Fantasies

Keep them as fantasies Or try to live them out?

What's your take on this if you have lived some out.

Live them out I say! I'm sure my pisces bits will dream of new fantasies to pursue!

Live the out.

Well, most of them...

Once you live them out, don't you need new ones?

live them out as much as possible. as for new ones, there's always something new to pursue. 😄

Need is a strong word, but sure... Once you live them out you need new ones. Some of them anyway. Some of them have been so good I've fantasized about doing it again. I'm a pervert though.

Posted by LibraSid
Need is a strong word, but sure... Once you live them out you need new ones. Some of them anyway. Some of them have been so good I've fantasized about doing it again. I'm a pervert though.

Haha

Gosh, APC. You're coming out of your shell. *blushes*

Posted by enfant_terrible
Gosh, APC. You're coming out of your shell. *blushes*

Is there a fantasy you would like to share?

Posted by tiziani
Fantasies have usually been best lived out on the fly. If you put too much thought into it, it often ends up laughably bad but at least you can laugh about it together afterwards,

YEEEEEEEES! Impromptu ones are the best. I had this fantasy about nutella that turned out hilarious IRL! That's all I can say! Still makes a good laugh 'til today.

If you have a partner that's willing and able I can't think of any reason not to live out a fantasy should the couple agree to do so. As long as everything stays within your personal comfort range and nobody gets hurt, it's all good.



There are always things better left in the closet though, so to speak. And no one should ever be pressured into doing something they don't really want to.

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Posted by tiziani
Fantasies have usually been best lived out on the fly. If you put too much thought into it, it often ends up laughably bad but at least you can laugh about it together afterwards,

YEEEEEEEES! Impromptu ones are the best. I had this fantasy about nutella that turned out hilarious IRL! That's all I can say! Still makes a good laugh 'til today.

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Oh no...Nutella?

Posted by aquasnoz
Live them out I say! I'm sure my pisces bits will dream of new fantasies to pursue!

Do you live them out?

Yeah! At the middle of spreading that, I was really thinking, "This isn't certainly how I pictured it in my mind."

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Posted by aquasnoz
Live them out I say! I'm sure my pisces bits will dream of new fantasies to pursue!

Do you live them out?

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Lived many of them out with my Saggie ex! But as Tiz said, impromptu is awesome and similar to librasid said it can be the same type of fantasy just in different settings. We were both just young and horny and wanted to do it everywhere and try everything though, I'm pretty sure that had something to do with it.

Posted by feby16aqua
Some I cannot live out. They are too taboo and even unhealthy.

Taboo is one thing, unhealthy or destructive is another. You gotta know yourself and your boundaries. If it's just taboo and other people think you shouldn't...eh.

Taboo meaning simply uncustomary / unacceptable / unusual... Not any specific freaky shit you may be into.

Can't blame a guy for trying 😄

Posted by duchessedenemours
Haha Nutella seems like a bitch to clean up after lmao

You bet! Something a lot more hilarious happened after that incident but if he ever reads this he'd probably feel bad if I shared it. 😢

Would wanting to get choked count as unhealthy?

For unhealthy, the only thing that comes to mind is using yogurt. A friend tried that because they didn't have whipped cream. OFC she got UTI coz of that.

Posted by AesmaDaeva
Would wanting to get choked count as unhealthy?

It's a fine line. It's also personal comfort. I don't see anything wrong with a little but how do you explain the line haha. If everyone is into it, have fun. Something like that would be with a trusted partner. I draw the line when something just seems foul, cruel, or otherwise just wrong. Fine lines. Playful.

Like I said though I am a pervert. I'm also not very judging. That can lead to some unique situations.

Posted by duchessedenemours
For me its pretty much: Can I still trust respect and love this person after we do this?

If there is any doubt, not happening.

Oh I see! The only thing I wouldn't like is involving 3rd party or voyeurism. Anything between us is cool as long as he won't put a belt buckle or veggies inside me. Sex toys are okay. Oh! And I don't wanna feel degraded afterwards.

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Posted by duchessedenemours
For me its pretty much: Can I still trust respect and love this person after we do this?

If there is any doubt, not happening.

Oh I see! The only thing I wouldn't like is involving 3rd party or voyeurism. Anything between us is cool as long as he won't put a belt buckle or veggies inside me. Sex toys are okay. Oh! And I don't wanna feel degraded afterwards.

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Like I said, know your boundaries then have fun.

This woman is great haha.

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Posted by AesmaDaeva
Would wanting to get choked count as unhealthy?

It's a fine line. It's also personal comfort. I don't see anything wrong with a little but how do you explain the line haha. If everyone is into it, have fun. Something like that would be with a trusted partner. I draw the line when something just seems foul, cruel, or otherwise just wrong. Fine lines. Playful.

Like I said though I am a pervert. I'm also not very judging. That can lead to some unique situations.

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The line? Easy, I'll wear a scarf. 😄 My fish isn't into that though.

So somehow, to answer APC's question, I don't have much limits in bed but my partner does. I need to respect his boundaries.

Posted by aquapiscescusp
Keep them as fantasies Or try to live them out?

What's your take on this if you have lived some out.

Screw "try to live them out". Make it happen.

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Posted by duchessedenemours
For me its pretty much: Can I still trust respect and love this person after we do this?

If there is any doubt, not happening.

Oh I see! The only thing I wouldn't like is involving 3rd party or voyeurism. Anything between us is cool as long as he won't put a belt buckle or veggies inside me. Sex toys are okay. Oh! And I don't wanna feel degraded afterwards.

Veggies.... Hahahahahaha.

Dead. I don't think I could stop laughing long enough. Apparently doctors get people coming in with lost carrots and stuff. 😄

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LOOOOOOOOL

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Posted by tiziani
Fantasies have usually been best lived out on the fly. If you put too much thought into it, it often ends up laughably bad but at least you can laugh about it together afterwards,

YEEEEEEEES! Impromptu ones are the best. I had this fantasy about nutella that turned out hilarious IRL! That's all I can say! Still makes a good laugh 'til today.

Oh no...Nutella?

Nutella......reminds me of a German porn I once watched.

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Link please! Maybe I could perfect my nutella fantasy. 😄

OH too bad!

I was looking for a yahoo comment I read once that cracked me up but found this instead!

http://www.oddee.com/item_98446.aspx<BR>
People are craaaaaaaaaazy!

I've live out my fantasies. I' haven't created any new ones in a while.

I cherish the ones I did alone. I am very comfortable going out into the world alone and closing the door behind me.

Fantasies that I have are weird more than sexual; some have to do with small scale fame and notoriety for a minute; other have to do with simply making unique experiences/dreams come true; and of course, some are of a sexual nature. I have a thing for exhibitionism, crowds cheering me, and being a stranger.

Posted by feby16aqua
Some I cannot live out. They are too taboo and even unhealthy.

Same here... What could be unhealthy? Hmm....

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Posted by AesmaDaeva
Would wanting to get choked count as unhealthy?

It's a fine line. It's also personal comfort. I don't see anything wrong with a little but how do you explain the line haha. If everyone is into it, have fun. Something like that would be with a trusted partner. I draw the line when something just seems foul, cruel, or otherwise just wrong. Fine lines. Playful.

Like I said though I am a pervert. I'm also not very judging. That can lead to some unique situations.

The line? Easy, I'll wear a scarf. 😄 My fish isn't into that though.

So somehow, to answer APC's question, I don't have much limits in bed but my partner does. I need to respect his boundaries.

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That makes sense, respecting your partners limits. Do you feel you're missing out though?

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Posted by AesmaDaeva
Would wanting to get choked count as unhealthy?

It's a fine line. It's also personal comfort. I don't see anything wrong with a little but how do you explain the line haha. If everyone is into it, have fun. Something like that would be with a trusted partner. I draw the line when something just seems foul, cruel, or otherwise just wrong. Fine lines. Playful.

Like I said though I am a pervert. I'm also not very judging. That can lead to some unique situations.

The line? Easy, I'll wear a scarf. 😄 My fish isn't into that though.

So somehow, to answer APC's question, I don't have much limits in bed but my partner does. I need to respect his boundaries.

That makes sense, respecting your partners limits. Do you feel you're missing out though?

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Most definitely, yes, I'm missing out but I love him more than my fantasies so it's okay. In a way, it IS sad that I only get to share this side of me with him and he's not open to certain things but it is what it is. Who knows? He's mutable anyway, maybe I can persuade him. 😛

Aesma are you an aqua?

a leeb

yup

Posted by tiziani
AquaLibra 😏


/does secret handshake

What's the significance? lol

She mocks your secret handshake 😱

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Posted by tiziani
AquaLibra 😏


/does secret handshake

What's the significance? lol

We're on the Aquarius decan of Libra. We like fixed routine but the irony is routine leads us to become escapist, mentally perverse and depraved.

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Escapist, mentally perverse and depraved - very strong words there, fellow Leeb! I don't like routine unless it's something I enjoy. Now that you have explained it to me...

*does secret handshake with Tiz*

Posted by AesmaDaeva
a leeb

Ah ok... I thought you were an aqua!

Hmm... Yeah those libras they love their kinky side 😉

I came close to living out a fantasy that I thought would really be the bomb... When I came close to fulfilling it and had my Pisces all worked up about it, I stepped back and realized it was best left as a fantasy.

Posted by aquapiscescusp
Hmm... Yeah those libras they love their kinky side 😉

I don't consider myself kinky. I think my fantasies are normal.

Posted by aquapiscescusp
I came close to living out a fantasy that I thought would really be the bomb... When I came close to fulfilling it and had my Pisces all worked up about it, I stepped back and realized it was best left as a fantasy.

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Why hesitate if it's not dangerous?

Live'emout... And not just the ones involving a romantic partner. smh this place 😛

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Posted by aquapiscescusp
Hmm... Yeah those libras they love their kinky side 😉

I don't consider myself kinky. I think my fantasies are normal.

Posted by aquapiscescusp
I came close to living out a fantasy that I thought would really be the bomb... When I came close to fulfilling it and had my Pisces all worked up about it, I stepped back and realized it was best left as a fantasy.

Why hesitate if it's not dangerous?

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Isn't kinky normal? I hope so 😄

I thought that living it out would change us... (without getting into details)

Posted by Theatrum
Live'emout... And not just the ones involving a romantic partner. smh this place 😛

Everyone's different, that's the beauty of it... sma

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Posted by AesmaDaeva

Posted by aquapiscescusp
Hmm... Yeah those libras they love their kinky side 😉

I don't consider myself kinky. I think my fantasies are normal.

Posted by aquapiscescusp
I came close to living out a fantasy that I thought would really be the bomb... When I came close to fulfilling it and had my Pisces all worked up about it, I stepped back and realized it was best left as a fantasy.

Why hesitate if it's not dangerous?

Isn't kinky normal? I hope so 😄

I thought that living it out would change us... (without getting into details)

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You wouldn't know until you try. 😛

Posted by feby16aqua
In fact, some of my favorites don't involve me doing anything physically at all.

Voyeur?

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Posted by feby16aqua
In fact, some of my favorites don't involve me doing anything physically at all.

Voyeur?

well excuse me miss! yeah that kind of thing 🙂 Also the idea that something like that is going on. What are they feeling?

I also like the seduction of it.

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Oh I don't feel a thing. It's them doing it not me. lol Well, that's based on my personal experience.

Voyeurism doesn't work with me because of this reason - I only get turned on by the person I have feelings for. The waves of the sea turn me on but a guy/girl I'm not romantically attached to doesn't do a thing for me. 😢

Posted by tiziani
Well I never 😱

You never what? 😄