@DeeLovesRed
10 Years1,000+ Posts
Fucked Up Parent?? A Lie?? Idk!!
My Aries mars bf wouldn't do that. I think he'd feel weird about it.
I'd tell my friend that her *boyfriend* is
gossiping about her.
No question.
@montgomery see that's the thing... I'm not one to really get in to people's relationship... I want to say something without saying boyfriend or this person told that person and that person told me...
I don't really like stuff like that... Also, I don't want her to turn around and say "why am I lying on her man"... So it's a real sticky situation for me...
start off the conversation about the air mattress then gradually work your way in
nly have 2 choices here.1. Treat the information as it is, an unsubstantiated rumour that could possibly be a lie. Ignore and move on, because :
Posted by DeeLovesRed
I'm not one to really get in to people's relationship...... Also, I don't want her to turn around and say "why am I lying on her man"... So it's a real sticky situation for me...OR
2.
Posted by cheekyfaerie
you kinda hafta tell it like it is.click to expand
Ask yourself this - which is more important to you? Your friendship with S or the rumours that float around her?
P = 25 ?
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So recently I found out a friend of mine (let's call her S) had sex in front of her children.... Hmm I don't know how true it is yet..... I'm having mixed emotions about this.. I'll explain in a few..
A mutual friend of S and mine (let's call her J) called me to tell me about "something fuxked up"... Once I allowed J to explain the story I told her before I commented on the situation "Please DO NOT tell another soul about this incident.. It isn't a good message to spread around." Y'all know people love negativity, so I'm pretty sure she'll open her mouth.. UGH!!! Anyway, she told me that the guy who slept with S (let's call him P) called her to tell her "what happened".
Apparently, S slept over P's house with her children and the children were sleeping on an air mattress in P's room while they were having intercourse.... Now, the reason I'm coming on here is because I want to tell S what is being said... BUT I don't know how to tell her., like I don't have to mention names or anything.... However that's my friend and instead of her finding out from someone else, I want to tell her..
Also, I have mixed emotions because I don't know if the situation is 100% true.. I haven't spoken to S so I don't know if P is lying or making her out to be something she's not... Also, if the situation is true.. S has an Aries Mars like a couple of people I know... Do you think this is something an Arian Mars would do?