@Alana
21 Years1,000+ Posts
HELP ASAP DUNCANVILLE GANG
Oh sorry Alana*hugs*Also sorry I can't think of anything in terms of revenge.Wish I could help but nothings coming to mind in terms of it.
Hey, gotta go now but thanks my little pal Tiamat....just goes to show what a good mind and person you are.....will let you know tomoro how "the wrath of khan" went.
A x
A x
Well her did it......don't know how classy and gabor-ish it was sagitaurus! but it was pretty Alana-ish!and gud enuf I suppose!
I suppose if I had longer I could have plotted a mega-scheme! but I didn't as it had to be done last nite. I decided to do it the apple-pie way!!! i.e. butter him up to the nines and and then go for jugular!!!
We meet in his local favourite pub....I am about half an hour late...he keeps ringing and texting asking where am I. I don't respond. I actually was having a good conversation with the taxi-man - he asked what I was going to do for the evening and I told him!!! I arrive eventually.......he kisses my hand. Me is all dollied up in best bib and tucker....subtle cleavage:-) - you know how prudish virgos are sometimes of their women:-) Jeans tite as they can be and high boots:-)!!! As it turned out, there wasn't any other woman in the pub except me for some reason!!! Swaggered to the ladies a few times making sure all eye contact was on me...even though the eyes weren't attractive to me, if you know what I mean!!
I ask him all about his plans for his new apartment in a few weeks, how his mama is doing back home (I really do like/ed his mama!!), how his job is going, how his health etc. is......suddenly he says, why aren't you talking about yourself tonite....I reply - it's all about YOU tonite. A couple of times, he asks - is there something wrong - you don't seem to be looking at me (I suppose the eyes can't lie). I say I've something to tell you but let's leave it till later - let's leave the best till last!!! He says is it good or bad what you want to tell me??...I say, it's a surprise....he says surprises are always good!!!...I say - well this one is good for me anyway!!!!.....the banter continues.
Jugular time....I say - you used to be a gambling man so you know the odds for this..how many Alanas do you think there are in Dublin? He answers....I continue how many Mr. Virgos (his name!) do you think there are in Dublin? He answers....I continue and what are the odds of Alana knowing a certain (xxxxx won't name the particular lady in question!!!. When I say her name, he goes pale...very pale!!!! He asks me how I know of this certain lady - I don' tell him. I reply I am going to the ladies now - just to give you wiggle-room time!! and when I come back I will listen to your story about XXXX. He immediately goes outside for smoke.....comes back.
His story - listen he says, she is just a friend. I will tell you everything about her. I met her at a disco, SHE came on to him and gave him HER no! They text now and again. They've met about three times but just to talk!!! She has a boyfriend herself!!! He swears on his mother's life that they've never even kissed!!! I look him straight in the eyes and say you're a fcukin cheat and liar!! I say I could rant and rave all nite but I don't intend to because you're not worth it. With that me gets my coat and exits stage left from the bar. I walk along aimlessly on the street, 30 seconds later he has run after me, trying to kiss and hug and tell me he loves me.....she is just a friend!!! He says, listen I will ring her now and you can talk to her...I say, I don't think so!! For roughly 5 minutes he tries, is almost trying to carry me back to his place.....a few pepople pass by - I am sure they think to themselves...flamin' lu-las!!!! He asks me to come back please to his place and talk. I say no - I don't want to be with you, I don't love you. I again walk off and go in for last drink to another pub along the street....my phone keeps ringing, it's him but I don't answer. 5 minutes later someone comes behind me, it's Mr. Virgo - he asks if he can sit with me.......I say it's a free world!!!.....he sits, he talks......I pretend to listen but I am not......I am detaching...bar closes. Again he tries to drag me back to his place......taxi comes, I say...have a good life now, funny thing how
I suppose if I had longer I could have plotted a mega-scheme! but I didn't as it had to be done last nite. I decided to do it the apple-pie way!!! i.e. butter him up to the nines and and then go for jugular!!!
We meet in his local favourite pub....I am about half an hour late...he keeps ringing and texting asking where am I. I don't respond. I actually was having a good conversation with the taxi-man - he asked what I was going to do for the evening and I told him!!! I arrive eventually.......he kisses my hand. Me is all dollied up in best bib and tucker....subtle cleavage:-) - you know how prudish virgos are sometimes of their women:-) Jeans tite as they can be and high boots:-)!!! As it turned out, there wasn't any other woman in the pub except me for some reason!!! Swaggered to the ladies a few times making sure all eye contact was on me...even though the eyes weren't attractive to me, if you know what I mean!!
I ask him all about his plans for his new apartment in a few weeks, how his mama is doing back home (I really do like/ed his mama!!), how his job is going, how his health etc. is......suddenly he says, why aren't you talking about yourself tonite....I reply - it's all about YOU tonite. A couple of times, he asks - is there something wrong - you don't seem to be looking at me (I suppose the eyes can't lie). I say I've something to tell you but let's leave it till later - let's leave the best till last!!! He says is it good or bad what you want to tell me??...I say, it's a surprise....he says surprises are always good!!!...I say - well this one is good for me anyway!!!!.....the banter continues.
Jugular time....I say - you used to be a gambling man so you know the odds for this..how many Alanas do you think there are in Dublin? He answers....I continue how many Mr. Virgos (his name!) do you think there are in Dublin? He answers....I continue and what are the odds of Alana knowing a certain (xxxxx won't name the particular lady in question!!!. When I say her name, he goes pale...very pale!!!! He asks me how I know of this certain lady - I don' tell him. I reply I am going to the ladies now - just to give you wiggle-room time!! and when I come back I will listen to your story about XXXX. He immediately goes outside for smoke.....comes back.
His story - listen he says, she is just a friend. I will tell you everything about her. I met her at a disco, SHE came on to him and gave him HER no! They text now and again. They've met about three times but just to talk!!! She has a boyfriend herself!!! He swears on his mother's life that they've never even kissed!!! I look him straight in the eyes and say you're a fcukin cheat and liar!! I say I could rant and rave all nite but I don't intend to because you're not worth it. With that me gets my coat and exits stage left from the bar. I walk along aimlessly on the street, 30 seconds later he has run after me, trying to kiss and hug and tell me he loves me.....she is just a friend!!! He says, listen I will ring her now and you can talk to her...I say, I don't think so!! For roughly 5 minutes he tries, is almost trying to carry me back to his place.....a few pepople pass by - I am sure they think to themselves...flamin' lu-las!!!! He asks me to come back please to his place and talk. I say no - I don't want to be with you, I don't love you. I again walk off and go in for last drink to another pub along the street....my phone keeps ringing, it's him but I don't answer. 5 minutes later someone comes behind me, it's Mr. Virgo - he asks if he can sit with me.......I say it's a free world!!!.....he sits, he talks......I pretend to listen but I am not......I am detaching...bar closes. Again he tries to drag me back to his place......taxi comes, I say...have a good life now, funny thing how
My beloved lady alana..!
Sorry to hear this sad story.. The Virgo you are involved with is confused Virgo (I am sure he has some fishes in his sign somewhere)?
What is important to know is:
The most important person in your life is you?if you are not satisfied with what you?ve got... then leave it, and continue to be yourself and the way you wish to be?!
I am not judging your V-man, he is what he is and nothing can change him! But I am asking you ?as a good old friend? to consider adjustments of your feelings... (Not change, but adjustments).
As far as I know you... you are great if not the greatest..!
What I know is, when you LOVE... you really LOVE and sacrifice everything for whom you love...! I don?t doubt a second..! When you love... you really LOVE?!
And it saddens me to witness a fine human like you suffer this kind of difficulties.
I won?t dare to give you any suggestions, but?
You now the rest lady..
I wish you the best my lady.
🙂
Sorry to hear this sad story.. The Virgo you are involved with is confused Virgo (I am sure he has some fishes in his sign somewhere)?
What is important to know is:
The most important person in your life is you?if you are not satisfied with what you?ve got... then leave it, and continue to be yourself and the way you wish to be?!
I am not judging your V-man, he is what he is and nothing can change him! But I am asking you ?as a good old friend? to consider adjustments of your feelings... (Not change, but adjustments).
As far as I know you... you are great if not the greatest..!
What I know is, when you LOVE... you really LOVE and sacrifice everything for whom you love...! I don?t doubt a second..! When you love... you really LOVE?!
And it saddens me to witness a fine human like you suffer this kind of difficulties.
I won?t dare to give you any suggestions, but?
You now the rest lady..
I wish you the best my lady.
🙂
I hear you Q-bone and I understand what you are saying and I will make the necessary "adjustments" you speak of...........
Mr. V. just won't let it go - he's rang so many times today protesting his innocence but I don't care any more.
Just feel drained and tired from this whole saga and the "last maf. saga"!!! I am going to just forget everything and everyone - just for a few days to recharge and regroup and readjust:-)
But having spoken with you my special beauty, you have cheered me up considerably with your wise words,concern and hey, you even got me laughing!!!
Our "love-ship" is so a-floatxxxxxxxxxxxx
Butterfly kisses
A x
Mr. V. just won't let it go - he's rang so many times today protesting his innocence but I don't care any more.
Just feel drained and tired from this whole saga and the "last maf. saga"!!! I am going to just forget everything and everyone - just for a few days to recharge and regroup and readjust:-)
But having spoken with you my special beauty, you have cheered me up considerably with your wise words,concern and hey, you even got me laughing!!!
Our "love-ship" is so a-floatxxxxxxxxxxxx
Butterfly kisses
A x
Alana,I have to say this...I think that was marvelously well done...I am impressed,
I wish I had handled things the way you did..I ran away. 😢
I wish I had handled things the way you did..I ran away. 😢
My lovely lady Alana? let him SUFFER??..! and badly
You know the drills??.
And I am here just because of my beloved Alana.!
Off line or online?!
You know the drills??.
And I am here just because of my beloved Alana.!
Off line or online?!
Not bad,not bad at all,Alana.A little play with the prey before going for the kills a great last minute idea.With that over with,hopes for a speedy recovery for you,you deserve it.Turn the phone off if you gotta,whatever works best for.
Hey, thanks to everyone for all the nice comments and support -
Have put the phone on voicemail for a few days to deter......
Still feeling pretty dam good......
Had a strange dream about him last nite - I dreampt when I met him he had cut his pony-tail off and had short hair and then he dyed his hair blond!!!.......I would need Mr. Sigmund Freud here to help me decipher that one!!! but me hoping it's something to do with him losing his strength/power over me....just like Samsun lost his strength in the Bible!!!:-) when his locks were shorn:-)!!
Ciao for now my pals.
A x
Have put the phone on voicemail for a few days to deter......
Still feeling pretty dam good......
Had a strange dream about him last nite - I dreampt when I met him he had cut his pony-tail off and had short hair and then he dyed his hair blond!!!.......I would need Mr. Sigmund Freud here to help me decipher that one!!! but me hoping it's something to do with him losing his strength/power over me....just like Samsun lost his strength in the Bible!!!:-) when his locks were shorn:-)!!
Ciao for now my pals.
A x
Soooo Sorry to hear of your trouble and the heart break Mr. V has caused you. Guess some guys just dont know a good thing when they have it. Grass is always greener kind of thing ya know, to bad and so sad. Your one class act dont forget that ever kid. Hope when the hurt catches up with you it isnt just awful. But if it is we are her for you remember that ok. You did the right thing Alana, respect is something that should never be compromised by anyone, and you deserve that respect.
Take care, chin up, and keep smiling if you can alright.
TW2
Take care, chin up, and keep smiling if you can alright.
TW2
Christine my lov
I leave Llandrindod Wells Wales soon for I think Canterbury. I have some property my sister must attend to and sell.
I am going to try and return to driving the lorry about . I am hoping to pass the tart with the cart. hopeing to get the crossing at Holyhead, If I do and I can I will leave you a message and perhaps we can have a pint or two. I could even put up with the dip shit if you must drag him along.
by for no lov hope to see you soon.
I leave Llandrindod Wells Wales soon for I think Canterbury. I have some property my sister must attend to and sell.
I am going to try and return to driving the lorry about . I am hoping to pass the tart with the cart. hopeing to get the crossing at Holyhead, If I do and I can I will leave you a message and perhaps we can have a pint or two. I could even put up with the dip shit if you must drag him along.
by for no lov hope to see you soon.
Thank you once again twin2flame and jamesy T!!!!! It's a saturday nite and her is heading into city centre now to just have a girly nite!!! Two small bottles of wine in my bag:-) to smuggle into niteclub.....Mr. V. has rang twice again today adn even now as I write - "how are you?....are you ok?...to which I answer oh god, yes, I am fine!! and funny enuf I am fne !!!!!! I just say to him, I must go now my pal...ciao!!(flamin' nora!!!!!....why has everyone in the world got to be my pal - even my cheatin ex-lover!!!!!) So I look forward to that pint JT and keeping that chin up T2F:-)
Thank you my friends................so thank you.
A x
Thank you my friends................so thank you.
A x
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"I am doing fine.....and funnily enough still with Mr. Virgo - 3 years and 4 months officially!!!!I think you might remember he had/has a major gambling addiction - it used drive me crazy all the money he would flit away in those silly casinos etc. Anyway, a few months ago he lost alot of money, got stroppy in the casino and ended up appearing in court!!! I think he got the fright of his life (he broke out in psoriasis in his head with the worry...(served him right!!!).....I accompanied him to the court and eventually he was fined.....since then no more gambling.....nobody can believe it but he seems determined.....I'm getting my daily "love you" phonecalls, am waited on hand and foot with fine food/wine etc. when I visit - get as much jiggy-jiggy as I can handle:-) - yes, he still criticizes, worries over his health, leaves the odd nasty voicemail if he thinks I am not ansering his phonecalls on purpose!!as if I would do that!!!:-) but overall it's all guns and roses:-) - oh my, things are going too well me fears.....I'll probably be crying tomoro!!!!!"
Here's the scoop - the cry day has arrived!!! Just 3 hours ago I discovered Mr. Virgo has been cheating on me -I won't go into the nitty-gritty detail just now of the discovery!!! Sufficeth to say, he doesn't know I know yet and we are to meet tonite!
Now I have only two hours left in the office in computerland and I want anyone/everyone to give me advice on how/what to say to get the ultimate revenge and hurt him to the core, like he's hurt me. And yes I know I sound like a btich...but believe me, today I am that soldier!!!
Now please don't anyone tell me oh, you got to walk away with dignity blah blah.......I will at the end of the nite having said whatever I have to say and whatever I have to do......my head is all a-flutter and I can't think of a plan of revenge at all.....so I need your input/help and I need it now like I have never ever needed it before.
Her of the great mindgames and plans hasn't any!!!......it's up to yous kids....I need all your help a.s.a.p.
A x