For a change, my daughter wanted to get a weave (not her first, occasionally, she'll wear one but most of the time she wears her own hair) so, I went with her to the China man to buy some hair. She wanted this hair called Remi Boss, which is quite expensive but well worth it because IT FEELS GOOD. They have it in a few grades, and price wise, it's like 70, 80 and 90 dollars for a pack, depending on the grade you want, Boss being the highest grade. I felt all three and told her I like the Boss the best. When the girl said it was $ 90 something dollars (which my daughter knew), my heart went out to her and I told her I'd buy the hair for her. I mentioned to the sales girl I don't have my ID (on the Avenue, you need it) and she asked me to speak to the boss. He tells me I can't charge it without my I.D. I told him I didn't come out to shop -- I didn't come out to buy hair but b/c it cost so much, I want to spare my daughter and pay for it for her, but he said no. Leos liking to get their way, I told him I guess you wouldn't understand what it's like to have a daughter then, considering you abort your daughters so that they don't out number your sons and then I walked off. Now get this -- my daughter hands her credit card to the guy (Chinese) behind the counter and he swipes it so fast -- he did not ask her for I.D.
The lesson I learned from that -- next time don't ask, just present the card and see what they do!! 🙂
They were probably Korean, not Chinese.click to expand
Posted by libra sun
better late then never but yeah im black, not African American though, here in england its just black not african english or anything fancy lol


Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Thanks for the advice ladies!!!!!! I'm looking forward to getting off the couch soon and going shopping.
As of now, I've been laid up due to reinjury of a back problem (old car accident whiplash). Soooooooo, currently I'm considering hitting up a WHOLE different black market. Bring on the drugs!!!!!! I'd kill for a handfull of muscle relaxers right now....
Posted by DMV
i order my hair online. my sew in's costs $ 50 (partial hair out) so i can splurge on better hair. i dont get silky straight, i get hair that has a KINK to it. so it matches my hair better. i looks like permed black hair. not that straight as a board hair.
i just got a sew in done yesterday and i still have a headache cause its sooo tight. but it looks great.
i pay bout $ 50 per packet and i thought i was doing something lol. there is hair that ive been looking at that is about 100 a packet.



Posted by VirgoVixxxen
@LoveBucket
I do the look so I know what you mean! I wear handbags too! And I'm sitting here at work and my damn feet are killing me from these heels so TRUST, I know what you are talking about!!! Three days into the week and my feet are feeling like hot coals 'cause I don't own but three pairs of sneakers in which neither one I have worn in over a year, but I don't give a damn 'cause I loves me some heels!
LMAO @ the fanny pack to the laundry. So true. So true!!!


Posted by RealTalkPosted by VirgoVixxxen
@LoveBucket
I do the look so I know what you mean! I wear handbags too! And I'm sitting here at work and my damn feet are killing me from these heels so TRUST, I know what you are talking about!!! Three days into the week and my feet are feeling like hot coals 'cause I don't own but three pairs of sneakers in which neither one I have worn in over a year, but I don't give a damn 'cause I loves me some heels!
LMAO @ the fanny pack to the laundry. So true. So true!!!
Yeah I love heels too, but I only wear them occasionally to work, & when I go out for social gatherings. Other than that I have on my cute little ballet flats. I think I grew out of the "heel-wearing everyday" phase, lol. When I was younger I'd wear heels every freaking day!!!! Trying to look grown...you know. Lol, do you have an Louboutin's? I sooooooo want a pair but I'm already 5'7 & the heels are 5" & better & that's waaaaayyy to high for me. If I come across some fly mid-high heel ones, They're mine!!!! 😉click to expand
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Sounds nice to do once in a blue for a ladies day though.